me and my bf have got to 3rd base and he amazing at everything but he claims he never been with a girl before and im his first everything and he a virgin but he seems to skilled at the stuff to be a virgin where else could he learned these skills so well
2007-02-18 21:06:26 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unless he tells you otherwise you have no way of ever knowing the truth. You have to trust him or not be with him. Some people are just a little more skilled then others naturally! Even f he has, does it really matter? He is with you now!
2007-02-18 21:09:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have no reason to doubt him even if he's good at the first 3 bases. I remember when I was young. I was very skilled in many areas before I lost my virginity. I saved it for the right lady and never regretted waiting. Your boyfriend deserves to be honored for his honesty! It takes a lot of guts to admit it to the first girlfriend. Maybe he wants to save it for the right time and right lady. If it's you, help him along.
2007-02-18 21:15:14 · answer #2 · answered by gone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know the thing called "sexual chemistry"? Did you also know that some "tricks" are said to be a biological trait? Ahaha, it's sounds funny I know, but maybe your guy IS a virgin. Have you heard of "horny virgins"? They knock myself out! Some virgins are more skilled than the experienced ones!
2007-02-18 21:12:31 · answer #3 · answered by maila_venus9193 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't say because I have no clue how long you and boyfriend have been seeing each other or how much you trust each other. I think he is a virgin though, but you're not his first girl he's been to third base with. Or maybe he's just a natural... then you are very lucky :)
2007-02-18 21:11:53 · answer #4 · answered by aebutton44 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey my boyfriend was 39 and he was a virgin. No one can tell you for sure, but my boyfriend had bleeding problems in his penis the first few times we had sex. But for a fact I know he was a virgin. We are from India and most men are indeed virgins. But I had to test him no matter what. Ask him a hundred times and find out if he by mistake owns up to the truth. Then, observe if he has pain when you make out the first time. Normally, the skin undergoes some strain and it bleeds also. Just be on the safe side and find out for yourself.
2007-02-18 21:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by MafiaGal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're still using the "bases" who knows if you should be going any further . . . be CAREFUL! You don't know if he's actually been with anyone and you need to protect yourself!!!
Think of 2 things. Maybe he's been this far before, or maybe he's watched any movie on TV now a days and knows what he's doing because he's seen it, or maybe he just think it feels good?
If you are a virgin . . . anything might feel "skilled" because you've nothing to compare it too.
Just please protect yourself and don't do anything without getting tested and having him tested and using condoms!!!!
2007-02-18 21:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by kswildangel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Virginity is over rated in both men and women.
What's the diff, whether he is virgin or not?
Can he do the things you like? Do you like what he does? Enjoy. Forget about whether he was with another girl or not. He learned by watching movies, surfing the net or the like. Or, he has good imagination.
Any which way you cut it, he is good. He is for keeps. Don't blow it sista.
2007-02-18 21:23:46 · answer #7 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to believe your his first for everything if what you say is true. He may be a virgin but that doesn't mean he hasn't had some kind of sexual foreplay experience before. Then again maybe he's been taking classes
2007-02-18 21:10:52 · answer #8 · answered by Carrie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband accused me of the same.Please belive that he may be just skilled!I read lots of Cosmo books and blew my husbands mind.I have a few guy friends who read up on moves and postions and their chicks testify it pays off.Also to imagination does wonders.Either that or he could own some videos of the XXX kind and he wanted to see if normal poeple can do some of that stuff too!! Any way enjoy the ride...so to speak.
2007-02-18 21:10:33 · answer #9 · answered by doshidoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be. I sort of doubt it, but I wouldn't rule it out completely.
Guys that are great in bed are guys that are very in tune and attentive to the girl's reactions to every move. Hard to explain.
And Porn....NO. Porn doesn't teach you anything about what you're describing. *I haven't actually watched porn, but I have many friends that have. LOL.
But in this day and age, I don't know why you'd be concerned about whether he's a virigin or not. (except for the fact that he might have lied to you).
2007-02-18 21:14:40 · answer #10 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋