...would you do it?
I was in this situation last night. I hooked up with a girl who said she has a boyfriend but thought that I was really hot and wanted to have a casual fling (without the boyfriend knowing). We had some great, rough sex and she gave me her number afterwards. I am going to see her on the side and will totally disregard the fact that she has a boyfriend... because if she really loved him, she would have been able to restrain herself upon seeing a hot stud like myself.
And before anyone attacks me, keep in mind that she was the one who came onto ME. I am just a regular horny, single guy looking for some casual sex without having to be in an actual relationship.
2006-12-29 00:37:32 · 24 answers · asked by Evan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't plan on being her boyfriend, for reasons obvious. I will, however, continue to see her on the side and on the down-low.
2006-12-29 00:48:03 · update #1
Big mistake. Relationships like this always lead to trouble. If she cheats on him, you are next......
2006-12-29 00:39:43 · answer #1 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
While I will not condone the fact you slept with her, you should have had enough respect for her to tell her that she needed to get the sex from her boyfriend in which she made the commitment to. You may be a regular horny guy, but find a girl that's not attached and hope her boyfriend doesn't come looking for you. No matter if she was in the wrong, he may not understand that.
2006-12-29 08:43:10 · answer #2 · answered by tx_earthangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing unusual about that. I have been with many married gals that wanted something different than the ame old.
Love and sex are not the same and do not have to belong to the same person. It is quite comon to love one and have sex with another.
Enjoy but keep your ears and eyes open for a jelous boyfriend. They can be dangerous some times.
2006-12-29 08:46:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why do you care since you say you are "just a regular horny, single guy looking for some casual sex without having to be in an actual relationship"...it means you wanted just for once..but if you woould like to do it again then my opinion is no..it will lead to trouble
2006-12-29 08:44:03 · answer #4 · answered by Katerina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's sleeping with you behind her boyfriends back on the basis that she 'thinks your hot' then she's not reliable. You and she may be looking for a casual fling, but to be fair if she's jumped on you because of the fact you just happened to be there, there is no telling how many other guys she has ridden or will indeed ride while she is with you. There is no advice here. I wouldn't do it because its immoral, but carry on and I hope you get an STI. Purely to deflate your ego. Take care.
2006-12-29 08:43:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put a cork in it, you're probably the arrogant guy you find in every bar believing every single girl is coming onto you. HOT STUD??? Pathetic. And regular, horny, single guy?? No excuse. You 2 are probably meant for each other. You have no moral values, no self-respect and no regard for anyone else. Doesn't matter if she loves or do not love her boyfriend, stay out of it. Try to get to know someone well enough without having sex to actually want to have a relationship. Your status quo is a reflection of your miserable existence.
2006-12-29 08:45:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I wouldn't do it- but then I'm not a regular horny single guy.
Thank God.
I guess it's because I've been there and done that as a single woman, and it got old really fast. Plus, the risk for things to go wrong (diseases, unplanned pregnancy, unnecessary drama and her boyfriend finding out and kicking your a**) is too great.
But, do whatever makes you happy. Just remember: Just because you can doesn't mean that you should.
2006-12-29 08:42:45 · answer #7 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can maybe understand you doing it last night, because when it comes down to it, your not the one that cheated on anyone! but, as a man, you wouldnt want some dude doing that to you behind your back, so why should you do it to some other dude. If she is hott enough, and you dont know him, i cant see where you would stop for anyone, cause i probably wouldnt if it was me. If gives us a rush knowing that we are with someone that already has somebody! Just play the idk she had a bf skit if something comes up! watch the std's, and have fun!
oh yea.... if she slept with you, she DONT love him!!!!
2006-12-29 08:44:00 · answer #8 · answered by smitty4626 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she was the one coming on to you and was up front with having a boyfriend - I say go for it. She's the one who has to deal with it.
Just keep it on the down low and have some fun!!!!!
2006-12-29 08:46:29 · answer #9 · answered by FunBetty! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You both know what you want and from the sounds of it you are going to enjoy!
BUT remember there is such a thing called karma Mr Hot Stud
2006-12-29 09:02:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm hoping that the number she gave you was to the free clinic so that you can go and get the shots you may need. I hope you have some industrial strength condoms on hand for other hook ups like this. We'll probably read about you in the news soon. Stop doing stupid stuff like that, Dude!!!
2006-12-29 08:42:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋