I was just wondering what guys thought of a girl who has never had a boyfriend before and is 21 years old. Is that weird or attractive or does it really matter? Would it change your mind on whether to date them or not? Thanks!
2007-02-15 17:42:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is something to be proud of. Promiscuity is far easier. Most men would rather marry a virgin than a gal who has "made the rounds". Those that claim otherwise are probably lying.
2007-02-15 17:50:39 · answer #1 · answered by Yowdy 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well it would be a turn on most generally ,,,, If you are a virgin then you have something the guys want ,,, Don't be so ready to give it up ,,,, Proper respect is the issue here ,,,, Most guys your age let their glands do their thinking for them ,,,, There are allot of women that say they fervently wish they would have waited for marriage ,,,, Virginity is a very special gift a girl has to offer the man she loves ,,,, If you've given it away to some jerk on a fly by night date or a go no where relationship it's gone ,,,, There is no taking your actions back and there is no getting your virginity back either ,,,, It's gone for ever and so is your chance to give your special gift to the man you will eventually truly love ,,,, You said you are 21 ,,,, Well there is no hurry ,,,, You've held on to it this long ,,,, It's not going to hurt you to hold on to it long enough to meet Mr Right ,,,, Don't lose it in a one night stand or a 4 week go no where relationship or any kind of a relationship that doesn't lead to marriage ,,,, Wait till after you are married ,,,, If he can't wait and he pressures you then he's not the kind of guy you'd want anyway ,,,, Some guys will say or do anything in order to get what they want including getting engaged ,,,, Allot of them think that getting engaged is all thats necessary ,,,,And if they get what they want before they are married they sometimes figure out a way to reneg on the ceremony if getting engaged was all it took get what he was after ,,,, If he can't or doesn't want to wait then he isn't the kind of man you really want ,,,, Like I said earlier respect is the issue ,,,,If he has the proper love and respect for you then he will also respect your wishes ,,,, Yoda told you this ,,,,
2007-02-15 19:01:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
It depends, has she not had a boyfriend because her face looks like it caught fire and was beat out with a shovel???? Unchartered territory is definately a plus, but if she's just plain ugly then hell no. 21 and no boyfriend just sounds a little weird I think she's not telling the truth.
2007-02-15 18:18:17 · answer #3 · answered by jwplaster 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
means they've prolly had a girlfriend then.... in that case, very hot!
lol, no, it kinda throws guys off, because thats kind of a conversation-stopper. on the other hand, it shows that she's serious, and not easy to pick up. if a guy wants a girl like that, chances are he's going to have to work his tail off.
2007-02-15 17:48:31 · answer #4 · answered by rete_stradale 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, it would be a huge turnoff... I would think she would have a low sex drive and be very uptight. BUT it would also depend on the girl, you never know
2007-02-15 19:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by Shakespeare, William 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Its a big turn on.I guess its great to have a woman who has been untouched and 21 thats something cool.Chastity is cool.I love it.
2007-02-15 17:46:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 1⤋
Turn-on however it presents obvious questions such as Why has she never had a boyfriend before? Or Will she leave me as soon as she gains confidence since I am her first boyfriend?
2007-02-15 17:48:24 · answer #7 · answered by TCSO 5 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It would be a very turn on for me personally if she's a virgin. That means she's still fresh. Fresh girls always taste best. I don't want an over-used girl who has been with more than 3 guys. Now why do I say that? Even if the girl is hot, but the quality is no longer there, her vagina would be too loose. It's like driving a rental Mercedez. I would respect & treasure a girl more if she's a virgin & save her virginity for me.
2007-02-15 17:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by Infinite 4 · 4⤊ 6⤋
no it just means that you are waiting for Mr. right to come along no it wouldn't change my mind no boy friends but are you a virgin
2007-02-15 17:47:45 · answer #9 · answered by KJ 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Younger guys tend to find that attractive in the sense of being the first one to hit it.
More mature guys find it un appealing because it shows you have no experience in managing a relationship.
p.s. I'm a mature guy.
2007-02-15 17:48:29 · answer #10 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 1⤊ 5⤋