. OK this guy is like so freaking attached to me, it's driving me crazy!! He says he will be soo heart broken if i leave him, and he would probably think that i was playing with his heart! which i was not! Because i never accepted any gift from him. Because we were only seeing each other for a month. he keeps telling me i'm soo pretty and there is no other girl in the world like me blah blah blah...toooo many love words. I really hate to be mean but it's just way too much! I feel like i can't breath! How do i tell him it's over as nice as possible
2007-02-18 21:14:52 · 18 answers · asked by kitty 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you dating a car? Because my brakes failed last week.
And I feel like I need a break from all the drama.
2007-02-18 21:18:15 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Be honest and shut the door. Leave no confusion as to your decision.
I once had a bf years ago who was emotionally clingy and refused to let go, to the point where he became abusive and violent. He acted a lot like the guy you describe.
Forget the drama. Be clear, not mean. Tell this guy that you enjoyed the time you had together but are ready to move on and that it did not work out for you. Just make sure he gets the message and doesn't try to manipulate your emotions into distrusting your decision. Feelings will be hurt either way.
2007-02-18 21:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by Dalarus 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth. For every reason you give him, you give him a problem to fix. All you'll do is make him work harder. And if you give him a reason that he cannot fix, such as a physical characteristic or personality trait that is art of who he is, you risk killing his self confidence possibly forever.
The only way to do it is to explain to him you're simply not attracted to him. Although any way you break up wth someone is goping to be painful, telling them the truth without trying to give them reasons will ensure the cut heals cleanly. You'd be surprised, you might actually grow to be friends later on down the line.
Before yo go about this all, be sure it's what you want. If it's a simple issue, like he's not giving you enoug space, let him know your needs and ask him to date you on your terms.
2007-02-18 21:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by ZaKapitan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg. I have totally been through the same thing as you. Before I broke up with him, he would give me all these corny love letters. I mean it was cute at first.. but then it was too much!
I told my guy: "I'm sorry. You're really sweet. It means a lot to hear you say all these nice things about me. But right now, I really need some personal space. (expand on this)"
It's a pretty typical break up. but it's true so it works.
good luck!
2007-02-18 21:21:56 · answer #4 · answered by aebutton44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
particularly lots basically what it says..a gadget that forestalls the brakes from locking up and sending you right into a skid. The brakes right away seize and launch very immediately that should assist you maintain administration and stop in a right away line.
2016-10-02 09:18:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him it is all too overwhelming for you right now for anything serious with anyone right now, and hearing all of these nice things from him, granted it is nice to say, you just aren't ready for all of that, and you are sorry, but you just don't feel the same way, but who-ever he starts to date next will be a lucky girl, it just can't be you right now, you have your head clouded with other things and are not open to the idea at all, but thank you.
2007-02-18 21:21:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be more egoistic. You can't pair with the guy you are talking about. Better say it out in straight words than breaking his heart indeed.
2007-02-18 21:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by Ps N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool it and make him understand!!! I dont think he could have got so attached to you within just a month of seeing each other unless for a physical relationship... you would know the best way to put it across.... figure out a way which could please him and then make him see things thru your view....
2007-02-18 21:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by Crazy Crab 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him what is on your mind. i mean the truth hurts sometimes but he would really hate you if you just told him something just nice and sweet and it was the true reason why you dumped him......there is no real nice way to dump someone that really likes you. When you dump them no matter how nice you try to be they are still going to pissed off at you.so just tell him whats on your mind.
2007-02-18 21:21:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how he's acting really immature and your not down with him anymore....being mean might be the only way to get rid of him.
2007-02-18 21:18:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋