ive liked this guy for 2 years and i never got the nerve to ask him out. today i found out he moved to new york and is never coming back. he dropped out of school to go to the school of performing arts and i never even got the chance to say goodbye! im so sad and i already miss him...........i really liked him. probably more than i liked any other guy.....
2007-02-18 19:56:35 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Grow Up
2007-02-18 20:02:08 · answer #1 · answered by Reasonable 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is sad, but good!
You learn the hard way from first hand experience not to let opportunities go by. So the next time you meet someone you like, you WILL have the nerve to express your feelings toward him.
YES, there will be a next time. I know you're sad at the moment, but he's not the only cute guy in the world, you know? What's gone is gone. Cry yourself to sleep for a night or two. But after that, forget about him! You'll meet another guy. In fact, you'll FIND another guy.
That's right, don't be passive. Be pretty, be cheery, be clean, and go out there and flash lots of smile! Lots of guys will be AFTER YOU. Not the other way around. But don't forget to be smart either. Choose your guy wisely. Some are just there to take advantage of you, you know? Don't let them, okay?!
2007-02-18 20:27:42 · answer #2 · answered by Ario 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry your tears ( yes CRY your tears not DRY your tears), wash your face, do your hair and put on some makeup, get out there and find the guy who's waiting for you! If he meant so much you should've made a move. There's no good crying over spilt milk once it's all over the floor. Move on with your life and start exploring new possibilities. Holding a candle for this guy isn't going to bring him back, it will just make you miserable and you'll miss other opportunities that could make you happier than he ever would.
2007-02-18 20:02:02 · answer #3 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, and don't dwell on missed opportunities. Just learn from them. First lesson is don't take relationships for granted. Seize the moment when you have a chance with someone. If you love someone--or even liked someone, feel free to ask them out and to establish a good friendship. Second, try to find out where he is, find his mailing address, write him and let him know how you are feeling. Who knows? He may move back someday, or maybe you can move to NY when you are able, if things work out?
2007-02-18 20:04:02 · answer #4 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now it's time 2 grow up suga. opportunity has flew out the window
so u liked him, u didn't find a way 2 express Ur self when he was there .now he's gone get over it. wasn't much hope anyway he was going 2 leave. just remember next time u will b stronger and find the way of expressing Ur feeling's. but dont b slutty , just b Ur self ,and might not feel like u missed something if they have 2 go.p.s. if he got Ur phone number he may call u.
2007-02-18 20:19:06 · answer #5 · answered by sitting_in_th3_cut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a sad tale and quiet common. There is nothing you can do to ease your sorrow except time, and understanding what caused it. Now that you have lost at love, remember in future that if you care for someone, let them know. They may not return your feelings, but at least you will have been able to make them aware of how you felt before they are gone.
2007-02-18 20:09:05 · answer #6 · answered by penelopejanepitstop 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is sad indeed. In life one needs to treasure opportunities and not let them slipped by. In any case, take this as a learning lesson. The next time you like a guy, go forward and express your feeling.
2007-02-18 20:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by SGElite 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were late. you should have told him what you feel. anyway, move on, lady. no use moping around and feeling sad. there are other guys out there that you can like. in fact, who knows, you might one day find the man you're gonna love! go out with your friends. have fun. it's not the end of the world yet!
2007-02-18 20:01:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could get his number and call him or email him. You never know...he might end up moving back for some reason or you might end up in NY.
2007-02-18 20:01:25 · answer #9 · answered by So_many_questions 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry it happened to me before but im the one who moved...
I missed him too...
but i know u can find someone better or maybe just like him...
hope u get better....
2007-02-18 20:00:13 · answer #10 · answered by Pink*advice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋