Make him respectme more and be a good bf before he goes?? Im gonna wsit for him, but I want him to respect me and be worth waitingn for. He says he is stressed and thats why he is being mean..HELP
2007-02-15 17:51:15 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well sweetie if he does not respect you now he never will. Why wait around for someone who breaks the law? Go find someone who will respect you and their fellow man.
2007-02-15 17:54:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend will get plenty of sex in lockup and he won't even consider it cheating on you because he'll be using hairy manholes and it won't be with women. then when he gets out he'll bring you a nice STD as a present and that will be your reward for trying to be "worth waiting for". you'll do all the waiting and he may look down at the pale manhole he's thrusting in and out of and think about you every once in a while. that's just the way it goes in prison, honey.
may I suggest to you that if he can't even be nice to you for a little while before he goes away for 2 years, maybe you are wasting your time and banging your head against a brick wall for no good reason.
but you have a chance to be free. there will be lots of chances for you to meet other guys in the future. maybe you can go visit him and you can both tell each other about the guys you are meeting.
he will change a lot in the next 2 years, and mostly it won't be for the better. he'll come out a different man and he won't respect you or care about you or treat you well because how is he going to learn how to do that in prison?
sorry if I sound a little harsh but maybe you need to do a reality check.
2007-02-15 18:10:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, you'll get plenty of attention when he's locked up 23 hrs a day with nothing to do but call you and write letters. If he doesn't respect you now, why would you be willing to wait for him for 2 years?!? Im sure he is stressed, wouldn't you be? If he isn't paying attention to you, then who IS he focusing on? Alot of guys in jail have 2-3 gf's- they get more $ on their books that way. Dont be duhm.
2007-02-15 17:57:38 · answer #3 · answered by Erin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Bent, If he was paying attention to you, he wouldn't be going to jail. Sounds like trouble to me. I would move on and find a nice guy who will treat you with respect that you need so much. You cannot really have an relationship when one doesn't treat a person with respect. A Friend.
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2007-02-15 18:00:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't MAKE him do anything. All that you can do is love yourself to know how you deserve to be treated and hold him to that standard. If he really loves you--stressed or not--he will treat you with affection and respect. You DEFINITELY need to be supportive. However, if someone's walking all over you, don't lay down for them like a doormat and wonder why they're hurting you so badly. Don't demand respect. Command it with respect for him. If he can't give you back your due, then I guess going to jail will give him time to stew over your absence from his life will as well as the actions that put him there in the first place.
2007-02-15 18:04:20 · answer #5 · answered by melchuck29 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's treating you like crap now, why wait for him? He's being mean because he's an ***-hole....that's all......All he is going to do is write crazy letters, call and talk crappy to you, and demand you send money for his inmate account, telephone, drugs, etc.......He didn't respect the law, his parents, nor you.....Why not find you a real man and let the state take care of him from now on? I'm sure as soon as he catches that chain, gentlemen will be calling you that know how to treat a lady and you will be glad you got over his criminal disrespectful butt! Take care Baby-girl and Good luck!
2007-02-15 18:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing, Do not over text her. She will get annoyed and if you keep telling her "TAKE ME BACK I LOVE YOU." Learn here https://tr.im/GDCSv
She will not want you even more. You need to show her that you don't need her and can live your life without her. She still cares about you I am sure. Maybe try "flirting" with other girls around her to make her jealous. I know its bad, but if i saw my ex flirting with someone else it would make me REALLY ANGRY. However, you still need to show her you care about her too. Show her what she's missing and remind her of it. Be confident and don't show your broken heart. Try ignoring her? Girls hate that. You want her to come to you. Once she does this YOU have all the power.
She will realize what you mean to her and she will hopefully come crawling back. (I am in the same situation as you, except I am the girl trying to get my ex back). Try not to be so clingy and give her space. But try to be around so she sees you, but don't talk to her much. Keep convos short and if you txt her, which you shouldn't, then also keep it short and bland. This will be hard to do because you just want to let her in your life again, but you can't. If you show her that you are desperate to get her back, she won't go for it. Make her come to you and REMIND her of all that she is missing out on. Hope this helps. And trust me, I know how you feel. Girls usually come around easier than guys so you should be lucky. ughh wish i could say the same.
2016-07-19 12:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first difficulty you look as in case you're to sturdy of a individual for him to be beginning fights with you and calling you names! i additionally can tell which you quite love him sorry yet i cant say the comparable for him via fact if he loves you like he says he does he does no longer be fightin with you and calling you names even after he tells u that he sorry and that he would in no way do it back! if i've got been you i'd tell him which you think of yall p.c. a harm and mutually as yall are spending some time aside dont call him each and all of the time flow out along with your individuals and function exciting! cuz one among 2 issues are gonna ensue you will the two locate somebody that does love and appreciate you or your boyfriend will comprehend what he had after he misplaced it and attempt something to get you back and take care of you like he could! i truthfully desire i grew to become into any help sturdy success along with your subject!
2016-10-02 05:42:33 · answer #8 · answered by whiteford 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being mean because most criminals only think of themselves. Sorry but thats the direct answer to that...if anything he should be leaning on you for support...Two years is a long time and I'd predict you have a new bo before he gets out they way he's acting as he heads in...How your relationship needs be filled during this time? Sorry if this rubs you wrong...
2007-02-15 17:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by Scott L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to go outside and look around at the REAL WORLD. If you like to be abused then don't come on here asking silly questions. I let him kick the crap out of me before he goes to jail -you know for ole times sake. I wouldn't dump him and find someone that ACTUALLY cared about you and loved you for who you are-----NOOOOO I wait two years for the man of your dreams to get out so he can really show how much he cares by expecting you to support him while your working and he stays at home drinking beer. GOOD LUCK
2007-02-15 18:12:04 · answer #10 · answered by Josh S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i speak from personal experience, once he starts feeling lonely he will be promising you the stars and the moon. he will even want to marry you, its their way of making sure they have someone when they get out! if you honestly think he is worth it I say wait but if he's not then dont waste your time. all men are the same and he might be stressed but he should be treating you like a queen before he gets locked up and regrets not doing so :-) keep your head up!
2007-02-15 17:59:02 · answer #11 · answered by $TyLi$h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋