I want to be commited to my new girlfriend and I am and I love her soooo much....but I can't see what someone like her would want with a guy like me......How do I not let my fears overcome this amazing relationship.....
2006-12-31 22:33:08 · 17 answers · asked by JackLove 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-01-01 02:02:40 · answer #1 · answered by LEIGHA. 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your girlfriend didn't like you then she wouldn't be with you. You need to stop focusing on the negative and start believing in yourself and your abilities to make her and yourself happy.
As long as you are treating her the best that you can and she is doing the same to you the two of you will be able to make it. But if you start thinking that you are not good enough eventually you will start showing this to your girlfriend and she will start seeing you in a new and not good light.
Just be positive and be happy that the two of you are together and stop focusing on things that aren't there
2006-12-31 22:38:51 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are insecure but why? It isn't this GF that's causing the problem. You are pidgeon-holing this girl, maybe the things she likes about you aren't obvious to you but just think for a minute, why is she with you? Because she likes you, wants you, maybe loves you. Accept it and don't ruin it!
2006-12-31 22:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
You need to realise that she has chosen to be with you. Lack of confidence is what this is about. tell her how you feel but be careful not to push her away. Just talk about it and she wont want to be with anyone else. Give it time and get yourself some counselling to deal with your insecurities.
2006-12-31 22:37:39 · answer #4 · answered by Scatty 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
give yourself some credit!!!ask her and your friends what they like about you and believe them!!! you just need time to feel more insecure in the relationship, as long as you don´t become a jealous controlling freak you´ll be fine...GOOD LUCK!!
2006-12-31 22:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to think more of yourself value yourself, i have always been like you have not valuing myself enough. She is no better than you, no one is. relax you are special, i think maybe in the past you have had alot of negative things said to you but they were lies, you are special and God loves you, believe it, don,t put yourself down.
2006-12-31 22:46:38 · answer #6 · answered by denise g 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honestly your humility is refreshing, thank goodness people like you exist, imagine how nice it would be to have a boyfriend who thinks i am amazing and cant believe he is dating me,,thinks its all good,,dont worry you are on the right track, it obviously is working you still think she is amazing,,
2006-12-31 22:49:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
pushing him away--of path u r get urselve taken care of out 1st b4 u may even b in a courting u can nonetheless have relaxing with informal courting till ultimately u get it 2together gr8 help online or their r lots of self-help books
2016-10-06 07:02:13 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it will not scare her away but it may make her think twice about being with you .You must believe yourself and love yourself to be able to love her ...
2006-12-31 22:40:13 · answer #9 · answered by Mysterious 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, but your lack of awareness regarding english grammar, especially plurals and the use of apostrophes might!
2006-12-31 22:47:06 · answer #10 · answered by Modern Major General 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
confidence. you should proud of yourself, to have a lady by your side. you have the thing that most men crave. enjoy and destro, it.
2007-01-01 02:24:39 · answer #11 · answered by rjhamuk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋