Singles & Dating - 22 December 2006

ok my boyfriend is older than me and this is the first time ive ever really been actually serious about anyone and hes amazing he treats me so good i love my boyfriend with all my heart i couldnt ever imagine being with anyone else, but hes the deal hes been in jail he got sentenced a year and a half and i love him and am gonna be there for him all the way. i have been for the past 11 months hes out in 2 now on good behavior and were planning on moving away together and cleaning up both of our lives a bit. but this is what happend basically me and one of his best firneds were just hanging out and he comes on to me(not the first time) i say no keep bringing up my boyfriend and how it wouldnt be right and its been so long since ive had sex i was weak and i gave in. and i finally told him hes crushed and now he doesnt know if he wants to be with me. i dontknow what to do what can i do to prove to him im sorry with out being able to see him. please if you got ne advice help me out ~L

2006-12-22 17:38:09 · 17 answers · asked by leslie0754 2

Me and my man been together for 5 years now. Last year we decided to have a baby, so we did. Now that the baby is here he seem very mean and staying gone all the time. When I threat to leave him he say why are you leavin please dont go. I'm very lost because he's getting worst and worst. What does this mean? I left today while he was gone. Should I go back? It seems like he dont love me anymore. He says he's not cheating. P.S. after baby I develope a even more beautiful shape. So what's the problem?

2006-12-22 17:38:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I really miss my ex boyfriend and he will be going away for the holidays tomorrow. I am desperate to see him. I want him back badly. Do u think i should get him back? Our situation , we broke off in mutual terms saying that we should probably give each other time to see what we haven seen whilst we were together. But i miss him so damn much i think i could die. Should i tell him how i feel? Im afraid that i might regret my doings. We broke up last wednesday. Please help someone.

2006-12-22 17:37:27 · 10 answers · asked by Mimi P 1

There is a guy at school named Damien. He spikes his hair and gets perfect grades. He has never had a girlfriend in his whole life, even though he is popular and really hot. Everybody has a crush on him. My friend and I thinks he might be gay. He might be shy. OR he is just focused on school and will date when he gets older. I really need help and will take any advice on guys to make them like me and understand me. What do guys really even like about girls? I asked him out once a long time ago, a year ago, and he didn't hesitate to say NO!! PLEASE someone help me.

2006-12-22 17:37:03 · 4 answers · asked by BeatlesRocker 2

I'm with the wrong guy, but I still stay. We've been hanging out for six months, but are not "official." I've tried to find other guys (gone on dates--NEVER done anything physical w them) but I don't seem to have any luck. So I go back to this guy. I've also tried being completely single, it's just too hard bc I know he's there. This guy is wrong for me, bc he's uneducated, un-pc, and I know I could never make a life with him. On the other hand, we enjoy each other's company and he's great in the sack. I've told him the situation--that I'm crazy about him, but I don't feel that we are compatible, and he says it's fine, he does have feelings for me too, but he also likes what we have right now. Is is wrong of me to stay w him?

2006-12-22 17:37:02 · 8 answers · asked by lapoetsmoderator 1

2006-12-22 17:35:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'd been seeing for over a year and he had just moved back to his hometown in September for a job. He told me he wanted to keep in touch, but the last time I talked to him was in October. So...since November, about a month now, I hadn't contacted him at all...now he just called me, 2 months later....
Uh..I don't know whether to be sad or happy...He told me that he was driving home from a bar and put in a cd to that was one that we always listened to. He said it reminded him of me. So we got to talking, he wondered how I was doing and everything. Then he started telling me that he met a girl after he sold her a system (ADT) and they've been going together for a few months. HUH? Why would he say that to me? Was he expecting me to be happy about that? I didn't understand that, especially after I haven't heard from him in 2 months. Was he trying to rub it in my face or something? Why would he be calling me then? Just to keep me in the picture...just in case?

2006-12-22 17:35:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

thers this guy i like and i really dream about him like ALOT!!!
Does this mean somethin?!?!?!?

♥ME

2006-12-22 17:31:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

girls, which do you prefer? a guy who loves you more than the way you love him, or a guy whom you really love but doesn't love you back as much or doesn't truly reciprocate your feeling. which will you rather take?

2006-12-22 17:31:26 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've never kissed a girl. anyone have any tips or anyways to pratice?

2006-12-22 17:31:19 · 17 answers · asked by Jesse 1

I'm deeply in love with my ex girlfriend Brooke. We broke up after two months because she felt that she couldn't get close to me because she had deep feelings for someone that she had been feeling things for, for many years. But now we're talkign again, and she keeps throwing hints at me. She says she only broke up with me because she didn't want to hurt me by acting like she didn't want to be romantic or intimate with me. What should I do? Should I try to get back with her, or just let her go? Or perhaps just give it time? I don't know, but I really love her. On the other hand, I feel strong feelings for this other girl named Anna. I don't know what to do. If anyone has any advice, please answer.

2006-12-22 17:26:09 · 8 answers · asked by big_bear29360 2

ok i liked this guy( my next (door neighbor) and he asked me if i liked him, and i said NO!! is that a sign that he likes me and the only reason i said no is because i wasnt sure if he liked me or not . im sich an idiot

2006-12-22 17:23:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ive been with this guy i guess u could say over two years we have a one year old daughter but he refuses to grow up dont get me wrong hes a good father he just doesnt seem to want to be a family man what i mean by that is he still smokes pot and goes out with his friends till whenever he feels like coming home he has a good job and does pay the bills but does nothing around the house what so ever no dishes no laundry no sweeping nothing and when he actually is around and home he plays video games or goes on the computer instead of spending time with me.he has stupid fits over the dumbest things but yet i still love him so much. Ive been told that he doesnt deserve me but i love him so much and i dont wanna leave him talking doesnt help cause ive tried over and over he seems to think that cause hes the one bringing in the income he can do whatever the f%$k he wants to how do i get throu to him?

2006-12-22 17:23:00 · 4 answers · asked by Never_give_up_never_surrender 2

Met her 2 weeks ago. Hung out 2x, met up at school a few times real quick to talk and hang out. Shows all signs of wanting to date me, flirty, touchy feely, saying she likes me unprompted...etc. She's a virgin, so am I. It's not to hook up. I told her don't bother with me if it's for that. We have similar values etc. She's had her eye on me since last year, but I never approached her, she waited til I came to her. I did by chance..not on purpose. We clicked...I keep trying to win her over, but she still says she doesn't want a bf (no, i have not been annoying or pressuring about that). Her x who she broke up with 3 months ago was an ***, as were her other ex's. I'm 100% sure she wants to date me but she keeps saying she does not want a boyfriend..what do i do..how long do i wait, how do i handle this?

2006-12-22 17:20:48 · 13 answers · asked by MR. CLUTCH 1

Guys, I am just wondering, when you do "check out/stare at" the opposite sex and then you make eye contact...what do you plan to happen after that?? Do you want to see any signal from the girl and what do you do if she maintains eye contact? What about if she looks away really quickly and blushes??

Just wondering.......thanks and Merry Christmas!! :)

2006-12-22 17:19:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

advice on things that are not good for the first date with a guy, please? anything that will keep a guy or figure out if hes good, or whatever..just let me know anything!! thanks!!

2006-12-22 17:17:19 · 14 answers · asked by davis chick 1

Last year, I made a vow that I'd find love by this Christmas. Well, it hasn't happened. As a matter of fact, I've made the same vow for more years than I care to remember. Should I just forget it and give up? Geez... there must be something wrong with me.

2006-12-22 17:17:19 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

i used to like this friend of mine, until i found out he started to do drugs. he seems like the type of guy that doesn't want people to lecture him on whats right and wrong. he tells me all these things about what he's done, and i know for a fact he's done them.

how can i tell him that he's going ruin himself [without bossing him around and keeping it casual] if he keeps up with all this?! i really care for him because i used to like him. but i know that i can't be with someone who is going to making stupid decisions.

so basically, how do i tell him he's ruining his life without him getting upset. we're 15 now, and i really dont want this to continue.

2006-12-22 17:15:07 · 10 answers · asked by jsmonkey013 2

2006-12-22 17:14:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am 24. I dated him when I was 17 I think. Was only for like 3 months. He really was a sweet guy, I just broke up with him because for some reason I lost interest. Really not sure why. We have remained friends for years. He is always there if I need something. Jokes around and tells me to call him If I get stuck with my car, get kidnapped or need to get married. Does things with me that most guys would not want to do. Listens to me when I am stressing over dumb crap. Subtly tries hitting on me when we hang out, but I mean subtly. I can usually take a hint, but at times he is hard to read. He has turned very responsible and is doing well for himself. Would be a good catch, has some girl that really likes him but he does not want to be with her. Talks to me about issues with other girls, etc etc. I dont know what to think . . .

2006-12-22 17:14:43 · 4 answers · asked by MissKristen 1

ok so there is this guy and i really like him and i gave him an x-mas present and every thig but he is still decideing if he likes me or not.... should i wait 4 him?

2006-12-22 17:14:24 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex an I decided to work it out 1 last time, that we can continue to go out ,only if we do not argue forI 5 months, What are some best techniques on handling this situation? we would argue over petty things until it really got out of hand. I mean Im about to get a job to keep me busy, plus I have school. Please give me some advice

2006-12-22 17:14:14 · 17 answers · asked by snowprincess20010 2

One morning at school I walked passed this cute guy and he kept looking at me and I looked back of course he did the same thing another morning Could he like me?Please don't tell me to ask him because I'm not going to ask him he so popular and if he turns me down i'll be really humiliated

2006-12-22 17:13:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

I like this dude that is so hot and other then in the halls I see him on Tuseday for an hour. I like him and I think he likes me but I don't have the guts to ask him out. What should I do?????

P.S.
Don't tell me to find some guts becuase I can't!

2006-12-22 17:13:47 · 1 answers · asked by Shannon P 1

Guys, I am just wondering, when you do "check out/stare at" the opposite sex and then you make eye contact...what do you plan to happen after that?? Do you want to see any signal from the girl and what do you do if she maintains eye contact? What about if she looks away really quickly and blushes??

Just wondering.......thanks and Merry Christmas!! :)

2006-12-22 17:13:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-22 17:12:48 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

i live in the suburbs of San Diego and i can go to the beach whenever i want. I need to make it discreet so my parents wont find out but it still needs to be a good cristmas present. She is beautiful and i really need to make her happy. Anything is appreciated

2006-12-22 17:10:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-22 17:07:37 · 8 answers · asked by artutina 4

I have a ex that i dated for 3 years we lived togather 2 years i miss her badly its been 3 months do you go back to your ex and why or how do i have a chance

2006-12-22 17:07:30 · 3 answers · asked by Confused 1

he doesn't even want me to call the house phone because i might bother the people inside the house.
he doesn't even check his e mails.
please help me find answers relatively.

2006-12-22 17:06:33 · 35 answers · asked by Rizza Monica S 1