Hi again, i have another girl in my sight. she more of the mysterious type.. at times she wants to talk and the other she just keeps to herself... what should i do to make this mysterious girl like me.
2007-02-15 16:08:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you want to make your dating life a whole
lot better and easier, then stop and think about
your behavior... and resolve right now to stop
acting like a WUSS for the rest of your life.
Being "nice" and "accommodating" and
"understanding" is great for friendships and
social relationships, but it's HORRIBLE for
ATTRACTION.
An interesting, attractive woman doesn't want a
guy that she can push around. She doesn't want a
guy who does what she wants him to do. She doesn't
want a little boy that she can train and raise.
An interesting, attractive woman wants a MAN.
This doesn't make LOGICAL sense, I know. But
it's the truth. These submissive qualities will
only work in attracting a woman IF SHE LIKES
DRESSING UP IN LEATHER AND WHIPPING HER MAN... AND
CHARGING $400.00 AN HOUR!
And my guess is that this isn't the kind of
woman that you're looking for.
2007-02-15 17:35:43 · answer #1 · answered by Scott L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In dating, you GAIN a lot, even though some of the experiences are bad. You learn so much about how to interact with the opposite sex. You learn what you like in a girl and what you don't like. And sometimes that means a couple of broken hearts and hurt feelings along the way. With this girl, just be there and be willing to listen. When she isn't in a talkative mood, smile at her and ask what kind of a day she's having. If she says she's having a good day, tell her "That's great!". If she's having a bad day, tell her "I hope it gets better, and I've got a shoulder to lean on if you want to talk." She should like you a lot if she knows you genuinely care. That's what we all want - - - just someone who really cares. Good luck!
2007-02-16 00:19:07 · answer #2 · answered by TPhi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be your self...have you asked her out...that is the first step. If your shy then just flirt with her, show her your interested. But don't come across needy or desperate. if you notice you have something in common i.e. music, film, sports...use that to connect with her. And from recent experience be genuine. Show interest but then maybe one day don't pay as much attention to her (if you see her on a daily bases i.e. work or school) if not then, then just don't be available all the time but still make time for her. dating is tricky :)
2007-02-16 00:17:08 · answer #3 · answered by Jessica C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you cant make someone like you. Try talking to her even when you think she doesnt want to. Show her you are interested in her without coming off sleazy. Goodluck!!!
2007-02-16 00:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by Kiara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself.
and talk to her WHEN SHE IS TALKING and ask if she is just quiet,shy,runs out of conversation or does she really like to keep things to her self????
2007-02-16 00:16:03 · answer #5 · answered by priscilla l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
another girl? cant make every1 to fancy u n u dont need to!
2007-02-16 00:12:12 · answer #6 · answered by iyalcf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out and take it from there. Good luck! =)
2007-02-16 00:12:41 · answer #7 · answered by Allie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out Dummy!!
2007-02-16 00:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by vox179 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her..then she will come running
2007-02-16 00:12:06 · answer #9 · answered by Bad Mood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋