2006-12-31 22:39:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I left him 2 months ago after being together since i was 13 (nearly 7 years) found out he was cheating, iv met 3 guys since Ist guy told him straight up i had a daughter he ran so fast i didnt even see which direction he went in the 2nd did the same the 3rd i held of for 1 week then told him he was ok with it for 3 days then said it was to much to handle because i couldnt just go out whenever i wanted. I have a plroblem picking up guys because i was so young have never been with anyone but my babies dad guys are attracted to me i dont want to sound like i love myself but i am attractive but i dont know how to talk to guys.
2006-12-31 22:57:25 · update #1
I dont want to get used
2006-12-31 22:58:38 · update #2
when I met my now wife.....she introduce me to my now daughter. she was 6 mo old, and I just fell in love with that bundle of joy, I've raised her and she is now 6 yrs old. And to her in her eyes I'm her "dad". maybe someday she will find out the truth but in the meantime I spend every minute that I can with her. To this day she is the best thing that has ever happend to me, including my wife of course)
So please don't despair that fact that someone is out there for you. You just haven't found him or he hasn't found you. Not too many men are willing to step up to the plate, but you will know soon enough the one that will. (My wife did)
Life is hard enough as it is, just think very carefully of the choices that you make which will impact your child as well.
Wish you Luck
2006-12-31 23:15:32 · answer #1 · answered by spanishflyin_tx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A young guy is out to date for fun and adventure, when he sees a decent looking nice 20 year old with a kid, he knows it means "instant family, just add money". An older guy if he is looking at a 20 year old wants fun and adventure and frankly, a naked 20 year old to frolick with. He's probably used to being around kids but frankly, if he wanted a sedate stay at home lifestyle, he'd date around his own age. I suggest to not worry about dating for a few years and worry more about raising your kid for a few more years. If anyone shows up in the mean time and sticks around even after they find out about your child, then they are a keeper.
2006-12-31 23:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by Neo Tarantula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It isn't the most impressive thing in the world; but for every single, young, mother in the world there's a single, young father somewhere; so a lot of young people just kind of think that's what people do.
Single, young, mothers probably have to watch out because they could attract "I don't take it all that seriously" kind of guys, rather than serious, well adjusted, guys.
2006-12-31 22:44:32 · answer #3 · answered by WhiteLilac1 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i am a single father and raised my 2 children alone for 8 years my wife drank drugs and prostituted and i have the the very most respect for you your trying to do the impossible work raise children and date i never dated one time for 5 years my children came first try to find an older man 35 and older as a friend first and look for single dads there are alot of them that are all alone and sad having no one to hold and feel loved
2006-12-31 23:11:55 · answer #4 · answered by michaelrey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for my section, i don't recommendations if a woman has a toddler, i'm 2 a protracted time previous by using ways. i hit upon them fascinating through fact most of the time, women human beings with childrens are greater in charge and mature. regrettably, there are purely some men like me in this international, all you're able to do is shop attempting. it may additionally be good to seek for men who're older through fact they'd be greater mature. i'm guessing which you in all probability do not choose maximum 20 365 days previous men around your toddler in any case. I choose you the appropriate of success.
2016-12-11 20:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same thing I would think of a 20 year old without kids
2006-12-31 22:47:42 · answer #6 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
40 years ago it was a big deal, now a days not so much. Chances are if your a single mother the father was a P.O.S. and your better off single
2006-12-31 22:43:36 · answer #7 · answered by chronus79 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would'nt get serious with one. i ain't Captain Save a HO
2006-12-31 22:52:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think where is the father. what happen to him.
i think i dont know her so i only think if she is good looking or not,.
really where or what happen to the father.
2006-12-31 22:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Can i see a pic? IM me and ill tell you
2006-12-31 22:42:21 · answer #10 · answered by BIG DICK 69 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋