Singles & Dating - 4 January 2007

well it might help if most of my girls weren't friends but most of them i just hang out with because there nice and i don't wanna hurt there feelings....... so what do u do when they start falling for u and saying they think ur the one they've been looking for?

2007-01-04 15:29:41 · 6 answers · asked by Doc h 1

I've been w\ my bf for 3 and a half months tonight. But the past few days he talks about his ex gf. He's 17. I'm 15. He doesn't seem like the guy that will cheat. But I've been cheated on so much IDK what to believe anymore. I trust him and all. But I still wonder. I know him and his ex are friends. But when he says he's going to her house at 3:00 after skating my suspicsion begins to rise. How should I ask him? What shall I do?

2007-01-04 15:28:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm seeing this guy but he just wants to be casual about it. We are attracted to each other sleeping together but are not in an exclusive r/ship. Well my ex-bf kept calling me on my cell phone when I was with this guy. I didn't answer the phone. The guy was getting annoyed that my ex kept calling and I said I should call him back and he didn't want me to.

Was he being unreasonable?? Is he jealous?? If this is truly just a Friend with Benefits situation he shouldn't be trying to get in the way of mine and my ex's r/ship, right??

2007-01-04 15:27:36 · 7 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1

I broke it off with a guy I was with for only 8 mo. last spring b/c it was long distance and I have a BZ schedule but I happen to get into school not even 15 min. away from him so I wanted to try and make it work ( we kept in touch) and I moved here in Aug. I even stayed with him for a week when I got here but what i did not know then is that he did not trust me and I guess I really hurt him so being a typical guy he was being mean so I backed off, so by doing that he thought I used him. We been out a few times but he seems distant not like he used to be. I really want to be with him and I mailed him a card with a letter today telling him how I felt about our situation but waiting for days to past became to intense I have called him twice in the last hr he didnt answer but I changed my # mon. so he MIGHT just not be answerin b/c he doesn't know the #. Should I back off completely move on. Shall I mention that he doest answer my calls sometimes. Im really confused bout what he wants

2007-01-04 15:27:36 · 11 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4

i have been seein a friend of mine for a couple of weeks.... i liked her two yrs ago but things were different so she didnt open up to me. after two yrs that she was gone, we wmet back up and hit off right away. after a few phone games stuff between us started happenin, and it feels like we aree gettin closer. now, she said early on she had commitment issues, which i understood and althou it bothered me i stuck around. ..shes been opening up to me more, however theres always this barrier that she has....its like shes been givin mixed signs, and she knows how much i like her, and even got to the point of asking what are we? i told her idk b/c she originally said she didnt want anything serious and i understand if thats the way itll be. but now im confused, i still like her alot, i feel shes into me, but i am fed up of the mind games. should i walk away? i been ignoring her calls today and i think if somethin is goin on im about to blow it.

2007-01-04 15:26:48 · 10 answers · asked by wizzpack 2

Why are men so good at phoning a girl when she acts disinterested and then when she finally admits that she is attracted to him and begins calling him she finds herself just getting blown off for her troubles? I know that perhaps some women are guilty of the same thing, but really... Do they just want us to play hard to get forever?

2007-01-04 15:26:10 · 21 answers · asked by GreySkies 2

weird things have been happening around my house...and everytime they happen..no one is with me...so when i tell someone it always sounds like i'm making it up! should i just stop telling people...or should i try to make sure people are with me whenever it happens?

2007-01-04 15:25:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been dating my bf for a year, but our sex life is blah..I mean, its ok and fun, but its not really that exciting. I have never tried on top and told him I wasnt comfortable with that position yet, but that was like 6-7 months ago when we first starting being "together". Also, before him (and still now) I have very LITTLE experience with anything. Well, lately I have tried to give him hints about me wanting to "take charge" but he just laughs and says "you will never do it- so just stop"..its really discouraging me! So I was thinking, since I will be with him this weekend, should I just surprise him, climb on him and go at it? Or would that be a bad idea? Like would he laugh at me? I dont think he thinks I can be 'dominant' if you know what I mean, but I want to show him I can. I just dont want to risk embarrasing myself. What should I do?

2007-01-04 15:25:12 · 22 answers · asked by HlpMePlz 2

It was pretty funny the first time we did it. She doesn't know why she does it. It didn't happen with her ex.

2007-01-04 15:24:58 · 8 answers · asked by algorithm 1

It sounds like a stupid question. I met this girl a few weeks ago, and everything has been going fine, up until last friday. Anyways, tonight she has told me that she doesn't know what she wants. She has had a bad week, and i do know why, but i would rather not say. She has said that her head is in pieces, and she doesn't know what she wants, and doesn't want to hurt me. She said she doesn't want to make the mistake of calling it "quits" now, and just being friends. Up until last week, we have been fine, its only this week. She then suggested that we talk about it next week, when she is "herself". My question is, when she told me that she wants to call it quits, and just be friends, i started crying. Why? I have only known her for 4 weeks, but i felt so comfortable around her. I want to know what you think i'm feeling? Why am i so upset about us potenially just be being friends? It has nothing to do with sex. Oh, and by the way, I'm a 19 year old male.

2007-01-04 15:24:04 · 8 answers · asked by Demps87 2

Space for what? What do women mean when they say they need space?

2007-01-04 15:23:33 · 18 answers · asked by Tunasandwich 4

Ive known this girl for about 3 weeks now and i told her that i like her and she told me that she liked me as well. She asked me You dont want a relationship right?" I responded by saying that i wouldnt mind one and she said she would think about it over winter break in college. During break she always wanted me to hang out with her but it was kinda far of a drive. She saw her ex over break who still wants to get back with her. She origanally told me that she didnt want to but now after she hung out with him she is considering it. She doesnt want to be with me know because she still has feelings for him. But then she went on to say that she likes me but it is just wrong timing. She also told me that when she is at school her feelings for him fade. When we get back to school if she brings any of this up should i tell her how i still feel and that i think i rushed things and tell her that i would still want to get to know her better if things dont work out with her ex? HELP!

2007-01-04 15:23:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

my wang is about 7 inches and when errect cant fit through a toliet rols..a test I read about in Maxim. nearly every girl I slept with has these crazy reactions going out of their way to say its big, huge..yadda yadda..I watch porn all the time and I seem pretty avg at best....I am really big or do women just go out of their way to say that every time? I have never asked any girl about my size..they always comment. Tell me am I big or aveg?

2007-01-04 15:21:54 · 15 answers · asked by zigzag 2

ok, well my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year, we love each other, but i know that im an aries, which has a VERY high sex drive, now im a virgin but i have done a couple of things, b4 but i know my bf we joke around, have great convorsations, but it's kind of confusing to me sometimes because im use to men wanting to always have sex with me, and other things like that, but my b4 i have now to tell you the truth weve never had a conversation about us just messing around like us going all the way, but ive had multiple dreams about us having sex, i really think that im ready, but it shocks me that i think that he might be a virgin, even thoe he seems like the type thats not, but he's never brought it up but he has said that he not rushing things, and he keeps giving me clues that he wants to make love some times, i can see myself with him for so long, but my dreams are adding up b/c what's going on in my dreams he saying to me, im just confused, i need help please!!!

2007-01-04 15:20:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

If you knew that some one wanted to date you, but had a bad habit
would that stop you from dating them? A girl had a BIG crush on my older brother once, but she had a habit of spiting every where (she thought it was cool) to spit all the time. So thats why he wouldnt go out with her,said it was very unlady like (true).
What would stop you?

2007-01-04 15:20:44 · 2 answers · asked by Porcelain Doll 6

what is the best way to say sorry to a girl that i like but i make her mad..... -_-......how do i get her to forgive me.... ?

2007-01-04 15:19:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so I was talking to my bf on aim and then he was like : ok well see you at school tomorrow. Love you. Bye." And then he was like you love me too so I wrote ya I love you too. But ever since I wrote that I felt a knot in my stomach. I have never said that strong word to anyone that was not realated to me. I want to keep dating him but I kinda don't know if I would be better off alone with just friends. I kinda wanna break up with him but he just gave me a 18kt gold necklace which costs like 50 bucks! So I can't just break up with him now can I? I feel so bad saying this to him but I dunno. Please help me. I am so desperate for an answer. My age is not needed.

2007-01-04 15:19:47 · 3 answers · asked by Cutie_Pie6464 2

Man With Money.

Man That Is A Good Lover.

2007-01-04 15:19:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just started my new job at a big mortgage company........90% employees are Female.......many hotties 19-40 yrs old... im 24.

Ones (about 35yr old) been giving me looks so i made my move at lunch in the training room and ran some game, ended up pullng her hair cuz she wanted me too to prove it was real, it was kinda erotic and i did it 3 times and she laughed then got serious like ..ok ok and smiled and then never said anything to me the rest of the day.

Am i f'ing up?

2007-01-04 15:18:12 · 8 answers · asked by Its me 4

why do guys (and i know girls do to) cheat on their gf's? like why cant you at least break up with your current and go for the new one..i know that is harsh to but..isnt it at least a lil better than cheating? my one friend just found out the her bf has been cheating on her....is there really any logical reasoning for it? i dont think so..but of course i have been wrong before!

2007-01-04 15:16:42 · 15 answers · asked by Kelly 3

and not boys there own age ?

2007-01-04 15:14:15 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been going out with someone for almost a year. We get along very well, we do not fight. All of the friends and family thinks that we are perfect for each other. She had just gotten out of a serious relationship about a few months prior to us dating. I know it takes time to get over a relationship. She feels there is no sexual chemistry between us but I disagree.I truly love this person with all my heart, and have told her about my feelings for her. I have even brought up the subject of marriage in the future, even though I feel she is not ready for it. What can I do to show her how much I really care for her and love her?

2007-01-04 15:14:04 · 5 answers · asked by mrniceguy 1

hour minute etc...........

2007-01-04 15:13:30 · 8 answers · asked by david 1

if it's with a 20 year old

2007-01-04 15:11:10 · 20 answers · asked by Islandkisses 1

dated this girl...she would kiss me constantly....break up with me daily, then I would try to be her friend and she would always want sex. she could not keep her hands off me...but would get depresses and break up with me weekly. I am always really caring..affectionate and would take her out spend time talk to her...What the ??? This is crazy, its a weekly thing. what do you think ? Oh and her fat jealous roomate is always interefering and hates me plus is jealous!

2007-01-04 15:10:15 · 2 answers · asked by zigzag 2

2007-01-04 15:08:26 · 27 answers · asked by chika_cherry_cola007 2

1st aniversary.....

2007-01-04 15:08:00 · 2 answers · asked by eldany10 4

well there is this guy that i like
he sits next to me but hes suppose to be
a desk away but he sits right next
i mean like right there on myside
i look at every one else and they
are far apart but hes right there
he also just talks to me out of my group
does he like me?
how wdo i make sure

2007-01-04 15:04:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-01-04 15:03:09 · 18 answers · asked by ♪Miss_Soprano♫ 2

Well I have 5 guys fighting over me about who I'm going to date or going to a dance with stupid stuff like that.

2007-01-04 15:02:41 · 11 answers · asked by Angela R 2