, I loved a guy I gave him every thing you can imagine , I adored him, many great guys tried to talk to me but I refused them all, why? Cause I was faithful to him, how stupid I am.
I spent my nights thinking of him,,,, while he was making love to another woman, how stupid I am.. when I remember that I feel that I'm gonna vomit " sorry but this is what happens",
I loved him with all my heart, I was ready to give him my soul if he asked my to do, but,,, now I think my soul and my heart are more important than this guy or any guy in this world, he cheated on me, he knew 18 woman while he is in love with me ,do you believe that? How could he have time for all those women,, sometimes I feel that I'm dreaming ,,!!! May be I loved a ghost, now I can't trust any man, I see all men are alike,, sometimes I feel lonely but feeling lonely much better than staying a man,
merry christmas men
2006-12-29 00:36:25 · 13 answers · asked by venus 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no... *MEN* aren't heartless. PEOPLE are heartless.
but you set yourself up for this crash. have some self respect.
don't blame him. you have no one to blame but the person in the mirror.
Now put an end to your pity party
Now GET UP and get back out there!!!
Show some backbone. You're better than
this!
2006-12-29 00:42:34 · answer #1 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not only men that are heartless! Plenty of women too- just ask the men! Sweetie, its happened to many people. You go through it and now Mr. Right will come along and you will appreciate him so much more. Dont give up- there are good men out there- and you might miss it if you are so focused on being bitter and not trusting. I know its hard to do- to trust again.... but you have to try. How you treated him is great- and the right thing to do- you didnt do anything wrong. Think how lucky you are that you didnt marry him- almost a blessing to find out now instead of later. You will find a good man who is worthy of you- and you of him. :)
2006-12-29 00:46:48 · answer #2 · answered by skygirlchristine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't judge all men from one experience. I had a gf that cheated on me several times. I met a much greater women and know she will never cheat on me. In the early going, I was so insecure that I almose drove her away. Be strong, get past this. You did nothing wrong. You will find the right person. You sound like the ideal woman! Any man who finds a faithful woman, like yourself, is lucky! I wish you the best of luck in the new year.
2006-12-29 00:52:46 · answer #3 · answered by dwarner33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, not ALL men are alike. You've just happened to find the wrong guy. While I see that this fool has shattered your trust issues towards guys, you just have to "get back on that horse" and you will eventually meet someone that will give you the respect and loyalty that you deserve.
Don't shut your door on others because of what this guy did to you.
2006-12-29 00:39:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya, and women dont do that ever. This is the first time you got hurt, alls fair in love and war, which means when you lay everything on the table, you have to be willing to lose it.
2006-12-29 00:39:34 · answer #5 · answered by Afro-Joe the American Hero! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i'm going to say sorry because the person you're talking about seems like the kind of bastard who wouldn't say it.
but not all men are like that, if i was with someone, i wouldn't cheat (but i've never been with anyone anyway)
1:^('3
2006-12-29 01:00:49 · answer #6 · answered by Gordonsnan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you do not classify all men in this category. One person's foolish actions do not negate the entire population of men. (Especially considering that the vast majority of the population would not act in that way.) I hope your heart heals from this terrible blow.
2006-12-29 00:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know you're disappointed right now and that's normal but believe me, someday you'll change your mind again because you'll recognize that not every man is like that (even if most of them are using their digs to think).you'll meet a nice guy who knows to appreaciate you and who'll care for you.you just have to be patient and please dont spend to much time on thinking about this guy who hurt you cause he isnt worth it.
2006-12-29 00:42:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont give up.... we've all hurt before and yes what he did was wrong. Not all of us are bad...
Best Wishes, the new year will bring many new opportunities for you...
2006-12-29 00:39:53 · answer #9 · answered by jairman2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good. Go lesbo. Merry X-Mas.
2006-12-29 01:02:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋