I have been going out with someone for almost a year. We get along very well, we do not fight. All of the friends and family thinks that we are perfect for each other. She had just gotten out of a serious relationship about a few months prior to us dating. I know it takes time to get over a relationship. She feels there is no sexual chemistry between us but I disagree.I truly love this person with all my heart, and have told her about my feelings for her. I have even brought up the subject of marriage in the future, even though I feel she is not ready for it. What can I do to show her how much I really care for her and love her?
2007-01-04 15:14:04 · 5 answers · asked by mrniceguy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think she gets the point mate. Lay off a little you've listed what you have said and done if you think she's still not getting it then maybe you aren't, ask her what she is feeling !!!
2007-01-04 15:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by bentomsun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she just got out of a serious relationship prior to ya'll getting together i wouldnt smother her with emotions right now, tell her how you feel once and let her know that youll be there for her but dont smother her right now. Your right, it does take time to get over a relationship. But wait...youve been with her a year? oh....is she a sexual person? Im one of those people that if the sexual chemistry isnt there then nothings there for me, obviously though somethings there is shes been with you a year
2007-01-04 23:21:21 · answer #2 · answered by ishybug03 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be there for her and dont push her into anything she doesnt want to do. If you pressure her it will only push her away. You have only been together a year so you have plenty of time left to discuss that stuff when your both ready.
2007-01-04 23:17:24 · answer #3 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the sexual tension has gone for her because you were her rebound guy. im sorry to say that. dont make it harder for yourself. it wont work because she doesnt want the same things as you do when it comes to your relationship.
2007-01-04 23:26:33 · answer #4 · answered by biancajh 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she feels there is no sexual chemistry... ask her what she wants and what would make it better for her... this could be fun for both of you.... but you have to be open to what she may request... good luck.
2007-01-04 23:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by Mystery 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋