My ex broke up with me about two weeks ago and just wants to be friends. I know I should put major space between us but she hangs out with my friends. I live in an apartment complex and she goes and meets my friends that live there. I really really don't know what to do. I don't want to see her cause it's really hard. I don't want to distance myselft from my friends and I don't want to ask my friends not to hang out with her because it wouldn't be fair for the girl. Yes, I still care for that little cupcake and I feel retarted about it. What should I do?
2007-02-15 17:41:22 · 7 answers · asked by yo man 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She's your "X" - do nothing.
2007-02-15 17:45:09 · answer #1 · answered by dghrtyk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are sad and hurting about the break-up, and I do applaud you for your maturity for not putting restrictions on your friends and former girlfriend.
It takes a little time to heal. You may want to see your friends in a more intimate setting or in small groups rather than in large social gatherings. Do some things that you enjoy with friends, take care of yourself and be kind to yourself.
As you get busy living and taking care of yourself, you will stop constantly thinking about the ended relationship. The past is a gift of nostalgia, the future is promised to no one, so enjoy your life in this present moment doing what you enjoy!
Kind regards.
2007-02-16 01:57:37 · answer #2 · answered by teach_empathy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey--break ups are a part of life--it doesn't mean someone has to explode or move or disappear because they might see the ex once in a while---relax, say HI and get on with your life---you are wasting time over nothing. Maturity and respect will get you through this--just be polite and cordial---HELLO how are you?? That's all you have to do. get going and forget this stuff. You can't demand your friends do anything--especially forcing them to ignore a pal---get off of it--they don't care so why should you??It's hard??? Of course it is--but you are making it harder---grow up and see this for what it is.Stop the drama and move on.
2007-02-16 01:51:03 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man i feel for u! try to get over her and get a new gf! or u just either deal with it or just say bye bye to friends, maybe put a night oit for ur self to chill watch some movies then one day tell ur firends mani miss just the (amount of numbers of ur friends, excluding her) just hangin out we should do some stuff together just the ___ of us.
2007-02-16 01:47:10 · answer #4 · answered by i luv u, tho u broke my heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand your situation. Find yourself a woman. That's the best thing you can do. Your next woman will obstruct your view of your ex.
2007-02-16 01:45:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is your ex,she can do whatever she wants.
If you are so concerned,means you still care for her.
2007-02-16 01:48:27 · answer #6 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
concentrate on yourself, if you have to distance yourself from her and your friends, if they are your friends they will understand. hopefully you can adjust to hanging around your friends and her as well.
good luck
2007-02-16 01:46:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋