i have been seein a friend of mine for a couple of weeks.... i liked her two yrs ago but things were different so she didnt open up to me. after two yrs that she was gone, we wmet back up and hit off right away. after a few phone games stuff between us started happenin, and it feels like we aree gettin closer. now, she said early on she had commitment issues, which i understood and althou it bothered me i stuck around. ..shes been opening up to me more, however theres always this barrier that she has....its like shes been givin mixed signs, and she knows how much i like her, and even got to the point of asking what are we? i told her idk b/c she originally said she didnt want anything serious and i understand if thats the way itll be. but now im confused, i still like her alot, i feel shes into me, but i am fed up of the mind games. should i walk away? i been ignoring her calls today and i think if somethin is goin on im about to blow it.
2007-01-04 15:26:48 · 10 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
plz dont say talk it out, b/c i did and she never answers me straightup
2007-01-04 15:38:36 · update #1
yes
2007-01-04 15:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is confused she has been threw alot, you may like her and she may like you but sometimes it is hard to express ones feelings what you should do if anything is be there for her in her time of need be here friend don't just block her out. she needs you more then ever. you where her friend first and that's how it should be. you may be sick of her shutting you out but she as probably you have been hurt many times and neither one of you want that so just be patient Is a virtue. you get further in life with time to think about what you want from this maybe bot right now it will become something but once she gets over this little hump in her path maybe it can develop into a wonderful relationship that will one day lead to something else so just hold on everything will be OK.
blessed be
2007-01-04 15:40:08 · answer #2 · answered by shy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you care enough about this girl, DON'T ignore her calls! Be grown up and talk it out with her.
The "mixed" signs are maybe a clue to a possibility she got burned in relationships before and she isn't trusting. Change all that and be her Friend first! TALK!
2007-01-04 15:32:55 · answer #3 · answered by julesrules 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have some commitment issues myself, and I suggest that you sit down with her and talk about what you're feeling. If you really like her, you should give it a shot, or you may end up regretting this later in life.
2007-01-04 15:32:15 · answer #4 · answered by laura michelle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be standoffish to her. If she really does care this will bother her and she will want to take your relationship to the next level. If not nothing lost nothing gained!!
2007-01-04 15:30:24 · answer #5 · answered by ~♥Aimee♥~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. Better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all.
2007-01-04 15:30:35 · answer #6 · answered by juniperjasmine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes people walk away from people who would treat them wonderfully because they are afraid of getting hurt.
2007-01-04 15:29:15 · answer #7 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give yourself a day or two to decide. There's no hurry.
2007-01-04 15:31:05 · answer #8 · answered by AK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!! tell her how you feel, she might not be sure how you feel about her and that is why she is acting like that, she might be scared that you might just leave her and that is why she has commitment issues. TELL HER!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-04 15:31:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes , I would.
2007-01-04 15:31:23 · answer #10 · answered by You Lames! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋