Singles & Dating - 31 December 2006

When this guy im friends w/ benefits with, when he fingers me it seems to hurt and turn me off. But ive had it done before and it feels good. Why is it hurting? and also what can he do to make me have an orgasim w/o me getting turned off when he does it? i need some advice.

2006-12-31 23:58:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 19, he is 35. We have an outstanding time when we are together. We have been hanging out at spending time together for nearly 2 months. We cant technically be *together* until his divorce is final which is in a couple more weeks. We have what i think is an awesome relationship/friendship. I havent ever been with a guy or even friends with a guy that is not trying to get into my pants the 2nd or 3rd time we hang out.. he hasnt even tried since the day i told him i wasnt going to mess around with him and then get my heart broken by him while he is going through the divorce. He is very respectful of me and treats me like a diamond.. Things are great, but Is the age gap too akward?

2006-12-31 23:54:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a friend that acts more like a husband than a friend.

He is always questioning what I do and trying to take up my time. He's a nice guy & has some great qualities but when I tell him to back off, he gets mad or fustrated and he keeps saying that I am breaking his heart. Or he accuses me of trying to date someone else (I am in my last year of college and have a family so all my attention can not be focused on him or anyone else for that matter).

And the only thing I can say is how am I breaking your heart and we are not even boyfriend & girlfriend? Should I leave him alone?

2006-12-31 23:53:46 · 18 answers · asked by Neea_Gastino 3

Can you say it as early as the first date or months after you realise it.

2006-12-31 23:53:38 · 8 answers · asked by phantomangel 1

2006-12-31 23:51:07 · 3 answers · asked by dropkick232000 4

This guy i know does all these things...............
1.Looks at me
2.Gives me good eye contact in conversation
3.Pays for things for me
4.Asks me to go places (away with him)
5.tells me about his friends
6.laughs at my jokes
7.body is positioned so he is facing me while talking
8.Kinda even leans toward me
9.gestures alot while telling me a story
10.Gives me eye contact while we are passing eachother
11.can become louder when we are talking
12.tries to make me laugh
13.its almost as if he waits for me and then he says hello.
14.always wants to make sure i'm alright if i have a problem
15.if i stuff up he tries to make me feel better.he doesn't laugh at me.
16.he's been paying more attention to the people i speak with
17.if i'm upset it's almost as if he tries to cheer me up
18.He's a gentlemen,letting me walk ahead of him and paying for things
19.He teases me sometimes
20.when i'm talking to someone else he involves himself in the conversation.

2006-12-31 23:49:06 · 13 answers · asked by debra 2

2006-12-31 23:48:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have always been shy, growing up. I also have low self steam. I was always unhappy with my lthe way I look. Im told Im cute and a lot of guys say Im pretty. But being with my ex killed all my steam. I don't smile because I don't have perfect teeth. And people perceive as being a b__tch. It hurts me, specially because I have a little girl that adores me and is so outgoing.

2006-12-31 23:38:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i bumped into my ex a couple of days ago in town and i thought i would be ok after seeing him but all the rage of what he did to me came flooding back. is this ok or should it have gone by now?
im single and cant seem to trust people because of him.

please help!

2006-12-31 23:36:28 · 37 answers · asked by crystal clear 2

2006-12-31 23:34:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

They begged you!

2006-12-31 23:32:54 · 14 answers · asked by phantomangel 1

I have been with my fiance for 4 years, but for the last 6 months i have been getting anoyed at him
he saids he loves me , and that i am beautifull etc all the time, and yes i like it and appercate it but its get anoying it maks me want to snap sometimes
and every time i kiss him, i feel notted inside, and lost for breath so i dont like kissing that much.
is something wrong?
or is this normal?

2006-12-31 23:28:49 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

its been a long time i proposed a girl . i tasted failure only because of my nervousness ! but now i am really bored of staying alone . I really wantb to have a girl friend ........... Shreyas

2006-12-31 23:28:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

am i pretty? i can see some harsh words coming my way already but its okay, im looking for honest opinions anyways. x x happy new year!! x x

2006-12-31 23:26:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-31 23:25:01 · 25 answers · asked by Julianne Marie L 1

2006-12-31 23:23:37 · 10 answers · asked by Madd Dogg 1

maybe it's just me...but I know that when guys see all these movie stars, budweiser models, car models wtih implants they cannot stop staring, but when it comes to their own girlfriends getting these implants they worry that other guys checking them out all the time? I guess what im trying to ask is that why is it okay for guys to stare at another girl who has fake boobs, but it's not okay if their girlfriends get some?

2006-12-31 23:19:52 · 15 answers · asked by College GurL 1

i have my first date with this cute, hot, sexy , handsome and cool guy all the girl in the university have a crush on him. he asked ME for a date!!!!!!!!!! i dont know what to wear what to do .. i want him to like me i realy cant calm down

help !!!!!!!!

2006-12-31 23:19:40 · 12 answers · asked by lover 1

If you dont know, a vegan is a person who dosent eat meat, fish, poultry, egg, dairy, and honey, as well as all other animal ingredients. I am a vegan, and I do it for the animals. I can fell their pain and misery, so I choose not to support it. I always thought it showed that I am careing, a more kind side to my personality. Also I think it shows A healthier life style, all that meat and dairy is bad for the body. What do you think, Do girls like vegan guys?

2006-12-31 23:13:11 · 7 answers · asked by Kane69 3

Im 24 &into my co worker hes a white guy im indian-i started noticing him after he used to notice me..He stares @t me alot but we hardly talk-he'l stare @t me alot and ignore me the next day-does he have doubts coz of my colour or does he just want a booty call?

2006-12-31 23:08:58 · 13 answers · asked by Cassý 1

me and my ex broke up and i havent seen her for like 4 mouths and in those 4 mouths i went throw some many changes i lost hell of weight like 25 lb all the girls i know now are saying i look super sexy and they were trying 2 get with me thats how good i guess i got they say i can get a way better girl then my ex but how do u think she going 2 take it wen she see me after so long? do u think she going 2 miss me.

2006-12-31 23:08:28 · 9 answers · asked by rusty_nguyen 1

my butt jiggles

2006-12-31 22:58:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am a real tomboy, almost half of my friends are guys, and I am ok with that. But it sucks when I really like a guy but he just wants to be friends.

2006-12-31 22:50:13 · 17 answers · asked by cici 1

how would you feel if someone called you an unemployed layabout or said to you that they disliked italian people and said negative things about them, even though i had a best mate who was italian, and i think they are lovely, would you think that person was weird. or when a mentally ill bloke came in the pub say he was a scrounging layabout, how can someone be like this, why

2006-12-31 22:42:24 · 4 answers · asked by denise g 2

If you were on a date with a guy and he told you that he's a dentist,what's the first thing that comes on your mind??
he's smart,rich,have a nice car,evil........ :)

2006-12-31 22:40:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Have you been lucky and ducked or did you block it?

2006-12-31 22:39:57 · 13 answers · asked by Capt. Kirk 1

2006-12-31 22:39:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

im 26 hes 48 we have a blast togeather.... but hes sooo much older than i am.. I know that he is interested in more than a friendship... Should I pursue it or just stay friends

2006-12-31 22:36:32 · 28 answers · asked by jingles 3

I want to be commited to my new girlfriend and I am and I love her soooo much....but I can't see what someone like her would want with a guy like me......How do I not let my fears overcome this amazing relationship.....

2006-12-31 22:33:08 · 17 answers · asked by JackLove 2

Lately a friend of mine has really been putting the moves on me -- I can tell because his attitude toward me is totally different from what it used to be. I think he's a pretty nice guy and he treats me very well. However, he's not really my type -- I'm religious, don't drink much, and intend to save sex for my husband. I'm usually attracted to sappy sweet religious types who have a real appreciation for the beauty of pure maths, philosophy, and poetry. This guy isn't religious, is a math major but isn't far enough along to know if he likes pure math, drinks, plays rugby, and isn't a virgin.

Is it best for us to just stay friends, or should I let him carry on a little longer? I've never had a very deep conversation with him so I don't know him extremely well. On the other hand, I don't want to lead him on and waste his time. I'm also concerned about his not being a virgin, and what kinds of tension that could bring to a relationship -- and whether it could destroy what we have now.

2006-12-31 22:30:39 · 14 answers · asked by Charlotte R. 2