was goin out with my ex for over a year, we broke up a month ago.. she has been ringin me and emailing me, txtin me alot lately, the other night she heard i was txtin another girl and she went crazy, and got really upset... so i talked to her and said that other girl dont mean anything,, she didnt beleive me but she does now... i told her i love her and i wud do anything to get her back, she broke up with me cause she was confused bout what she wanted.. she said the oter day she would think about gettin back together, then she said lets just see what happens, if its ment to be it will happen....she asked me to meet her last night for a drink i met her.. then we went to a club in the city, she kept flirting with me, kissin me on the cheek, and almost kissed me on the lips several times, held my hand, hugged into mr all night, does this seem like she might want me back, and now she is saying that she like another guy, and she said that i must like the girl i was txtin, and she said what comes around goes around....... she said she just wants to be freinds, i dunno what to do i just want her back.. whats the best thing to do?
2006-12-29 00:23:09 · 17 answers · asked by Dan W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
she is playing mind games with you, she doesnt want you but she doesnt want you with anyone else either, dont even try to get back with her. an ex is an ex for a reason. why go back when you can go forward?
2006-12-29 00:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she went carzy when she found out that u were textin another girl
well she should no that u like that girl and stuff really
if u no wht i mean
bro these kinda girl dont do good to any
she just played with u bro.
these kinda girl just want one thing thats is loads of guys runnin after um and u dont want to be in them ok
get ur self a new girl and ignore her
then she will sure come back to u only just to leav u again but
u not going to let that happne the next time she comes just say sorry babe
i dont feel that way for u any more
u just my friend
and just see how she reacts
u will no
cheers
2006-12-29 00:44:46 · answer #2 · answered by ghost13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well there is not much you can do when she does not know what she wants. I think she still wants you, but is talking to the other guy to try to get over you. She has been with you for so long she know no different, and that might a reason why she might wanna leave. I think you should ignore her for couple of days. And she will come around, wondering why haven't you called, why haven't you try looking for her. Keep your head up. Was ment to be will be.
2006-12-29 00:34:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would back off and give her some time. She is obviously still confused about what she wants. She pulls you in by flirting and then pushes you away saying that she likes someone else and you probably like the girl you were text messaging.
Don't let her play these games with you because she will continue to do so until you get fed up with it. Maybe if you back off, she will realize what she is missing. But give her a chance to miss it!
2006-12-29 00:32:34 · answer #4 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once I went out with a bartender stripper chick, I left for a while without really telling her and sorta broke up with her even though we only went out like two times and I banged her the 2nd night we went out. Which was actually at a hotel room that I banged another chick I was seeing at the time. Then I called her back after I left her life for a while and she said she had to take a shower, she never called me back.
The moral of the story is, at least I banged her once.
2006-12-29 00:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by Afro-Joe the American Hero! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just got you in her palm! first, you cant just do whatever she wants you to do, and when she wants you to do it!(like go for a drink, go to the club, ect.) If you do that then she can just play with your feelings and use you whenever she wants somebody! yall will never get back together if you keep doing that. You need to straight up tell her and tell her one final time, that you love her and noone else, but you cant keep getting your emotions played with like she is doing. If she likes the other guy then dont talk to you no more like she wants you. if she talks to you then only as just friends. but if she likes you then she needs to go ahead and come on back. I now it sounds like your running her off, but you have to make her stop and think about what she really wants. If she thinks she might lose you for good, she might come running back!!
2006-12-29 00:31:42 · answer #6 · answered by smitty4626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start seeing someone else and forget about the ex. If she wanted to be with you, she would. Sounds like she is just trying to get revenge. 95% of the time, going back with an ex will have the same ending it had the first time.
2006-12-29 00:27:58 · answer #7 · answered by dwarner33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its looks that she is puzzled, in case you have been at the same time for a twelve months you've the skill to speak to her. tell her the way you experience and ask her how does she experience approximately this guy and if she feels that he's the suited guy for her. Relationships should not be difficult the two a guy or woman desires to be with you or no longer, you may no longer could desire to compromise on that project. So i say in simple terms be uncomplicated with one yet another. a stable tip is to place in writing down the pros and cons of your relationship and if the undesirable out weights the solid then it may desire to easily be time to enable it go.
2016-10-28 15:23:30 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go all out with your heart.If u do feel for her , let her know .Be honest with yourself.Can u see future with her?think about it seriously as once bitten twice shy.if u decide to go for it.Go all out!if not be firm and get a new hobby or focus on your new gal!
2006-12-29 00:28:09 · answer #9 · answered by Raymus 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girl is playing games. Move on. Let her play that childish stuff with the next guy.
2006-12-29 00:27:25 · answer #10 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋