Singles & Dating - 29 December 2006

Hi my girl n I split up a month ago. I didnt quite realise we had split up, it was more of an assumption since it was through a text, which said she was thinkin of splitting up. Neither of us clarified, and i just assumed we had broken up since it was the second time she had done this except the first time we were speaking on the phone and the conversation ended with her assuming it was over and with me assuming we still hadn't decided anything. On both occasions however, we had a little argument before about her not being committed enough. A month after the break up text she sent me an email apologising, blaming herself and saying that she misses me and wishes we could at least be friends. I'm a really nice guy and always forgive and forget, but after getting hurt constantly for being nice, ive decided i dont want to reply, i cant see the point in being friends, but im confused because part of me says maybe i shudnt be so hard on her so now im stuck. Can anyone help?

2006-12-29 00:45:27 · 21 answers · asked by dragon512k 1

my ex g/f of 4 years broke up with me 6 wks ago i have not heard anythink bad said about me not one thing is this normal we ended well,i moved out of our rented house but friends have said and i have heard alsorts from other people's break ups saying they where the worst boyfriend,that they hate them etc.ect: what do you think!!!!!!!!!!! the spilt was not down to cheating or anything bad just she said we where moving apart!!!!!

2006-12-29 00:45:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

i chat to this guy online, i have seen him on webcam and everything and i finally have his mobile number. i am thinking of ringing him but am so scared what if he turns out to be a right jerk or what if i get lost for words? am so worried about it yet i know i want to ring him so bad. This is going to sound silly but i dont even know what to say to him, how do i strike a convo with him?

2006-12-29 00:43:57 · 15 answers · asked by Suriyah 2

pls help me. i had just seen him 2 yrs back(v had attended the same class). anyway, he doesnt no me. i searched him on orkut & v became orkut frds.but sometimes i feel wat 2 scrap him -like mebbe v r running out of convrsation. (u no oorkut frds r not taken very seriously.)i like him a lot pls tell wat 2 do?

2006-12-29 00:41:01 · 15 answers · asked by simi c 1

My boyfriend is with his family for the holidays in another state. We didn't plan on talking and neither of us has called, except to say Merry Christmas. Is this normal, or do we not care about each other?

2006-12-29 00:40:20 · 9 answers · asked by blue eyes 2

Next year my boyfriend and I will get marry and i know things will work right between us. Im just 20 years old and hes 23.... and i will continue my studies in the states for when i get there. we don't want kids by now till im done from college. hes working hard and earning good money so we can have a goodlife together. he got the apartment for us too(hes still livin @ his house) .Some of my relatives are like saying im too young to get marry, and all that. Yesterday, my brother's gf who lives in the states... wow... she is here in the DR and really got me scared cuz she told me soo bad thing such as irish men likes to beat her woman (my bf have irish heritage), and that they are cheap, that they dont allow her wife to be independient but for him only (such as they dont allow them to study; just attent at them, etc). now im kind of confused cuz those girls (my brother's gf ad her cousin) put things on my mind, at that point, that im super scared of going the states. what can i do now?

2006-12-29 00:40:11 · 9 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2

obnoxious person

2006-12-29 00:37:48 · 19 answers · asked by cajundancer_1 1

...would you do it?

I was in this situation last night. I hooked up with a girl who said she has a boyfriend but thought that I was really hot and wanted to have a casual fling (without the boyfriend knowing). We had some great, rough sex and she gave me her number afterwards. I am going to see her on the side and will totally disregard the fact that she has a boyfriend... because if she really loved him, she would have been able to restrain herself upon seeing a hot stud like myself.

And before anyone attacks me, keep in mind that she was the one who came onto ME. I am just a regular horny, single guy looking for some casual sex without having to be in an actual relationship.

2006-12-29 00:37:32 · 24 answers · asked by Evan 1

, I loved a guy I gave him every thing you can imagine , I adored him, many great guys tried to talk to me but I refused them all, why? Cause I was faithful to him, how stupid I am.
I spent my nights thinking of him,,,, while he was making love to another woman, how stupid I am.. when I remember that I feel that I'm gonna vomit " sorry but this is what happens",

I loved him with all my heart, I was ready to give him my soul if he asked my to do, but,,, now I think my soul and my heart are more important than this guy or any guy in this world, he cheated on me, he knew 18 woman while he is in love with me ,do you believe that? How could he have time for all those women,, sometimes I feel that I'm dreaming ,,!!! May be I loved a ghost, now I can't trust any man, I see all men are alike,, sometimes I feel lonely but feeling lonely much better than staying a man,
merry christmas men

2006-12-29 00:36:25 · 13 answers · asked by venus 1

Is it true that when a guys looks at you when he leave a room, it means he likes you? i mean, he show interest in you? sincere answers please...
tks

2006-12-29 00:35:46 · 12 answers · asked by Celest O 1

2006-12-29 00:35:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend and I have been dating for a long time now. We are TTC and are planning on marriage in October of 2007.

Well, he is still living with his father(he hasn't heard from his mom in four years), and I am in schoo l*college*. I have an apartment. (we don't live together, because my parents would not like that too well). Well needless to say he doesn't talk to his mother much. An old friend of his, whom he tried desperately to get with like two years ago. Well when he called me last night to say goodnight and talk before i went to sleep, he asked me to three way her. I was reluctant at first, but i called her. He at least did it so i could hear what he said. He told her to relay a message to his mom that he loved her and still thought about her. (sad sad sad). The she started talkin to her. Told her he was with me and that we were tryin to have a baby and he wanted to marry me. Thing is he told her he still loved her, as a friend like a brother. After all that, why am i jealous?

2006-12-29 00:35:33 · 6 answers · asked by Fresca Jesca 2

2006-12-29 00:33:52 · 7 answers · asked by candygirl 1

she's not even pretty, she's not even attractive..

2006-12-29 00:33:50 · 4 answers · asked by vodka 2

I'm interested? He practically knows my parents and family so it's weird...but I do like him, so what kind of body language should I give him? I don't stare but do look at him somtimes...what can I tell him? What can I talk about with him?

2006-12-29 00:32:05 · 7 answers · asked by Veruca Salt 1

I (i'ma girl) have a crush on a local band member. i'm not a groupie, but i do know his myspace page and im his "friend" on there (we have no mutual buddies though)..is there a chance that i can get to kno him better & how? maybe date him?or is that too stalkerish and creepy?

2006-12-29 00:31:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have spoken to my girl friend about flirting to all guys and exchanging mobile numbers.she said that is her weekness.if i see smart guys i would like to be close to them.she is coming at night 12 daily it seems .her room met said.what i have to do?but she wants to marry me. sincere advice pls.

2006-12-29 00:30:53 · 6 answers · asked by vijay4 1

he makes it sound like a chore to come and see me and makes me beg him to come....... he used to be so sweet when we first met and now he just so lazy to come and see me. we see each other only a few times a months but he calls me all the time and says that he loves me.

he wanted to break up with me a while ago and i cried for a week because i still love him so much but i really hated him as well. we are together now but he keeps acting like he never cares and everytime we fight he says i will never find someone as good as him and that he does not want me anymore.

what can i do with this guy i love him so much and he keeps saying he loves me but never shows it. sometimes he is sooooo sweet and he is the only guy i have ever been with but most of the time he just never cares and makes me cry so much.

i dont want to breakup and be alone because i know nobody is perfect and i have never wanted anyone but him but should i keep putting up with this?? how do i make him show he loves me?

2006-12-29 00:30:12 · 3 answers · asked by Confused :< 1

plz!give some techniques in which i can explain her.that how much i love her.please!!!!!!

2006-12-29 00:29:34 · 17 answers · asked by james jhon 1

my ex g/f of 4 years broke up with me 6wks ago she works at a pub that i like drinking in but i don't want to seam to be stalking her but we are over she did say she wanted to be friends but then said it was to hard to see me and give it time so what should i do
should i give the pub a miss or go!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-29 00:27:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

he has stopped writing for two weeks. should i wait for him to reply my e-mail or should i write him another e-mail instead?

2006-12-29 00:26:58 · 23 answers · asked by counterculturalist 3

Ever think someone was cute just based on their Yahoo avatar?

Her hair is so lovely
Her lips are so lush
I've got that babe bookmarked
My avatar crush...

(sigh)

2006-12-29 00:26:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

was goin out with my ex for over a year, we broke up a month ago.. she has been ringin me and emailing me, txtin me alot lately, the other night she heard i was txtin another girl and she went crazy, and got really upset... so i talked to her and said that other girl dont mean anything,, she didnt beleive me but she does now... i told her i love her and i wud do anything to get her back, she broke up with me cause she was confused bout what she wanted.. she said the oter day she would think about gettin back together, then she said lets just see what happens, if its ment to be it will happen....she asked me to meet her last night for a drink i met her.. then we went to a club in the city, she kept flirting with me, kissin me on the cheek, and almost kissed me on the lips several times, held my hand, hugged into mr all night, does this seem like she might want me back, and now she is saying that she like another guy, and she said that i must like the girl i was txtin, and she said what comes around goes around....... she said she just wants to be freinds, i dunno what to do i just want her back.. whats the best thing to do?

2006-12-29 00:23:09 · 17 answers · asked by Dan W 2

2006-12-29 00:22:07 · 13 answers · asked by VANCE 1

My friend(different friend from the other question I posted before),we'll call her Sue. Well anyways, Sue has a crush on this one science teacher from like 8th grade. And she feels safe around him and what not. My friend is very...sensitive(like me)but she's very emotionally weak if that makes since...if she ever let her guard down and that teacher ever....you know. Then she would do it and feel bad right after words. She is always telling me how much she's in love with this guy and tells him a bit of her personal stuff. I snapped at her saying she's not in love...I felt bad yes...but I'm like her personal body guard. I yell at her because I know how she'll be willing to do anything even when it's danderous. I dont' want her to end up on the news because of some teacher if you know what I mean.*Starts with an S or if she kept on saying no and he still did it then it starts with an R* Should I keep on putting her down because of that? I mean he's married and I don't want her to get hurt

2006-12-29 00:20:32 · 10 answers · asked by SweetCocoaAngel 1

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