i have spoken to my girl friend about flirting to all guys and exchanging mobile numbers.she said that is her weekness.if i see smart guys i would like to be close to them.she is coming at night 12 daily it seems .her room met said.what i have to do?but she wants to marry me. sincere advice pls.
2006-12-29 00:30:53 · 6 answers · asked by vijay4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let her know seriously that you can not...WILL NOT... consider marriage if she continues.
2006-12-29 00:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by ryko73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not serious about you.
Flirting is okay, but if she is hanging out with these guys more than you, and really late at night too - every night. Then that is bad.
One of my guy friends used to flirt with people all the time. Then he proposed to his girlfriend. And he doesn't flirt anymore. he decided that he wanted to be with this one girl, and only her, so he doesn't need to flirt anymore.
I think she doesn't respect you.
If you love her, then you need to sit down and have a very long talk with her about how you feel about her flirting. Then you give her a choice. Either she tones it down to just harmless flirting, or you leave her, and find someone who will love you as much as you love them.
2006-12-29 08:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anna K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmh .. i suggest that both of your hold on to the idea of getting married yeah and since you ask this question doesnt it reflect that subconciously you are having doubts about this marriage?? so why want to marry if she does not want to change and you cant actually tolerate her flirting with other guys? & does she really love you? if so she would have given up on other guys and wont even tink of flirting yeah? or maybe she is pregnant so she want to marry you?? mmh i advice you observe and only agree to marry her unless you are sure yea
wish you good luck
2006-12-29 08:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by smiles-I v a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you trust and love her enough, do it. But if she won't stop exchanging numbers with guys and is constantly coming home late...hate to break it to ya, she probably isn't worth it. If I were you, I would ask her to change before I would marry her. Hope everything works out for you.
2006-12-29 08:36:37 · answer #4 · answered by dwarner33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mean "coming" as in orgasm, she is full of **** and you are gullible. You are young and there is so much puddy out there for a young strapping man like yourself. Let her do what she wants and you definitely do what you want.
2006-12-29 08:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by Maggie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ha do u really lv her
2006-12-29 08:33:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋