Ok well I there's this guy I really like and possibly love. We were together awhile back and I could've had the chance to get him back but blew it. I know he still wants me but he's waiting for my move. What should I do I am so scared.
2007-02-18 21:03:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you do nothing, you lose him forever.
If you tell him how you really feel, you might get Mr. Right.
It's really simple. What's the worst that could happen?
2007-02-18 21:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by A dad & a teacher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends in what culture your living in. if it's american, ... well, MOVE!!! but if it's my kind of culture enviroment it might sound desperate and very suspicious. it's not common unless you know each other very well inside out and nothing's obvious about your feelings.
let me see, ... if the guy really has feelings for you show your feelings by being the caring girl you are no need of spelling out in words. if he cares he'll understand and if he's really sure that he wants you for life then he'll make the decision. otherwise if he's not sure about his feelings either if it's love or physical attraction .... the kind we all men have. give him itme if he has said nothing, probably he's trying to make up his mind. maybe he's not sure, ... maybe he's stuck between choices which his heart can't decide. but you know him best. concider both his feelings also, don't push anything and don't bribe ... you know the one night thingy. it might work for a while but ...just for a while. in the end what might follow might be a heartbreak, you get hurt and building of walls on each side. i think you get the picture. if your goal is "forever". take time and be careful. but if it's temporary" well, .... do what ever your mind tells you (which always happens to be something crazy).
all the luck. ;-)
2007-02-19 05:24:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ao 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it and ask if you can get back together. It might be a bit scary to make the first move but in the end it would be worth it rather then letting him pass by
Good Luck!
2007-02-19 05:11:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. If he feels the same way about you then all is well. If he doesn't then you are going to worry yourself over something that isn't going to happen anyway.
2007-02-19 05:07:55 · answer #4 · answered by twilite44 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scared of him or guys in general.
2007-02-19 05:27:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you already been with him and split i dont think it will work out again once you finish a relationship you should stay finished i think. good luck anyway
2007-02-19 05:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you LOVE this man,then make a move.these chances won't keep happening.
2007-02-19 05:12:03 · answer #7 · answered by BaDonkaDonk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it!
2007-02-19 05:07:15 · answer #8 · answered by Lil Sparxz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋