is a lovecard the perfect way to express my passion
2007-02-18 21:23:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah good idea.Carry on.
2007-02-18 21:26:20 · answer #1 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A love card is always a nice way to express your feelings, but it is too indirect for a first approach unless you can't otherwise do it in person.
Think about this: the more effort you put into expressing your feelings, the more she'll get the point about how strongly you feel. And you have to do it without coming off as obsessive.
There's one tried and true way to do it: Stop using this 'shy' excuse as a way to protect yourself from humilitaion, and just walk up to her and tell her how you feel. You love the girl! what are you waiting for? You'll feel a lot better after it's done, and you'll have a much better chance of actually getting the girl.
If you send her a card, flowers, or any other nice gesture, she'll never respect you as someone who's willing to give up his prde for her. So as yourself what's more important: her, or your dignity. And then go up to her and ask her out on a date already, or walk away with your dignity intact.
2007-02-19 05:33:11 · answer #2 · answered by ZaKapitan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Calvin,
A homemade or computer generated card would hit the spot for the lady you love. Express feelings of love and caring, not passion. The passion will come later, once the relationship has been established.
But by all means, make her a card and tell her how much you care for her.
Sometimes that means more than a diamond ring!
2007-02-19 05:28:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me personally, I find the trait of confidence to be very appealing. If a man is going to pursue me and desire to share his love with me...I'd want that man to be a man of confidence. Bringing up the courage to tell me personally, face to face, that he is feeling love for me would mean allot to me and speaks of him and his care, courage and honor as a man.
I suppose the second method of him expressing his love to me would be for him to write a note or present me with a special card...Yet, I would want him to present that note or card to me personally and sit with me while I read it so the same environment would be there just as if he had verbally expressed his love as I wrote above.
Love first expressed by an e-card. . . I'd find that very cold and impersonal. I keep in mind that if two mutually express love to one another and that love grows to marriage...I am going to share a relationship of love with communication. If a man I care for does not have the skills of communication during both the pleasant and unpleasant times of life. . . then that marriage would be very weak.
A man not being able to express emotions right in my presence while expressing love to me would be an indicator to me that he is not a man that can bring courage up within him and would not be very communicative...which is a crucial element in a marriage.
2007-02-19 05:31:19 · answer #4 · answered by onelight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi kelvin,
u must be talking to the girl. i think u are living in 70/80 decade. now the world has moved so fast that i am surprised to read ur question. tell directly to the girl that u love her. if she has also the same feeling then go ahead otherwise forget her.
2007-02-19 05:34:37 · answer #5 · answered by amarnath 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say : Hello, my future wife!
I think, it will sound both beautiful and wild.
If someone told me that, I think I would pay attention to a man with strong intentions to me.
These words will demonstrate that u care, u are egoistic, pationate, young and sexy lover.
2007-02-19 05:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋