Wow! It was love at first email yesterday. We talked for the 1st time tonight. He's highly verbal, I'm more of a listener. He's fascinating! However, I was exhausted to the core before we even talked. Two hours into the conversation, I told him I must go to sleep and asked if we could close the conversation. As we were closing it, he went into his relationship philosophy. Beautiful as it was, I was now developing a serious lack-of-sleep headache. By the time we got off the phone (120 mins.) I was so frustrated. I didn't let on. I really like this guy, he was saying things of great value. We are starting what could be a beautiful relationship. Should I let this go and assert myself better, or is this frustration something I should lat him know about, in the interest of honestly sharing my feelings from the beginning?
2007-02-18 21:05:15 · 6 answers · asked by itry007 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you were 'so frustrated'...but 'didnt let on'. not his fault he kept rambling on. you shouldve been more insistant, like say...hey, Im past my regular sleep time. I really want to remember what youre saying.... we restart this topic later.
no biggee. people sometimes talk a lot more when theyre nervous or have an idea. good luck
2007-02-18 21:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like he's been single for awhile and hasn't had anyone to talk to in a long time lol. Love on craigslist is hard lol us guys have a 9 out of 10 chance of accedentally emailing a spamer on there wanting us to sign up for so an so site.
I say give him another chance he was probably overly excited lol. But do what you feel is right.
2007-02-19 05:26:40 · answer #2 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Share your feelings. If you two are working things out, find a time for all the communication(just make sure its not on the wee hours..) in that way, you'll both learn how to give and take and manage your time. ^_^
2007-02-19 05:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by maila_venus9193 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds creepy as hell. I'm sure he's charming, but are you kidding me? You said "I'm tired, goodnight", and he just kept on talking? Quite the sweet serial killer you've found.
2007-02-19 05:08:45 · answer #4 · answered by Helpful Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless u r a great listener, he will be a big bore.
2007-02-19 05:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself, it may not beautiful anymore but atleast you were YOU
2007-02-19 05:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by MafiaGal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋