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Question

I'm 17 yrs old.I'm deeply in love.Can't move on.
If u yet don't understand wat I hav typed ask again i'll mail it 2 u in a proper way .
See there is a girl from college dat i'm in love with.She means more than life 2 me.We met ,had fun 4 sum time.After sum months i proposed 2 her.She said NO.She said she wasn't ready 4 having commitments & dat i culd find a better girl.After a week or so i proposed 2 her again.She still said NO.But she said mayb after 12th grade. Now a days whenever i call her up,she says that she will call bak ,but she never does.She sent me a mail later saying that her MOM doesn't lik her speaking 2 guys & said that i shuld stop calling.But she wild speak 2 me thru her e-mail ID.Well she doesn't call me nor does she sends me any mails.I saw her last week she smiled at me & i walked away as her mom was next 2 her.
So wat shuld i do ?
Shuld i continue 2 love her ?My heart says 2 do so.
Does she love me ?
Does she feel the way that i feel ?

I didn't ask her 2 marry me !
I jus asked her ....................................
a commitment .
I am damn scared abt marriage n' all
U kno guys n' girls hav commitments in college n' all

Answer 1

dam dude i know how you feel there is NO way to move on unless u do all u can. if she still wont be with you then u have to move on. but i think u freaked her out a little by asking her to marry you. if you slow things down a little i think it will be easier for the both of you. I think you should mail her or whatever asking her if you have any chance with her and say that if you have the slightest chance then you will do whatever it takes to get her. aight man hope this helps im going through the same thing peace.

Answer 2

Family raise there kids different ways and theres nothing you can do about it. But you should stay freinds with her until she is old enough to make her own decisions. Never rush into marriage. You have plenty of time and she knows how you feel so don't push the issue or you'll run her off. Just be a freind to her and talk to her when she can talk. Respect her parents wishes. After 12 grade if she is still with her parents. Then get your parents to meet hers and ask if you can go places likes the movies etc. and suggest that your or her parents go with you two. This is a good way of earning there trust.

Answer 3

You're too young. 17yrs old........you've probably scared her away asking her to marry you not just once but twice already. That's way too fast for any girl at that age. She probably doesn't want to hurt your feelings so is saying her mom doesn't want her talking to any guys.......I think..........both of you are in highschool, and she's wanting to focus on just living life, having fun, doing her studies.........and then later on in life...think about having a boyfriend. You need to back off from all of this and try to move forward with your life. Take an interest up that you've always wanted to do , to better yourself. Pushing someone to love you back,.will drive them away even further. If she said i'll talk to you via email, then doesn't...........that is a big wakeup sign to say TIME TO MOVE FORWARD without her......She's not the one for you*

Answer 4

It sounds to me like you freaked her out since she was looking to just have fun and you were looking for something more. I think its time to move on, she sound like she doesn't mind being a friend to you but not a close one by the way she is continuing to ignore you.
Start over and move on, you're still young and need time to develope and mature more than where you are at right now.
Find yourself a hobby and get your mind off her, you'll find someone else who will give you the time when its right.

Answer 5

Even though you love her now, in a few years your ideas and thoughts about things will change. Take your time - don't rush into a marriage. Too many are splitting up! It's O.K. to speak to her mother and her when you see them together - be friendly, but don't expect love and marriage right now...

Answer 6

Dont continue to mail her, you will only appear pathetic. Ignore her and MOVE ON... You both are too young to get married or even be thinking about it. You shouldnt even CONSIDER marriage till you are in your mid twenties... Good luck

Answer 7

this question made me cry..you should talk to her parents if you love sher so much ask why they dont want boys to call her .yes,you should continue to love her,i cont say wether or not she loves you or not but i dont know why she wouldn't, you sound like a sweet person. talk to her,ask her how she feels at school,not on the phone.

Answer 8

Well, you are stuck. She does not feel the way that you do, but you have decided not to change or move on. You are answering your own question.

Answer 9

Sorry dog,
but this girl is trying to give you time to let it soak in that she is not interested. You should remember her and the good time you had but its time for you to move on.

Answer 10

your in love with her......but shes not in love with you.
if she wanted to get married she would have said yes the first time you asked her. and when a girl says that she has to stop talking to guys.....thats a load of bullshit. she just doesnt want to talk to you anymore thats why she said it.