i chat to this guy online, i have seen him on webcam and everything and i finally have his mobile number. i am thinking of ringing him but am so scared what if he turns out to be a right jerk or what if i get lost for words? am so worried about it yet i know i want to ring him so bad. This is going to sound silly but i dont even know what to say to him, how do i strike a convo with him?
2006-12-29 00:43:57 · 15 answers · asked by Suriyah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Begin by asking him about himself and his family. You will find out a lot about him and his attitude by having him tell you about himself. If he is very conceited, it will show early inthis conversation. If he is caught up in himself there will be no room for you! You should try to find out what his dad is like. Generally, a man that has been raised by his dad is most like him. The next thing that you should begin talking about is GOD. See what his spiritual life is like. If you are on the same page there then you should get along rather well. Have fun and BE CAREFULL.
Eds
2006-12-29 00:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by Eds 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first of, only call him if you actually want to.
If you have a nice impression from him, think he seems nice and all that, why not try?
If he proves to be a jerk already on the first phone call you know that right away and don't have to waste any time.
As to what to talk about, just let the convo go. Talk about whatever you guys would talk about online. Only difference would be that now you are talking on the phone instead of typing on the computer.
2006-12-29 00:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's particularly helpful to pay attention on your pal. He would be effective to you reason he needs something from you. dont base your efforts on "real lovable" base them on on his very own qualitys. if your pal thinks hes a jerk ask them why. it must be he particularly is a jerk or it must be your friends pal have been given dumped through him yet you in no way understand. in case you opt directly to get to appreciate him in basic terms go say hi. attempt sitting with him at lunch and in basic terms see who he particularly is or asking him for some help with a technological awareness project yet dont go through ways he seems. most of the lovable men definitely are jerks reason they think of they'd get what they decide on with their seems. he's in all risk shy and thats why he seems away once you look at him attempt a grin next time you notice him finding.
2016-12-15 10:32:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you know him better than any of us do, so it's up to you. From what you know about him from chatting, do you think he's a jerk, if not, call. But you shouldn't be really paranoid about calling him. If it doesn't go well, you don't have to call again. Simple, just don't worry too much about it, ok?
2006-12-29 00:57:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just talk, he has 1/2 of the responsibility of keeping the conversation going. If he is a jerk, no loss. You don't have to speak to him anymore. God bless****
2006-12-29 00:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the words will come out, you just need to call him. Because no matter how many times you practice on what to say, it never comes out the way you want it GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-29 00:47:01 · answer #6 · answered by star-e 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep in mind that you should have low expectations!cos then if he isb a jerk you are going to be disappointed!!..call him,but keep in mind that its nothing great and perfect...the time will show what kind of person he is!
2006-12-29 00:50:49 · answer #7 · answered by Katerina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is a jerk on the first convo then you've lost nothing..ditch the # and move on.
2006-12-29 00:46:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont meet guys online, there are better ways.
2006-12-29 00:47:10 · answer #9 · answered by furiousstyles22003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you say he was a jerk? Or that he jerks off?
2006-12-29 00:49:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋