2007-01-04 15:08:26 · 27 answers · asked by chika_cherry_cola007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because he is immature, self centered, insecure and wants to control you.
2007-01-04 15:09:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't just say, "no." say that you're not in the mood at the moment, or that you're too tired that night. If he starts getting jumpy, you can add, "You don't want me to fake it, do you?"
but if he still gets hysterical, then you need to have a serious talk with him about it. It's your right to choose whether you want it or not, and he can't get angry if you make a choice to say no. He's disrespecting your emotions, desires, and opinions, and you shouldn't allow it. if he refuses to understand you after you talk to him about it, then you deserve a better guy! one who treats you like a princess and has all the respect in the world for you.
2007-01-04 23:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by julka323 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because replication of are genetics is are single goal in life, and you turning him down is basicly limiting his single most important goal.
Oh and this is all on a subconsious level thats developed through evolutionary genetics, if he didn't care - then the chance of his hereditary's survival is Greatly reduced - so in actuality appreciate his hysteria =)
As a solution sit down and talk about it with him, thats the sterotype responce but its NOT what i'm gonna suggest - obviously hes not Great in bed because you dont want it, hes also needy (he needs something (s**) from you daily), oh and he dosent know how to initiate and have foreplay since he asks "wanna have s**?" so I would keenly suggest you rethink your relationship with him =)
. . . your welcome =)
2007-01-04 23:23:55 · answer #3 · answered by Plethora 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your bf has issues...serious issues. No one should get hysterical when their partner says no to sex, especially if yas did it the night before. Have a chat to him and tell him he needs to cut it out or risk losing you, then he wont get any from you ever again...
2007-01-04 23:10:41 · answer #4 · answered by Onie 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It might be insecurity on his part. Even though you love him, you don't what it 24/7. Us guys are wired different. It's going to take some compromise on both sides to make it work. Talk to him and reassure him if you say no, it's nothing to do with your love for him.
2007-01-04 23:13:46 · answer #5 · answered by Kari 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he goes hysterical? Dump him
If hes just dissapointed... thats normal. Most guys would prob go 24hrs a day if they could.
2007-01-04 23:10:40 · answer #6 · answered by Cassie N 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
because he is a guy. most not all only have one thing on there mind and sorry but that is sex. i know it sucks. and when your all hot and bothered you want to get off no matter how close it was seance last time that you had it. it dose not matter. and maybe your good at what you do so he wants it as much as possible. or maybe that's all he wants from you and with out him getting it it makes him upset.
2007-01-04 23:12:40 · answer #7 · answered by shy 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Big-Baby syndrome? He doesn't get what he wants so he throws a tantrum? Just my humble diagnosis.
Just tell him you not a machine...put a quarter in and get a ride.
2007-01-04 23:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by Kurius_Kitten 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah, guys want it a lot
think of it as a form of love & be flattered he wants to love ou so much
you guys might not be a good match for intimacy though
if you're not engaged, maybe you can let him date other people, it would take some of the sexual pressure off you
consider forms of intimacy that works for both of you - there's lots you guys can do besides intercourse where he still gets his rocks off
2007-01-04 23:12:27 · answer #9 · answered by sparetom 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Because, he's an immature jerk who thinks that a relationship should revolve around sex.
2007-01-04 23:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgurl13069 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋