my ex g/f of 4 years broke up with me 6wks ago she works at a pub that i like drinking in but i don't want to seam to be stalking her but we are over she did say she wanted to be friends but then said it was to hard to see me and give it time so what should i do
should i give the pub a miss or go!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-29 00:27:04 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave her alone...get away!Don't be like glue..make her see that you have your own life!!!believe me that if she really wants you, she'll look for you!Meanwhile go for a drink at a differnt bar...meet new people...Show her you're a MAN!Don't worry...once you start meeting new women...she'll know...and believe me...she'll be running after you!
2006-12-29 00:31:25 · answer #1 · answered by jokersmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there another pub that you and your friends could go to. I know that it seem harsh that you should have to find somewhere else to drink, but it will be easily if you do. Because you don't want people to think that you are stalking her, and as she works there seeing you will make it hard for her and you don't want her to make mistakes or anything like that while she's at work
2006-12-29 00:34:33 · answer #2 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she broke up with you, are you sure you don't go there to see her more than hang there just to hang there? It has to be hard on both of you. I would find a new pub/place, especially if she stated to "give it time".......
2006-12-29 00:48:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
New pub, maybe new girlfriend, no point in hanging around the old place's with past history, New year new start and meet new people. Good luck with it
2006-12-29 00:33:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have any close, strictly friends of the other gender...go ahead and go back to the pub. She will see that you can move on. On the other hand, it is a public establishment and you are free to enter.
2006-12-29 00:31:26 · answer #5 · answered by dwarner33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another pub to drink at for awhile and give her some space.
2006-12-29 00:29:53 · answer #6 · answered by rhorho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally,,,,I would still go,,,,why should you not go??? For her respect???? Why???? You are over,,,she made that decision to end the relationship,,, and it is hard to see you??? Why??? because she knows that she made a mistake,,,,I bet ya,,,but ya know ,,, everyone in life always wants what is greener on the other side of the fence,,,and maybe this is one of those things,,, I don't know and I'm not trying to give you false hope,,,but if it still bothers her to see you,,,after 1 1/2 months,,,then something is apparently still their for her,,,emotion wise,,,just because you go their doesn't mean you have to acknowledge her,,,or stalk her,,,it means you are going their like you have before,,,,and unless it bothers you,,, I would seriously go,,, it is harmless,,,,you need to go on with your life,,,and so does she,,,and maybe by some chance she doesn't want you to go their to see her new interest??????I don't know,,,just a guess,,,but you never know,,,,
Good luck in what ever you choose to do,,,
DAPHNE
2006-12-29 00:50:06 · answer #7 · answered by Daphne F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another pub to hang out at. Or go on nights she is not working.
2006-12-29 00:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you go and find a new local! It seems to me that she is the one finding it difficult to justify the situation. Perhaps she does not want you to go there in case you find out something that she does not want you to know!!
I would not move and continue going there. If she doesn't like it then let her get you banned or she should move on!
2006-12-29 00:34:24 · answer #9 · answered by jamand 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you go to that pub before you met her or she started working there? if so, get her fired xD
2006-12-29 00:34:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋