Singles & Dating - 18 February 2007

serious answers please. i decided i wanted to change my personal appearance. i think i will start wearing make up since i got a bunch for christmas. i dont usually wear it. i think i also might try to starghten my hair more often (its naturally straight but sometimes can b better). iwant to start looking my best. how should i look. what do 13-15 year old boys look for anyways?

2007-02-18 17:28:17 · 12 answers · asked by simplicity 2

My ex-gf wants to be friends straight away after leaving me for another guy. I mean I was heart-broken last month when she left me, I took it quite hard. Proberly means I loved her more but how can someone expect that and then tell me I am being arrogent because I am not phoning her??

2007-02-18 17:27:46 · 6 answers · asked by stephen b 1

you meet a guy who has a great personality; is tall, handsome,and is in his first year of having a decent paying job..........but has six children...........with four different women?!!!!!!!! what does that say about him in your opinion? he's not old but he's no spring chicken either.

2007-02-18 17:27:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-18 17:25:26 · 8 answers · asked by Jessica B 1

Am i paranoid? He is very handsome as i have heard many compliments on his looks. Is it because I know he has some friends that are girls and that they might flirt with him like they always do and make him do things that he doesn't want to do? I have taught him to be very resistant with high school girls and he has always listened. Please help!

2007-02-18 17:25:03 · 19 answers · asked by Backoff 2

do you think its better to always have a relationship like you've been dating your whole life but you eventally get married to someone or do you think its better to be single and have few relations and then get married to someone...

2007-02-18 17:22:21 · 12 answers · asked by scytherbug@sbcglobal.net 3

This happened a few years ago, i was 16. This girl i had liked for awhile started dating this drug user from our school. It was my birthday, i invited her to my party, and she said she couldn't come because she had to work, which i know was true. She said she'd make it up to me by going to lunch with me sometime. I thought that was kind of weird, since she had a b/f now...we had done things like that before, but i thought it had to stop, but i said OK anyway. So about a week later i called to try and take her up on the offer...and she acts like i'm out of line in suggesting such a thing...i'm like, it was YOUR idea! and then she tells me that i can just come over...but i KNOW that he is there...it's like gee, what is your goal? for me to come over, not knowing he's there, and then just be in the most awkward moment of my life? Has this ever happened to you?

2007-02-18 17:20:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

If a person your dating begins to act strangely because u might be coming on too strong, can u ask? or just let her have space?

2007-02-18 17:19:27 · 5 answers · asked by MHL 1

I like a girl at my school and we talk sometimes during biology. I like her a lot and she is beautiful and intelligent. I recently gave her a secret admirer's letter for Valentine's Day and I want to tell her that it is from me, but when is the best time to tell her and how do u tell her?

2007-02-18 17:19:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

see im about to go to an orientation camp and i dont know how to make the best first impression with people i have never met. also these people will be my classmates for the next year.
also if you can give any good conversational topics to talk about with attractive girls :P thanks lots

2007-02-18 17:18:27 · 3 answers · asked by Wilson J 4

ok u see me and my BF have kissed and he siad if i wanted to make-out to just do it ut the thing is i never had before. and well i am not really sure what to do and see he says not to worry and he will be ready when i am but i dont kno if i am but i wouldnt mind
this may sound immature but i need help
so my question is guys
what tings turn u on when making-out?
and what things turn u off when making-out?

2007-02-18 17:18:03 · 7 answers · asked by Taylor 2

i suck at decoding guys. please help

here's what i got
we met online
we talked and connected for two months, then both got scared because neither of us were ready for to be commited
we stopped talking
he returned home from duty and called me to see if i still wanted to meet him, 7 months later
we had the most comfortable weekend either of us had ever experienced
he left for texas saying "lets keep in touch"
we had a fight over me being a drama queen
we talked about our fight hearing each others side
we talk when i call him (he never calls me, says its cheaper for me)
he has me as the first girl (number 5 after 4 boys) on his myspace that has him in a relationship since moving me to # 5
he just posted a new picture (which he hasnt done since december) i took of him in my apartment

so..... what does all this mean? does he like me or am i crasping at straws because i like him so much?

oh yeah 1 more thing, he reffers to me as his subsitute girlfriend

2007-02-18 17:15:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex boyfriend broke up with me last November "because he had to move schools". 3 days later, he didn't have to move so he asked me out again. I said yes. Just 2 weeks ago, he dumped me again :because he had to move schools". The next day he didn't have to move schools... again. Today, as I was walking to catch the bus home, he asked me out again! Should I go out with him?

2007-02-18 17:15:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am divorced with two teenage children. They are old enough where they really arent a factor. The problem is that my boyfriend has hinted to marrige a few times....I am afraid that he may be getting ready to propose.....I love him but I dont know if I want to be married again....I like being financialy seperate...he is not real good with money........I also like living seperatly....hes sloppy where I am a very clean and organized person...etc. I am just afraid that if I accept the proposal I am going to end up broke with bad credit and being his maid....if I dont I am going to lose him. I have tried to talk to him about the cleaning thing......but the money thing I havent because I dont feel that it is my business......what should I do?

2007-02-18 17:13:53 · 10 answers · asked by ttazevert 2

COMPLEX.
I don't hear very well.
So do you think he meant his feelings were COMPLEX.
Or was he calling me COMPLEX as in "You're Tripping!"
Or was he telling me I have a COMPLEX?

What do you think?

2007-02-18 17:13:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and this girl had been on three dates. All of them went pretty well, and she seemed very interested in me. On Valentines Day, we both already had other plans, so I left her a small stuffed tiger with a poem I wrote for her inside of her mailbox. The poem was nothing lovy dovy, it just talked about how she was unique and about her personality. She called me to thank me and tell me how sweet I was and how I suprised her.

The next day, I asked her out again and she said, "I have class and then im goin out." i asked her what she had planned and she replied, "im goin out." That was four days ago and I haven't talked to her since.

Do you think the present might have been a bit too much?

2007-02-18 17:11:12 · 18 answers · asked by MHL 1

i need a real answer to this one ladies, becuase it just seems this way with every girl,

2007-02-18 17:10:55 · 8 answers · asked by badfoolishchap 1

Thats something that your boyfriend/girlfriend/ex/hookup did that was really sexy/seductive and unique.

Or something you do.

2007-02-18 17:10:03 · 2 answers · asked by I love you 2

i like a girl but i don't kno if she likes me

i talk to her on myspace IM a lot and when i see her in the halls at school she looks at me and smiles but she doesn't talk to me is this a sign she likes me?

i want to tell her i like her but don't kno how she will respond im in 10th grade and i need some help with this.

2007-02-18 17:09:52 · 4 answers · asked by :( 1

I met a guy at a bar and we got attracted to each other. We went on a date and we kept messaging each other. Even after the date, he sent me a text message saying that he had fun and he wants to meet up with me in the weekend on sunday. I text messaged him a day ago, saying that I will have my rehearsal between 4 and 7. Other than that we can meet up any time. No answer. In the break, I called him and left a voice mail if we are still on. No answer until 10ish pm. Then he text messages me saying that "endedn up going to NYC with my roommate, call when I come back." What is this? Did I get stood up? If he calls me what can I tell him. I like him but my sunday totally got blown off. Please some advice.

2007-02-18 17:09:04 · 14 answers · asked by joe b 1

2007-02-18 17:08:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I don't believe in love at first sight. I don't believe there is such thing called "love"

2007-02-18 17:05:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

Need some advice... me and my girl of 8 years have had a great relationship up until about 3 weeks ago when I was suspecting she was cheating on me, when she needed some help from a guy to get on the police department. She said all it was, was him helping her and nothing else. Yet, she was hiding text messages, calls, and emails.

Well everything went back to normal and I am fine. But I brought it up tonight, I told her just to tell me. I guess we took a "break" about 2 weeks ago and thats when I was suspecting maybe she messed around with him. She swore up and down she didn't.

Tonight, I said jokingly, "if we broke up, after 9 years, and the next day I had sex with another woman, would you be mad?" She said, "no, I would have no right to be, we weren't together." Keep in mind the few day break we took about 2 weeks ago.

Anyway, I know it comes down to trust, but she's done this before.

What do you all think??

2007-02-18 17:05:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know it seems a pretty strange question but whenever i make out with my BF I never know what to do with my legs. For example, when i am laying down stradling him with my legs do I wrap them around him or just chill? I always feel really awkward about it, like maybe i'm doing the wrong thing/silly thing. any words of wisdom?

2007-02-18 17:04:45 · 24 answers · asked by Portlandbabe 1

I am in the military in Africa. My boyfriend is a student in Europe. I would call him most of the time and I knew I would pay a lot, but not this much. When I asked him to help me pay he said he could not help me. I kicked him to the curb. I work and I am a student so I thought that he could get a job during his break or find money somewhere. We also went on vacation together and I paid for his flights and most of the meals and nights at the hotel. I hoped that he would be just as genorous with his money. Was I wrong for breaking up with him or is this just part of the European culture? He is from Luxembourg.

2007-02-18 17:04:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I finally realize that I love my boyfriend. The problem is, I lost contact w/ him awhile ago. What should I do?

2007-02-18 17:02:45 · 8 answers · asked by neume123 1

Can you still be Romantic and still be lustful after being together after 7 years and after having kids?

2007-02-18 17:02:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've realised i need to break up with my boyfriend cos he's not right for me. but it means being alone again which is hard to face. he;s so good to me, i love the constant companionship and care, and i'm going to miss it heaps. pls don't try and convince me to stay with him, because i know its the situation i'm in love with, not him. how can i learn to live without him, its gonna suck. also, how to stop myself getting back together with him when i'm feeling lonely...

2007-02-18 17:01:10 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

he's sensitive but not gay!!! but he was born in san fransico....HELP!!!

2007-02-18 17:00:57 · 11 answers · asked by bajanqueen781 1

2007-02-18 16:59:25 · 4 answers · asked by frankiemionetto 1