Singles & Dating - 15 February 2007

does he have underlying motives? what could they be?pls im so naive.....
My BF keeps making excuses 4 hurting my neck? what is he really trying 2 do, & get away with?
i told him dont touch my face, he keeps moving my face which causes my neck to unwillingly move right to left cusing me days of pain and in my shoulders, and neck just by him simply moving my face right or left unvoluntarily. i told him not 2 do this anymore and that its causing me pain, and he it now keeps happening and he keeps saying he likes touching my face. If your boyfriend gives you a box of opened, all ready eaten chocolates, could he be trying 2 poison you?
FOR VALENTINES DAY-2 months ago he told me he wanted revenge, and will not be satisfied until he gets it. he hurt my neck 3 times in the last 2 months and said it was an accident. they are fannie mae turtle chocolates some have dented, tiny holes in a few. maybe it was just manufactured that way.

2007-02-15 16:31:10 · 22 answers · asked by newport l 1

Guys - let's say you've finally met or have the chance to be with the "girl of your dreams" or the "girl you want to be with". She feels the same way you do about her (she adores, cares, and loves you) and everything is perfect BUT she can't committ to anything serious because of major things going on in her life (finishing her degree, just things an individual has to do on their own to grow up and fufill their dreams). She doesn't want to "risk" anything because she's protective of this relationship and doesn't want anything bad to happen. She thinks she'd be more "selfish" if she tried to have a relationship, with you being number 10 on her "priority list" than - she prefers do finish what she needs to do before she can whole heartdely be there for you - do you think this is unfair?

2007-02-15 16:30:14 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

My fiance always offers oral but I often shy away from it. It just doesn't feel as good as sex and often feels wierd to me. Is it just me? Do some women just not enjoy oral? Or is there something different I can tell him to do?

2007-02-15 16:27:54 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating this guy for about 4 years, we have never said I loe you to each other, he cheated on me about 6 months agao and I caught him, I went back to him and then I found out he went out with the same girl again, he told me that he would never do it again, then I caught him answering personal ads on the computer for nostrings attached, what do I do, I really care about him but he is not paying attention to me unless we are having sex, no affection, no emotions, is this just him or is he just using me, I need help in deciding what to do, I broke up with him on Saturday and it's killing me?

2007-02-15 16:27:36 · 14 answers · asked by dolphin 1

I love people...PERIOD
Black men are the best but they don't know it.
In my mind Asian men are smart but probably no smarter than most men.
Middle Eastern men are controlling... seems like they are.
Hispanic men are arrogant would-be Blacks. ..my opinion

2007-02-15 16:26:42 · 16 answers · asked by Jacks036 5

She starts eating a lot of sweets when she has PMS. I am terrified at the thought she is going to gain weight - as we all know its a huge turn-off... Luckily she has really short attention span so everytime she is reaching for ice-cream I call her cell phone from a private number and hang up... Then she forgets to eat it. But I need some fresh ideas.... HELP!

2007-02-15 16:26:00 · 18 answers · asked by Rona9 2

ex: the way you look at her? kiss her? how you hold her?

2007-02-15 16:24:06 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-15 16:23:19 · 6 answers · asked by Jamie 4

To get over being dumped by someone you really loved? It's been weeks and I still get all emotional. I think it would help if I knew WHY? But, I never found out. I just keep getting hung up on or letters sent back. I think that is mean. At least have the courtesy to tell me why! Oh well, life happens right?

2007-02-15 16:21:10 · 20 answers · asked by Fireman T 6

How much of the date do girls expect the guys to pay? I have gone on a few dates and she always wants to pay. I do not mind paying but then when we get to the movies she wants to pay as well. I might let her buy some popcorn but then she likes to sprinkls stuff on it that tastes wierd. When we get to the bowling alley he wants to be the one who takes off and puts on her shows? I guess us guys will never get you girls. Ha Ha

2007-02-15 16:18:18 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-02-15 16:18:17 · 6 answers · asked by Avenia's wolf 2

i am really shy and this girl who really isn't shy told me that she likes me. i don't know her very well but i want to have a relationship with her. she's a flirt though. and every time i see her get along with another guys so well it makes me really sad. (even though it shouldn't)i just care about her soo much. she's so sensitive and caring and beautiful and i don't want to do something stupid to make her think of me differently. it just confuses me when she can get along wit h all the other guys and not me. i did something for her for valentines day and she said she really liked it...but still i get mixed messages. how can i be sure she actually likes me? is there any sign i am missing? help please i don't wanna lose someone like her!

2007-02-15 16:17:48 · 10 answers · asked by joe p 1

Ok so I am in eighth grade and I broke up with my boyfriend (lets call him Stephen) then I got together with another guy (Blake) and I realized that I liked Stephan better. But he got a girlfriend (Stephanie) and now I dont know what to do. I cant even look at Stephan anymore. So now I am trying to flirt more with Blake and actually trying to like him more but we just dont have the connection. (p.s. i broke up withblake because he kept flirting with other girls right infront of me) So what should I do? Please help me.

2007-02-15 16:17:40 · 6 answers · asked by Brooke Zeo 2

He called me up at work to ask me if I would like to "eat in" for valentines day. Turns out he had a $5 gift certificate from a local pizzeria and I found out after the fact, he had asked his 17 and 18 yr old kids to go along. They declined.
We stopped by a dollar store on our way to buy something he said he needed. I passed by a box of chocolates and noticed they were left over on the clearance rak from Christmas and never really thought much except I wondered who would buy them now since Christmas is way over.
We finally arrive at the pizza joint and I notice him fumbling with something under the table. Next thing I know, he is under the table picking up chocolates he dumped all over the floor. He finally gets up and hands me this box of chocolates I just saw at the dollar store along with a card.
The card says something corny like " Happy Valentines day Sweetheart" and some other stupid old people stuff. He signed the card "thanks" Andy.
Would you be offended or what?

2007-02-15 16:17:11 · 3 answers · asked by happydawg 6

would you pull down his pants, tease him and expose him or would you accept it.

2007-02-15 16:17:05 · 1 answers · asked by timmy h 2

ok well ive been going out with my boyfriend for almost 3 months..but i havent seen him for 2 months because hes been in the hospital for depression issues.well i recently met this really great guy and i really like him..i thought nothing of it because i really like my boyfriend..but i cut my hair real short and he yelled at me about it, which i though was really f***ed up.also my boyfriend really likes me he claims to love me but i just dont know anymore...well the real question is...is it wrong of me to break up with my boyfriend for this other guy i really like, when i know this new guy might cheat on me.
and yes i know the obvious thing is too just do what seems right to me..whatever will make me happy..but i just want oppinions on this cuase i do need help.

2007-02-15 16:15:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

she's a tease, yet she seems to be nicer to me... either that or im not watching how much she "flirts" with other guys. so what are signs that girls give to guys who they like?

2007-02-15 16:15:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Person X (can't say) told a random guy at the bar whom she talked to ALL night that if she weren't engaged she'd go home with him... and then gave him her number which I think was her real number...

2007-02-15 16:14:29 · 16 answers · asked by Shannon Kay 2

ok, want to know something do guys just have sex for the fun of it. Or Do they really like the person their having sex with? I want to know because It happen to someone i know n just want to know if he really likes the girl when their havin sex.

2007-02-15 16:13:38 · 15 answers · asked by LiL'BiNt 3

my gf and i are ready to go a little further together (not all the way, but further) but we both are still in high school and live with parents and sisters and we can never be truely alone. we both want this but dont know how to do it.

we cant be in a car because its winter and its freezing and both our cars dont have good heating
we cant be in our basements because both of our parents like to "check" on us every once in a while.

any tricks or advice?
thank you soo much!!

2007-02-15 16:13:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it a good thing?

2007-02-15 16:12:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex contacted me again after not seeing or speaking to eachother for 4 years(we had a clean split we just didn't have the opportunity to keep in touch.) he's now married and has a kid. he said he has never stopped thinking about me and never stopped loving me. i feel the exact same way...i know i shouldn't/can't do anything about it. any advice to what i can do?

2007-02-15 16:12:10 · 9 answers · asked by NIC 3

2007-02-15 16:11:57 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

So I met a great guy and we have incredible chemistry. He's nearly 20 years older and lives in France. I visited him recently and sparks flew, but now I'm home and miss him terribly. We're hoping to see each other periodically (4-6 weeks?) and continue to date locally. We're both grown ups (I'm 33 he's 52)...

I dunno... do we have a chance in hell of making it work, or should I consider this more of a long distance fling?

Also: are there any french guys that can tell me about any stereotypes the French have about California girls? Thanks!

2007-02-15 16:11:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

that when you'e on the first date with a guy you like you're wondering if he is going to kiss you???

2007-02-15 16:10:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

We make out, that was fun for the first 5 or 6 times....but its not as fun after that. I've hinted around doing other stuff but she doesnt want to. Im getting a little bored but its not because im starting not to like her, because i do, I love her even more than ever....She said she doesnt want to rush anything, but then at other times she jokes about "other stuff". Im confused, sometimes i think she wants to do other stuff but then sometimes im positive she doesnt. What do i do? By the way, we're 16

2007-02-15 16:10:09 · 5 answers · asked by Ryu Kuramoto 1

i am a virgin and have not been treated the best by guys, most guys just want to **** me because i am a virgin. why? what is it about virgins that make guys act like idots?

2007-02-15 16:09:46 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi again, i have another girl in my sight. she more of the mysterious type.. at times she wants to talk and the other she just keeps to herself... what should i do to make this mysterious girl like me.

2007-02-15 16:08:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

au naturel, better?

2007-02-15 16:06:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

I planned this great date on Valentines Day for my girlfriend but when we got to the strip club she slapped me and drove home (we took her car there because I don't have a car) without me. As soon as I got home, about three hours later, I called her but she wouldn't pick up. Why won't she talk to me anymore? Doesn't everyone love the strip club?

2007-02-15 16:06:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous