Singles & Dating - 15 February 2007

im 18 and i've been with my girlfriend for 6 months. We still live in the same city but we go to different universities. I see her bestfriend almost daily, and she always comes by my house (i live on my own) and we fool around (taking showers together, and hot tub). Its been going on everyday for the past 2 weeks and today my gf's best friend told me she wants to live with me WITHOUT my gf knowing. This gives her a free place to stay, and in return she said she'd clean the house and have sex as many times as i want. She also said if i dont comply she'll send the videotapes to my friends and family. I WILL NOT break up with my g/f and the relationship i have with her friend is just based on looks. should i keep this a secret and lead my life OR if i do confess to my g/f, i'll have my parents see my tape, no girlfriend and a girl that will try to ruin my car/house.... what should i do?

2007-02-15 18:13:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

that other persone really loves you back but has a special person already!

2007-02-15 18:10:07 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have this fear of fat girls, that i let my fear dictate what i says to female friends. i find myself constently passing fat jokes to girls who are not even close to fat. Im afraid that one of these days i will hurt someone. I dont know why, but this happens automatically.

2007-02-15 18:09:36 · 13 answers · asked by I LOVE YANKS & DESPISE REDNECKS 1

iam goin to married a 42 years virgin lady what type of cream is good to use not to heart

2007-02-15 18:09:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

does love mean anything anymore? I mean I've seen so many people say I love you and not mean it. am i the only one who thinks love is more than three words?

2007-02-15 18:09:21 · 10 answers · asked by ~*Zaidens Mommy*~ 3

...about sixteen different guys last year! Unless there are some she didn't mention. Several threesomes (2guys and herself), a couple married men, a few were strictly f*ck buddies, some were from failed relationships, and of course some one nite stands, too. Does this make her a slut? Some of my guy friends get laid all the time and would be very happy to get as much action as her. What I'm asking is-if you think she is a slut, is it because she's female?

2007-02-15 18:07:39 · 48 answers · asked by kissgirl 2

I've met so many girls that "never do that sort of thing" but usually have one or two exceptions in the course of their lives. My question is what spurred you to do that? A bad break up? Too much to drink? Unbridled physical attraction?

2007-02-15 18:07:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

When you have sex with someone that's not supposed to mean anything(no I'm not talking about strangers, I'm talking about friends), and after the sex, you love them and appreciate them on a deeper level, not expecting them to care about you or return the love either. That love and appreciation is strictly friends only. When they show they care about you, you feel touched and flattered.

Is that spiritual bonding?

2007-02-15 18:06:25 · 3 answers · asked by Butterfly 1

I saw my ex-gf with another guy in two different locations on one night on valentines day. I mean could it be any worst. I mean really. She dumped me for this guy she hardly knows and I was with her for 1.5 years. (friends for another 1.5 years before). It is just so painful to see her with another guy. I am still hurt and it is almost approching 2 months. When she phoned the other day, I said it is just too much to speak to her and I decided to tell her never to contact me again. She said I was childish. I mean I practically lived with her in her townhouse for 7 months. Only for her to find a "better" guy and quickly move on. Is that not using someone? I thought we were in a solid relationship? I mean was I being used until the "right" one comes along?

2007-02-15 18:04:58 · 8 answers · asked by stephen b 1

i hope u will mail me .bcoz there is only u who can understand my problem.and for u i think i can understand your problem

2007-02-15 18:04:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

These guys always ask me for sex...I don't dress that way or act easy. I hate it what can I do they are like flies..how can I make them go away?

2007-02-15 18:02:37 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Without them ever telling you they do?

2007-02-15 18:02:33 · 5 answers · asked by Butterfly 1

ok i saw my ex but we were both on our own and all he did was star at me... he sent me a message saying hey. but i didnt reply. last time i saw him (just looked at him walking past!!) he told everyone we slept together... i asked him why he said it and he said so my b/f would dump me so he could have me... does he like me or is this some sick game in his mind?

2007-02-15 18:01:15 · 4 answers · asked by young, hot, and Aussie! (chick) 2

just wondering.

2007-02-15 18:00:11 · 23 answers · asked by liliaceae_aletris 2

as all of you know there was Valentine's Day and my bf surprised me with flowers anda box of chocolate and then after he got off work he took me to this restaurant called teh Cheesecake Factory and we had dinner followed by him shopping with me at Victoria's Secret and buying me whatever i wanted. no problem, rt? wrong! i ended up spending the nt. at his place and it was not that romantic. i mean we cuddled and stuff but we did not have sex. i was sort of disappointed yet my bf acts as everything is ok and that nothing happened. i called some of my friends and asked them if i was a turn off or if i did something wrong and all of them said that my bf was just tired but how i can tell my bf that heck 2 days in a row we are cuddling and nothing more and it is annoying me i mean you guys get the idea, ne help! especially guys opinions would help a lot!

2007-02-15 17:58:13 · 18 answers · asked by icycrissy27blue 5

I'm about to see my love very soon after 5 months... i need something sweet and romantic to say or do when i first see her to let her know just how much i love her and how much i missed her... i want it to be no ones ever done or said to her before.. .i want to make it very special.... its a newer relationship so nothing too serious just to be safe.. don't wanna scare her off! haha

2007-02-15 17:58:05 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

GUYS!! I asked this question 15 minutes ago, but when I say that I've never had a boyfriend, I don't mean that I've never had sex. I've had sex with 3 guys, but I've never had a boyfriend, and I am 21 years old. Is this weird, attractive, or doesn't matter? Would it change your mind to date a girl like this? Thanks!

2007-02-15 17:56:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really do like my teacher. Im a junior in highschool and i think i have a HUGE crush on my teacher. He makes my day. He knows how to cheer me up, even if he doesn't know he's doing it! We have so much in common and I don't know what it is about him.
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Like this one time.. I went to his classroom and he was sitting down in his chair and I was standing by the door. He was "looking around the class" but I caught his eye and he was looking at me. He weakens me with his smile.

Also another time, he said "A way to pick up ladies is by showing them you got a nice ride" he looked at me and said "or the other way around". I wanted to make a comment back and say, "If i had a nice ride can I pick you up?" I know it may sound stupid but then just the thought of it made me laugh inside. Up to know im still curious to what he would have said if i did say that.

The bottom line is..what do i do? I mean he's young and HOTT!! Help Me...!

2007-02-15 17:52:42 · 17 answers · asked by We Match 1

2007-02-15 17:51:35 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Make him respectme more and be a good bf before he goes?? Im gonna wsit for him, but I want him to respect me and be worth waitingn for. He says he is stressed and thats why he is being mean..HELP

2007-02-15 17:51:15 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm friendly and pleasant, but don't want to be forward. I'm going to lunch tomorrow with him and another gal, to take him out as a "welcome to the company". Other than just being friendly, any advice on how to figure if he finds me attractive as well? Or since we work together, should I just give this a pass? Thanks for any insights.

2007-02-15 17:50:55 · 7 answers · asked by Esther 7

He said he will on friday! ?

2007-02-15 17:50:08 · 16 answers · asked by Nicole s 1

2007-02-15 17:47:21 · 14 answers · asked by Soraya 1

is it messed up to break up with your boyfriend Valentines Day night??

2007-02-15 17:47:09 · 14 answers · asked by Ashley E 1

2007-02-15 17:45:52 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

whenever we get in fights he calls his mom!! Little stupid fights! and she comes and yells at me for him saying Im a bad girlfriend and dont care about him etc?!?!?!
Tahn they both team up on me and its really awkward cause I dont wana yell at his mom...cause I have respect...
Im not just stickign up for myself, but I honestly am right half the time he calls her, and she makes it out like Im a total nutbag...help! What can I do?!!? I tell him to stop and he says he will and he doesnt!!?

2007-02-15 17:43:33 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

See i have a friend who is SOOO health conscious....she has like the perfect body, NOT EVEN CLOSE TO BEING FAT and if you say she is fat, she gets so defensive about it and goes nuts. I push her button all the time for being fat and she never gets mad at me. Do you think that one of these she will just burst at me? Am I being a jerk to her? cuz i think its just all fun and games between two friends.

2007-02-15 17:43:11 · 8 answers · asked by I LOVE YANKS & DESPISE REDNECKS 1

I was just wondering what guys thought of a girl who has never had a boyfriend before and is 21 years old. Is that weird or attractive or does it really matter? Would it change your mind on whether to date them or not? Thanks!

2007-02-15 17:42:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex broke up with me about two weeks ago and just wants to be friends. I know I should put major space between us but she hangs out with my friends. I live in an apartment complex and she goes and meets my friends that live there. I really really don't know what to do. I don't want to see her cause it's really hard. I don't want to distance myselft from my friends and I don't want to ask my friends not to hang out with her because it wouldn't be fair for the girl. Yes, I still care for that little cupcake and I feel retarted about it. What should I do?

2007-02-15 17:41:22 · 7 answers · asked by yo man 1

2007-02-15 17:40:53 · 18 answers · asked by dandy 3