ok, well my boyfriend and I have been going out for almost a year, we love each other, but i know that im an aries, which has a VERY high sex drive, now im a virgin but i have done a couple of things, b4 but i know my bf we joke around, have great convorsations, but it's kind of confusing to me sometimes because im use to men wanting to always have sex with me, and other things like that, but my b4 i have now to tell you the truth weve never had a conversation about us just messing around like us going all the way, but ive had multiple dreams about us having sex, i really think that im ready, but it shocks me that i think that he might be a virgin, even thoe he seems like the type thats not, but he's never brought it up but he has said that he not rushing things, and he keeps giving me clues that he wants to make love some times, i can see myself with him for so long, but my dreams are adding up b/c what's going on in my dreams he saying to me, im just confused, i need help please!!!
2007-01-04 15:20:47 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget the stars sweetie. If you are a virgin and have let him know that, he may think you are the one and I do not mean for a quick romp in the hay either. Respect his respect for your virtue, it is flattering adn thats why you are having dreams! The fact he has not told you is a virgin may be a nt that you do not really want to know the answer. If its important athen ask.
Love is never built on an initial consumation of sex. It is built on friendship, being there for the other, knowing that sometimes are not the right time, and longing for the next time. It sounds to me like you have a lot more dating and fun to have!
I pray you find eachother with this same respect and desire 22 years from now at your anniversary! PEACE in the new year!
2007-01-04 15:27:41 · answer #1 · answered by bSquirrel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let things happen naturally. It will come when the time is right. Don't worry about if he is a virgin or not. Just enjoy life.
2007-01-04 23:24:37 · answer #2 · answered by Paul 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be thankful that you're both virgins! Well, that is, if he's a virgin. There isn't any way to know for sure. Save your virginity for when you get married! Good luck!
2007-01-04 23:25:12 · answer #3 · answered by anonymous 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes he's a virgin some guys are just shy. you should get him to open up a little
2007-01-04 23:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him and just get it over with. Don't be stupid and ruin your relationship over this by asking his ex or something. Good Luck.
2007-01-04 23:24:33 · answer #5 · answered by Girl-In-Blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him if he is. Tell him your one too. See if he's as ready as you are to take the leap.
2007-01-04 23:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by Kurius_Kitten 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do u care if he is? ask him or if you want to have sex with him tell him. i dont see a big deal in it.
2007-01-04 23:24:25 · answer #7 · answered by Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he makes love worse than a dog.
2007-01-04 23:23:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
will it matter? if you like each other time will work out
2007-01-04 23:23:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-01-04 23:23:23 · answer #10 · answered by Ajani M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋