Ive known this girl for about 3 weeks now and i told her that i like her and she told me that she liked me as well. She asked me You dont want a relationship right?" I responded by saying that i wouldnt mind one and she said she would think about it over winter break in college. During break she always wanted me to hang out with her but it was kinda far of a drive. She saw her ex over break who still wants to get back with her. She origanally told me that she didnt want to but now after she hung out with him she is considering it. She doesnt want to be with me know because she still has feelings for him. But then she went on to say that she likes me but it is just wrong timing. She also told me that when she is at school her feelings for him fade. When we get back to school if she brings any of this up should i tell her how i still feel and that i think i rushed things and tell her that i would still want to get to know her better if things dont work out with her ex? HELP!
2007-01-04 15:23:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The thing is, is that i relally like this girl. A lot of things that i look for in a girl she has. I feel like if she brings any of this up that i should tell he how i still feel but i dont want to sound desperate. Would i be sounding desperate? Also i still need more suggestions from the origianl question i asked. im not sure wat to do.
2007-01-05 06:04:34 · update #1
yeah just hang in there
2007-01-04 15:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by G-diddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in a wat she seems like she cant make up her mind about who she feels for lets say you guys do go out....whats gonna happen next time she goes on break and hangs out with her ex again
i think you should just sit back hang out with her but dont push her just try to hang as friends until she deides what she wants especially if you've only known her for 3 weeks
she might be the type who...on break she'll start feeling for him again and you will fade or vice versa
basicly you have to do what nobody likes doing wait and be patient
2007-01-04 23:34:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact Is that her ex has never left her mind nor heart, you have to accept that perhaps you were a temporary diversion and get on with your life.
Three weeks? what could you possibly learn In that period of time, obviously her ex knows her much better! Could this be a matter of infatuation?
2007-01-04 23:31:03 · answer #3 · answered by trendz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that would be a very bad relationship. she would have fellings for her ex to much. yes, i'm a girl and i think that u should just be friends. for the better of both of ur hearts.
2007-01-04 23:25:37 · answer #4 · answered by kat jo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you can do better than being, some ones SUBSTITUTE.
If it doesnt work out with him, thats just what your going to be....
2007-01-04 23:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by Porcelain Doll 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she brings it up tell her it is her move and leave it at that wile starring at her if she walks away you are done if she waits make your move !!!
if you feel compelled to talk to her about it you know the circumstances best and you know what to do.
2007-01-04 23:35:03 · answer #6 · answered by C K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should realy do that girl like it when you are not being like a man jerk
2007-01-04 23:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by Ajani M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋