What do you tell a man who tries to get you to have a 3some with him & his wife or girlfriend?

Question

I only want to be married to a nice lady one day, hopefully I find a good one to be with, but meanwhile...

I was uptown at a grocer, & some new guy to town approached me to talk, so we did for a bit, & he liked my scooter I made myself from one that someone had junked when it stopped working.

I thought nothing of it at the time, when he asked me to go to his house because he had a girlfriend?

But when I got ready to go, he tried to lock the door with that bar thing, and wanted his girlfriend to try to convince me to please stay a bit longer. He wanted to know if I will have a 3some with his girlfriend and him, but I didn't feel up for that, so I tried to leave.

This happened several times, but I didn't want to seem rude, so finally I made it out and left. I have not been back yet.

What should I have done? I didn't see it coming?
What would you have done if you were me?
Thanks!

Answer 1

that is soo scary..what if they force to rape you? i mean..you shouldnt be soo "friendly" about it.....demand to leave..or say that you guys are doing something that is extremely wrong..and against someones will..etc etc...dont be soo naive...i only say that to protect you..how many people you ask...and then all of a sudden lock to doors so that nobody gets out? why are they even trying to force you (to stay that is)? unless they might try to force you to do it later...or drug you...etc etc....And about the rude part? ask them how they are going to tell it to the police.....lets see if the police thinks that you are rude....

Answer 2

You were right to leave and avoid them. Locking someone in is not the proper way to suggest a threesome. If it were me i would have done the same thing. But hey, if you ever do get married and your missus suggests a threesome, you know where to go. You could even go her one better and organise a foursome. Lol. Don't stress, you did right by saying no and leaving. Just watch the warning signs and try to avoid those situations from now on.

Answer 3

If I were you, I'd do it if I want to. If you enjoyed it, there is nothing wrong with going back there and doing it again. If you didn't really like it, just tell him you had enough of it or that you have a new girlfriend. Don't take part in trisomes only because you don't want to be rude.

Answer 4

You did the right thing. It was a creepy situation and you did your best to get out. If you're not comfortable with something, you don't have to do it. You acted in the right manner. Next time, don't talk to stranger and don't go to someone's house right away. There are loads of weirdos out there. Be careful.

Answer 5

Well, just trying not to be rude, if you are sacrificing your values.... I have nothin more to say...

If are not for it, you are not! No one can force you for it! you just had to put your foot down and say no instead of jus agreeing and giving up.... unless you wanted to experience that yourself!!

Think about it... if you did not want it, no one can force you!!

Answer 6

Yikes!!!!!! omg! first i would have asked nicely to please let me outside, then asked a bit harsher, then i would have called the cops. And i am soooooo glad you didnt agree to what they wanted you to do. That would have been the worst thing you could have possibly done!!

Answer 7

From one guy to another... I wouldn't do a 3some with another guy involved. Too weird. Way to weird.

Answer 8

i wouldnt have been to the house first of all. no to the threesome. i find it strange that he would try to lock you in once you try to leave but its you who doesnt want to seem rude? whats wrong with you? your dumb for even asking this question. thanks for the two points though!

Answer 9

Took out my cell phone and called 911, you did have it with you?

Answer 10

You tell him, your gods child, and if he keeps pushing something like this on you, gods punishment isnt going to be pretty on his sorry ***...