My friend(different friend from the other question I posted before),we'll call her Sue. Well anyways, Sue has a crush on this one science teacher from like 8th grade. And she feels safe around him and what not. My friend is very...sensitive(like me)but she's very emotionally weak if that makes since...if she ever let her guard down and that teacher ever....you know. Then she would do it and feel bad right after words. She is always telling me how much she's in love with this guy and tells him a bit of her personal stuff. I snapped at her saying she's not in love...I felt bad yes...but I'm like her personal body guard. I yell at her because I know how she'll be willing to do anything even when it's danderous. I dont' want her to end up on the news because of some teacher if you know what I mean.*Starts with an S or if she kept on saying no and he still did it then it starts with an R* Should I keep on putting her down because of that? I mean he's married and I don't want her to get hurt
2006-12-29 00:20:32 · 10 answers · asked by SweetCocoaAngel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We are about 16years old and the teacher is 28years old. He told us that to the class once.
2006-12-29 00:35:16 · update #1
thats just nuts
2006-12-29 00:24:20 · answer #1 · answered by Matt G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the teacher is married, I think you're doing the right thing. Tell your friend to stop doing so and try to find a b/f that suits her more than her teacher. Tell her also that by doing what's in her mind she will be destroying a family and if he has kids the mistake will be even greater. She will be hated by many people especially from his wife, friends, other teachers etc. She can get into deep trouble even with the police because that could result into work harassment.
So please tell your friend to stop with this crush of hers. Good Luck
2006-12-29 00:52:16 · answer #2 · answered by Falcon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should point out the dangers of her and the teacher sleeping together. He would lose his job and her ability to see him and he is also a married man. He made a commitment to another woman and not her. Do not put her down but show her that waiting for the right guy will much more worth it. You may also talk to the teacher as well and explain the situation.
2006-12-29 00:26:35 · answer #3 · answered by tx_earthangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE needs pressing scientific counsel! Paracetamol overdoses can before everything seem danger loose however the wear and tear completed to the liver won't be obvious until some days afterwards with the aid of which era it relatively is going to be too overdue to do something and someone will die. She needs help NOW. Do each and every thing you could to touch her mum and dad or instructors, even the close by police. Time is so important here. good success.
2016-11-24 22:40:49 · answer #4 · answered by bustamante 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the teacher when your friend is not around and tell him she has a crush, but your concerned for her about it. Chances are he may not realized how big the crush is for her. Give him the chance to push her away gently. Maybe he can talk about his home life a bit more or something. He may be able to talk with her about it directly also and then she would understand it is only one-sided. IF that doesn't work.... go to the counselor at school. She can talk to both of them to be sure nothing is going on or will go on.
2006-12-29 00:47:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
one of my life rules... never get together with a teacher while still at school. Be mates, why not? (can help u with your marks, kidding lol) but i don't think "sue" should push it with this guy, hes married for one thing, for another, hes probaly a lot older than her.
id try to get the idea of her and the teacher out of her head, try taking her out somewhere and start pointing out all the fit lads around (if there are any lol)
good luck
2006-12-29 00:28:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let her know she is going to crash and burn if she keeps on the path that she's on. Then just stay out of it.
Sometimes a friend has to let someone go and fall flat on their face on their own. it's called life.
In this case, she could get someone locked up in jail, destroy someone's marriage, and can even be sued for destroying the other spouses life.
She is going to not just get hurt but F'd over.
But you have to state your warning and then stand back. or you'll lose your friend and she'll do this bad behavoiur anyway.
Unless of course, you don't want to be around for the drama.
2006-12-29 00:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by a1tommyL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't put her down, just keep talking with her on an equal level. Be her friend, don't be belittling. You need to express to her the how getting involved with him can turn out very badly. Keep talking till she hears you. Good Luck.
2006-12-29 00:25:00 · answer #8 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel he's a threat to your friend, go to the school administration and report him. They'll investigate and if he's really a bad person, they'll get rid of him........Good Luck!!
2006-12-29 00:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by honey_bear_21_1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep you should keep being her friend and rebuke her when nessery, because you are really her friend but if she forsakes you then the next best thing to do is pray for her ok and hope and wish for the best.
2006-12-29 00:27:37 · answer #10 · answered by VANCE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋