he makes it sound like a chore to come and see me and makes me beg him to come....... he used to be so sweet when we first met and now he just so lazy to come and see me. we see each other only a few times a months but he calls me all the time and says that he loves me.
he wanted to break up with me a while ago and i cried for a week because i still love him so much but i really hated him as well. we are together now but he keeps acting like he never cares and everytime we fight he says i will never find someone as good as him and that he does not want me anymore.
what can i do with this guy i love him so much and he keeps saying he loves me but never shows it. sometimes he is sooooo sweet and he is the only guy i have ever been with but most of the time he just never cares and makes me cry so much.
i dont want to breakup and be alone because i know nobody is perfect and i have never wanted anyone but him but should i keep putting up with this?? how do i make him show he loves me?
2006-12-29 00:30:12 · 3 answers · asked by Confused :< 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you tried talking with him? If you can't communicate your feelings, is he really worth being with in the first place? If he is not willing to listen to you, and be compassionate about how you feel, he probably is not the right guy. Besides, do you really want to continue in a relationship that only makes you feel good some of the time.....You can't make someone show you that they love you, it just kind of comes with the territory. Either he loves you and it is a natural way of being, or he simply acts like it. My guess is you would be better off leaving the situation and finding someone who is truly willing to be in a relationship that is good for the both of you. Its hard to leave a situation that you have been in for so long, but the only way to change is to find that strength in yourself to move on, and find happiness. Hope I could help.....
2006-12-29 00:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by t.carp 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, you can't MAKE anyone do something. If he's not showing you the affection or attention that you are expecting, talk with him about your expectations. If cannot provide that type of attention to you, then it might be time to review your options by looking for someone who will provide that attention you're looking for!
2006-12-29 00:33:37 · answer #2 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't.... You leave him. I know you said that you love him, but you shouldn't be allowing yourself to be treated like that. He sounds like a jerk. If someone loves you and wants to be with you, then they will be excited to come see you. My advice is get out now, and move on. No matter how much it hurts. Good luck
2006-12-29 00:35:40 · answer #3 · answered by In love with Life 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋