Singles & Dating - 18 February 2007

What little time I had with a girlfriend I was happy,

When no girlfriend very sad.


When getting attentention from girls in clubs and parties and snog or kissy paw paw happy.

When the one nobody wants feel rejected and hurt and like dirt.

So I dont get it.


How can making your sister/daughter be like the one who no football team wants on their side in school , treated as though ugly.


Or stopping anyone love her or want to be with her so she is all lonly and feeling hurt and miserable all the time with no happiness.


Maybe getting suicidal or anorexic to hope guys like her or even suicidal or harming herself as she thinks she will never get with a guy.


or trying to control her with some forced arranged marriage like a human trafficing sex slave pimp for some honour idea.



how on earth is that protecting her?


Yes the guy may dump her & only want a one night stand. so do girls. If they like each other they meet up for seconds, thirds, loose count

2007-02-18 20:30:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

am gettin married this week, and ours is an arranged marriage, i had only seen him in chat and in photos and he looked ok.
but recently i met him in person and i have to say i was disappointed. and then he started talkin to me, and it all seemed fine, and my disappointment sort of faded.
not to be boastful, but i do look very pretty.
since he met me, he has been askin me how come i agreed to marry him since he is not a match for me.. he asks jokingly, but i kinda feel hurt when he does so, since i really do like him.. regardless of his looks.. and i dono wat to say when he asks that question.. and am worried that my not respondin might give him the wrong impression that may be i don really like him..
i ve told him many times that i like him as he is.. is he being insecure or jus funny ? although i don think its funny...
and how can i assure him that i love him no matter how he looks ?
wat do i tell him if he brings up this issue again ?

2007-02-18 20:27:39 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

have forgot where from should i change mail settings so i get 25 mails per page...thanks....

2007-02-18 20:27:39 · 1 answers · asked by banyamin12 1

i ahve just been rejected by this girl after a huge crush with her for 1 week.
How many ways to end our lovetorn lives PAINLESSLY?

2007-02-18 20:16:47 · 14 answers · asked by the_road_i_am_on 2

Let's say 100 girls aged 18-25 (who are not married but have boyfriends) were approached by a good-looking guy who introduced himself and then offered them an oral pleasure experience - with no strings attached. When I say "oral pleasure" I mean oral performed on the girl - not the other way around.

Question is....out of 100 girls asked, how many would say "yes" to this offer?

2007-02-18 20:14:50 · 14 answers · asked by Chris C 1

I'm 28 and there's this 34 yr old man I've been seeing since September last year. This valentine he didn't make an effort to get me anything. He did not get me a present during christmas also which made me so upset - I excused him then coz he's originally muslim. I've asked him why and all he said is that gifts are material things not showing affection. In my past relationships I was always being bought for gifts which made me feel special. The worst part is that he can afford to buy these things as he's from a rich family and holds a high position at his work place.
Apart from this issue I appreciate how he has introduced me to his friends and family despite our totally different social backgrounds. He only pays bills and the like. Should I still be seeing such a person

2007-02-18 20:12:47 · 14 answers · asked by ♥¢♥ 2

We are togather for 8 months.We started out becouse I had just finished a two year relashionship with someone I still love.he married someone else,although I knew all the time that I wasnt the only one.My present boyfriend offered me a stady secure relashionship.He is a very good man and he loves me.But all this time...I can't seem to fall for him.I often look at him and ask my self-what am I doing with this man,he is completely not my tipe,I can't imagine my future with him.I just love his attention and his reliance and I'm affraid to let him go now only from fear to be alone again,and I've been alone,it's not like I'm not used to it.I want a familly,but I can't imagine it with him.Please put your selfs in my shoes and tell me what would you do in my place.(I'm 32 ).Thanks

2007-02-18 20:11:09 · 16 answers · asked by skygirl 1

I need a free Online MMORPG Free dont give me links to website just names thanks

2007-02-18 20:09:24 · 6 answers · asked by GordonGekko 1

I was with a guy for 3 years but i had a feeling from year 2 that we werent meant to be. we went out for the second half of our relationship via distance and i ended it when i realised he wasnt what i wanted. People say I am attractive and can get whatever guy I want but half of the men out there i am not attracted to. they all seem too interested in sex, their cars, drinking or basically themselves. I want someone different, exciting, who cares for others and who understands my wishes as i will understand theres. I can't seem to fall for anyone. Am i destined to be lonely and happy alone? Am I too picky? am I too shy and this is holding me back from falling for one of these guys who could be a good man to me? or is it just about listening to my gut instinct that these guys interested arent the ones and i should wait until i find the find and he will come along. what do you think? any advice on finding theright one?!!!

2007-02-18 20:06:07 · 5 answers · asked by ppl_tell_me_im_insane 2

Ok, so I like this guy who is a little over 12 years older than me (I'm 22). We've been good friends for a while now, but for the past year I've liked him. We went out a couple of times, just the two of us to lunch and to dinners and stuff. We've also had many long conversations on the phone as well as in person (one went on for 4 hours... until about 4 a.m.) many of them talking about relationships and about some of our deepest secrets about our lives.The confusing thing is, we kinda stopped hanging out like we did, but he still shows the signs that he did before (smiling at me, making me laugh, standing close to one another, catching him looking at me, flirting back whenever I flirt.... things like that). I honestly think his friends have been saying negative things about me... which is another bump in the road for me. So now my question is...

Does this guy like me? And if so, what should I do about this situation? How do I go and make the next step without scaring him?

2007-02-18 20:05:40 · 9 answers · asked by CROWN_PRINCESS 1

2007-02-18 20:03:37 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-18 20:03:16 · 9 answers · asked by boo 1

Justs come out of a releaionship, where my girlfriend said the magic had gone, but the week before was still mad in love and has missed me. Had been going on for 4 months, I was her first serious boyfriend(36 years old) and she is (26). She is a honsest girl and was upset telling me and wants to say friends, so far I managed to do this, but its hard work and I under alot of other pressure (eg looking for a new job)

2007-02-18 20:01:44 · 8 answers · asked by timtam 1

I only want to be married to a nice lady one day, hopefully I find a good one to be with, but meanwhile...

I was uptown at a grocer, & some new guy to town approached me to talk, so we did for a bit, & he liked my scooter I made myself from one that someone had junked when it stopped working.

I thought nothing of it at the time, when he asked me to go to his house because he had a girlfriend?

But when I got ready to go, he tried to lock the door with that bar thing, and wanted his girlfriend to try to convince me to please stay a bit longer. He wanted to know if I will have a 3some with his girlfriend and him, but I didn't feel up for that, so I tried to leave.

This happened several times, but I didn't want to seem rude, so finally I made it out and left. I have not been back yet.

What should I have done? I didn't see it coming?
What would you have done if you were me?
Thanks!

2007-02-18 19:59:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

ive liked this guy for 2 years and i never got the nerve to ask him out. today i found out he moved to new york and is never coming back. he dropped out of school to go to the school of performing arts and i never even got the chance to say goodbye! im so sad and i already miss him...........i really liked him. probably more than i liked any other guy.....

2007-02-18 19:56:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

How do women prefer men to be in regards to pubic hair? Shaved off, cut short or left alone completely.

ALSO what about underarm hair. Do women prefer it shaved off completely or to have it on a guy?

ALSO would it be wierd for a guy to shave these regions.

2007-02-18 19:56:27 · 9 answers · asked by Hobgoblin 2

Does it bother you if a man's certain body part slightly curves to one side or the other?

2007-02-18 19:52:55 · 18 answers · asked by James 2

Guys, do you tell female friends they have made you excited?
Do you tell a girl when she gives you a woody?

Is a friend giving you a woody a statement of your
subliminal intentions toward her?
Will there be a relationship or
Friends with benefits or
remain just friends or what?

There has been no sexual contact yet.
However, about 6 months ago, he told me
someone who is jealous of me already
thinks he and I are sleeping together.

2007-02-18 19:51:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a woman has been going out with a man for 10years surely he should know her character, what she likes or doesn't like, what days she works, not to say that she needs to loose a few pounds when she actually has lost more than that. Men know how to wind a woman up when they want to, why can't they just be nice naturally without wanting anything in return.

2007-02-18 19:44:26 · 15 answers · asked by territinsel 3

2007-02-18 19:42:14 · 11 answers · asked by frosty t 1

im going out with a guy since da last 2 months...i just like him i dont love him....the problem is dat im working while hes not...and im studying also...n hence im nt able to make time for him...but he constantly keeps calling me up...n if i dont pick his calls he calls up my frnds n sometimes even at my workplace...this really irritates me...if i dont speak to him he tells me things like ill die right now if u dont call me up...or he tells his friends to make me understand....what has his frnds go 2 do in our relationship?????.....he behaves so kiddish sometimes.....just few hours back he called up my bst frnd n told her to tell me 2 spk to him....why his he behaving like dis???? should i break off with him??????sometimes he even tells me to leave my job 4 him...i cant do dat i hv to support my family n my younger brother

2007-02-18 19:41:34 · 5 answers · asked by cool girl 1

My ex and I hooked up, just for one night, and it was so passionate. When I said I still love him he just replied, I know. He then says I mustn't expeact too much from him? But he can phone me out of the blue for a drink and I must just go? Its silly coz I miss him so much so I go. He acts like he still cares, but he cant verbalize it. Why does he do that? We've been split up for 5 months now after a 3 year relationship. He loved me once. Or at least he said he did. Now I dont know what to do. Do I hang around hopeing he sorts himself out? Do I give him the space he wants? But at the same time I suffer because I miss him so much? Iv tried letting go and I just cant. For once I want to think with my heart and not with my head.

2007-02-18 19:40:28 · 15 answers · asked by chickyboo222 5

blue monday blues....who's feeling blue?

2007-02-18 19:37:04 · 8 answers · asked by totaly confused 1

theres this really hot guy in one of my classes! i can already tell that hes a major player but he always calls me sexy and beautiful and it always makes me fall for him. ive only heard him say that to one girl in that class and he called her sexy but i know she would never go out with him. hes a major flirt but not just to me. i know he had a 2 year relationship with a girl so he can commit. but im just scared to fall for him and him end up cheating on me. im not sure if he wants to go out with me. it seems like he wants to be friends with benifits. im confused. should i trust him? my sisters boyfriend was a player when they started dating but she changed him and now hes a one girl guy. could i change him like my sister changed her boyfriend? i like him so much and i dont know what to do!?!?!

2007-02-18 19:36:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i met this guy and we get along great! and in the past i have been very premiscuous, he doesnt know that, but after all that i dont want just the hit and run kinda thing, how do i sit him down and ask casually what we r all about? oh and by the way we have already .... "yeah" and we still talk and everything

2007-02-18 19:35:18 · 9 answers · asked by princess_prtty 1

2007-02-18 19:34:18 · 27 answers · asked by Ren 1

while havin sex...my husband wants me to do oral for him..while i ask him to do the same for me he says that there is smell in my genitals....to avoid the stench what shall i do? is there any cream i can use to avoid the smell.I alwys wash my intimate areas with soap after every activity...still he complains is there anything i can do to make him happy while doin oral?

2007-02-18 19:34:08 · 11 answers · asked by angela 2

2007-02-18 19:31:47 · 4 answers · asked by BAMA G 1

What can I say that doesn't come across as too aggressive. Like the type of thing that after I say it the girl thinks I'm sweet but can tell I didn't go out of my way to think up a real nice compliment.

aka, what to compliment and not make it look like you're tryin too hard

2007-02-18 19:31:12 · 9 answers · asked by x88x 2

hey this is really sad but i live in a town that has tons of married men an the girls at the college outnumber the guys 3 to 1. As you can tell we dont really have alot to choose from. But here it is. I am 22 and I have never kissed a guy. How am I supposed to learn? I feel so stupid. Do i ask a guy to teach me? Is that sexy?

2007-02-18 19:29:32 · 13 answers · asked by Silver 1