Change in category...Guys would you ever say this to a female friend?

Question

Guys, do you tell female friends they have made you excited?
Do you tell a girl when she gives you a woody?

Is a friend giving you a woody a statement of your
subliminal intentions toward her?
Will there be a relationship or
Friends with benefits or
remain just friends or what?

There has been no sexual contact yet.
However, about 6 months ago, he told me
someone who is jealous of me already
thinks he and I are sleeping together.

His exact words were...
"You just started a fire!"
I said "No I didn't!"
He said "YES, YOU DID!!!!"
Woody is my word I thought yahoo would accept.
I thought "starting a fire" was a very creative term!

His exact words were...
"You just started a fire!"
I said "No I didn't!"
He said "YES, YOU DID!!!!"
Woody is my word I thought yahoo would accept.
I thought "starting a fire" was a very creative term!

Answer 1

Cool. :)

Feel flattered and feel special because they actually had the nerve to tell you personally how they are 'feeling'. Where you go for there, is your decision.

As for what happens after that, is depending on what both your expectations are. You will never know unless you either explore and/or ask.

Answer 2

Not really sure if I'd ever tell a girl that she's given me a woody. I guess I feel that it's somewhat confronting and I'm not sure how a girl would react.

I think I would go so far as to tell her that she's making me all horny or aroused or something if the circumstances were right ... if we were already getting intimate.

Don't quite know what it means in your situation except that there's this guy who wants to have sex with you.

I guess the fact that you're thinking about all this probably means you're open to his suggestion. :-)

I don't think it's subliminal. Guys are very direct. I'm sure if a guy came and told you that you gave him a woody, that's almost as good as saying that you're very sexy and how about hopping into bed together?

Is he angling for a relationship? Who knows! He just want sex.

Answer 3

I wouldn't put it quite like that. I would say to the female that, " I have interest in you in more ways than just friendship." If she wants more of an answer, I'd tell her, "You excite me." Saying "Woody" to a female is an admission that the guy has a limited imagination. I'd use more imagination and maturity in how I would feel towards the female.

Answer 4

There ARE ladies that are no longer jealous. yet specific, she possibly does have emotions for you. you will possibly desire to handle this subject quickly yet intently. you do no longer choose for her to examine into your question. you basically choose for her to respond to it. ladies make a mountain out of a mole hill at cases. If she's the jealous type she might no longer admit it. yet a minimum of this is accessible and he or she had her danger.

Answer 5

ive shown my woody to friends before.. but then again i am just weird.. haha but no I dont go sleeping with my friends.. good way to lose friends! people say nothing will change.. but they haven't done it.. or their friend is just a casual couch rompin buddy
so dont do it!

Answer 6

What exactly is the question here? You went from talking about boners to a general relationship question.

Answer 7

Doing that is a last ditch desperate plea. Don't get with a guy who does that.

Answer 8

it's hardly subliminal is it?
if he tells you you give him a hard on, then yes, he probably want to shag you.
if he gets one and doesn't tell you, it is just one of those things - it happens

Answer 9

No, i never say that.....
U should clear the problem by state the relationship betwen you and him....

Answer 10

Girls think about thinking. Guys think about sex. Period.