Singles & Dating - 18 February 2007

6 mons. ago, my net b/f of over a year moved in with me. We get along great on a superficial kind of level. However, ultimately my intuition tells me not to trust him.

When he first moved in, he was drinking and I caught him flirting with other gals, online. He said it was just "play"....didn't mean anything.

But, what troubles me most is that he rarely wants to be intimate. And, he never gives me more than a light kiss or brief hug. He swears that he loves me, and that he finds me attractive.

He is 51, so I thought that maybe it was a medical problem. But, after a few months of trying to persuade him to go for a check up....he still hasn't went and keeps putting me off.

I ask you....do you think a guy can love you, and never wanna make love with you? I think he just needs a place to squat. He's pretty broke.

2007-02-18 21:32:27 · 21 answers · asked by treefrog 4

Me and my bloke recently broke up. I wanna stay mates but he isnt allowed to text me or talk to me as he deoesnt wanna rock the boat with his new missus. I wanna text him just for a chat but dont wanna be too pushy for a reply. Any ideas what I can say?

2007-02-18 21:31:01 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

what is the average length of your "thing"?
It seems like in sex shops they are making fun of the real sizes.
quite confusing, what is the real then.

Is it true that when you guys get exited, it becomes a little longer and tougher?
Sorry, hee-hee, just curious. I cannot ask this question from my close people.

2007-02-18 21:28:00 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

well,i love a guy bt v had been in love with anothr without evn knowin each othr properly,now v cant communicate properly coz of his schedule....do u think our love would survive without ne sort of communication 4 more than 5 yrs?????

2007-02-18 21:27:02 · 14 answers · asked by laila 1

I am 28 and if have been single for some time and happy. I cant say as I have been looking or even wanted a relationship. However recently I have kind of been missing that special bond, I am not sure that I want a full on relationship but would like to well, get to know someone, spend time and go out and things see what happens, at the same time I dont want to be leading anyone on! I thought about joining an internet dating site, or somthing like that what are your thoughts?

2007-02-18 21:26:23 · 6 answers · asked by djp6314 4

i dont understand girls
how do you know if a girl is ready for a relationship
(asking her out as my gf)
i like this girl and i think she likes me and i want to ask her out but i dont know if shes ready for a relationship or even if she likes me
also how do i know if a girl likes me as a boyfriend and not as a friend

2007-02-18 21:25:01 · 8 answers · asked by gex09 1

It is a very lonnnnnnnng story, but I did it because I feel it may make him realise that what we are doing isnt fun anymore. Ive tried to tell him already that we should cool it because I was getting hurt but he keeps dismissing my feelings. I figured if I told him something like this he may back off. I really like him but I cant stay the bit on the side and seeing as I could see it wasnt going nowhere because he is already involved with someone else I guess I had to go to drastic measures. What do y'all think?

2007-02-18 21:24:22 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

is a lovecard the perfect way to express my passion

2007-02-18 21:23:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I always have this guy friends but can never figure out would they ever want smt more just being friends? 'coz I always fall into them... how can I know that a guy who I am starting to be friends more might like me more than just a friend? you know what I mean?
thanks !

2007-02-18 21:16:38 · 6 answers · asked by annacita 1

. OK this guy is like so freaking attached to me, it's driving me crazy!! He says he will be soo heart broken if i leave him, and he would probably think that i was playing with his heart! which i was not! Because i never accepted any gift from him. Because we were only seeing each other for a month. he keeps telling me i'm soo pretty and there is no other girl in the world like me blah blah blah...toooo many love words. I really hate to be mean but it's just way too much! I feel like i can't breath! How do i tell him it's over as nice as possible

2007-02-18 21:14:52 · 18 answers · asked by kitty 3

Im 40 so u work out how old she is.

2007-02-18 21:13:05 · 15 answers · asked by sirocco blue 1

i;m almost 17 and I smoke a good amount of weed, would a guy my age find this unttractive to the point of not wanting to date me?

2007-02-18 21:09:32 · 10 answers · asked by powell 1

me and my bf have got to 3rd base and he amazing at everything but he claims he never been with a girl before and im his first everything and he a virgin but he seems to skilled at the stuff to be a virgin where else could he learned these skills so well

2007-02-18 21:06:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous

Wow! It was love at first email yesterday. We talked for the 1st time tonight. He's highly verbal, I'm more of a listener. He's fascinating! However, I was exhausted to the core before we even talked. Two hours into the conversation, I told him I must go to sleep and asked if we could close the conversation. As we were closing it, he went into his relationship philosophy. Beautiful as it was, I was now developing a serious lack-of-sleep headache. By the time we got off the phone (120 mins.) I was so frustrated. I didn't let on. I really like this guy, he was saying things of great value. We are starting what could be a beautiful relationship. Should I let this go and assert myself better, or is this frustration something I should lat him know about, in the interest of honestly sharing my feelings from the beginning?

2007-02-18 21:05:15 · 6 answers · asked by itry007 4

Ok well I there's this guy I really like and possibly love. We were together awhile back and I could've had the chance to get him back but blew it. I know he still wants me but he's waiting for my move. What should I do I am so scared.

2007-02-18 21:03:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

She's been having problems because her boyfriend broke up with her, and been talking to me about it, and i've had to dry her tears hundreds of times because he keeps hurting her more and more.

And i've been in love with her for ages now, and just don't know how to tell her that I love her, or if I even should bother.

Any advice on this?

2007-02-18 21:03:14 · 15 answers · asked by Montague_06 1

Now they are away for the week I want us to do something together of an evening that doesn't involve going out to eat or drink (as he's on a strict diet) or watching tv - any suggestions?

2007-02-18 21:03:12 · 14 answers · asked by luz2loz 3

2007-02-18 21:02:28 · 9 answers · asked by rSuper510 1

I've been seeing this gal now for 3 months...
Anyhows, weve been doing the normal stuff together, we generally take it in turns to pay for stuff, ill buy dinner, she'll buy cinema tickets, ect ect......

But at the moments she's skint (student) i dont have a problem paying for stuff, but she puts off doing stuff, B/C she has no money....
Is it all down to pride or something like that...?

We cant do 'nothing' for the next well 2 months...!

2007-02-18 20:59:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

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thanks
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2007-02-18 20:58:32 · 33 answers · asked by richardgriffindundee 2

last night I went on a date with a guy I met online, we have been in touch online and on the phone for about 2 months. He lives far from me so we agreed that he would stay at my place on the sofa as we were going for a couple of drinks, however we got a bit drunk and he ended up sleeping in my bed but we didn't have sex, he tried as any guy would I suppose, but I didn't let it happen. We got on really well and I felt that by having sex he'd lose interest and respect for me. I do regret having allowed him in my bed but was drunk and because I haven't seen anyone for a while it was nice to have someone to cuddle in bed but has he now got a bad impression of me?

2007-02-18 20:57:33 · 17 answers · asked by Liz S 1

I've asked a question that could fill a book, and I want to hear your views. I'm a 20-year-old college student and I can't seem to find men on the same level of emotional maturity that I'm at. Any suggestions? Is this difference about hormones? Culture?

Do these guys tend to change as they mature (as I hope)? Or am I just not finding the right ones?

2007-02-18 20:57:17 · 8 answers · asked by Dalarus 7

do they have noticeable mannerisms, wear novelty clothing, or smell a certain way? people, I need help!

2007-02-18 20:55:00 · 8 answers · asked by muppet 4

i'm currently on one... but we don't see each other that often... @_@

2007-02-18 20:53:30 · 12 answers · asked by riakatrinaflayug 1

I WAS SEEING HIM FOR 7 MONTHS, WE WERE SO CLOSE. BUT BROKE UP BECAUSE HE DIDN'T WANT ANY SERIOUS COMMITMENTS RIGHT NOW IN HIS LIFE AND FELT THAT HE WOULD BE A BETTER FRIEND THAN LOVER AT THIS MOMENT IN TIME, AS I DESERVE 100% HONESTY, COMMITMENT AND ATTENTION. SO I HAVE TRIED MOVING ON I HAVENT SEEN HIM SINCE THE BEGINNING OF JANUARY AND HAVEN'T SPOKEN TO HIM SINCE 2 WEEKS AGO WHEN HE CALLED ME TO ASK HOW MY NEW JOB WAS GOING AND HOW I WAS ETC. IT IS DRIVING ME INSANE, I AM GOING AWAY IN 2 WEEKS TO BARBADOS AS I NEED A BREAK, I KEEP CRYING ON THE WAY TO WORK, IN MY BED, AT WORK IN THE TOILETS. IT IS KILLING ME, WHAT CAN I DO TO BE GET OVER HIM AND BE HAPPY??

2007-02-18 20:52:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have lot of girls in our university..problem becoming famous among them....i can not simply talk with even a single girl in university.......note that i am honest...and good moral keeping person thats why i am facing this problem.......i feel shy...nervous, tension....etc...please help.......my age is running out .......and still i have no idea how to date...a girl in my university...

there were days i had nothing in university,,,,now i am sitting in my own office......all facilities available.....but of vain ....i am alone in this situation.....
my friends blame me for this by telling if they were in my place thay would have dozens of girls setting in this nice office.....
i am student at the same time i am doing my job........in the same department.....how lucky i am.......but why i am like this.....
my friends are jealous from me ....but i am nothing in this connection.....please help resolve........my tension....

2007-02-18 20:51:24 · 1 answers · asked by banyamin12 1

This the most difficult part for me when dating a new guy. I enjoy being with someone going out for dinners, movies or just spending nice relaxed time together without the sex that is (I love sex but I have to get to know the person first).

My question is, how soon or late should a girl / woman sleep with a new guy? The last guy I was dating lost interest in the relationship after having sex with him!!!

And why is it that men don't say that they are only interested in casual affairs and not relationships?

Am really confused and promised myself not to give in so easily next time!!!!


Thanks for your help.

2007-02-18 20:51:00 · 4 answers · asked by Lovely Lady 1

If a guy asks you to go out a couple times and you say no, he takes the hint and never bothers ya again. Then one day your out and about and you cross paths with this man again. We make some small talk and then part ways. Within that conversation you seem confused. It`s almost as if your saying to yourself "Why did`nt he ask me again?""Why is`nt he begging for my attention like every other guy I meet"

2007-02-18 20:43:25 · 10 answers · asked by bigpumpdaddy 4

do they think hes ugly?

2007-02-18 20:37:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Teach me!

2007-02-18 20:33:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous