Singles & Dating - 18 December 2006

He began to have feelings for one of his friends who kept tryin to get w/him even while we were together&he was scared he would end up hurting me.BUThe started going out with her the same weekend he brokeup w/me!It's been 3 weeks&we're startin to act like best friends again.But sometimes we find ourselves having "moments"&STARING into each other's eyes for a few seconds&we turn away& he tried avoiding me after.He came up to me once&he was4cm from my face with his chest against my arm.He put a pop can on my chest&asked if it was cold.At times he strokes my tush w/his foot&w/his books when I'm walking/talking with them and when I'm at my locker.One time I was at my locker kneeling&he was behind me with some of our friends&stroked his foot between my legs&tried touching THERE!He always glanced at me around his new girl but I'm sure he cares bout her..but I catch him smirking or glancing at me often,or giving me this sympathetic look..is he jokin around or interested?what's he thinking?!

2006-12-18 07:01:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-12-18 07:01:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

Before you iread any further, read this: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20061218115553AA1ryjZ&pa=FYd1D2bwHTHwIrxiE.s8RGAHIGqZi7u9GFwjF3CrJqLtgCKwRR0c.u.NgtxYebKopdgYarEeyGLBKQ--&paid=asked&msgr_status=

Now, after answering that question separately, answer this one:
What if I said that I started going out with this girlfriend the same way, meaning that she had another boyfriend at the time I started seeing her and eventually broke up with him after a couple of months? Do you think I still have a right to be mad at those guys whom my girlfriend was cheating with?

Finally, what if I had cheated on my girlfriend in the past as well, but was very discreet about it, never lied to her, the cheatings were meaningless (sex with someone only ONCE while vacationing away from home) and I cheated on her despite knowing that I truly loved her? What rights do I have then?

2006-12-18 07:00:45 · 12 answers · asked by Sep S 2

What do I get my 24 yr old boyfriend for xmas that Ive only been dating 3 months? I need some ideas!

2006-12-18 07:00:39 · 12 answers · asked by Megan 3

and the nosy person...says.."well, what do you have to do?'''...and you say.."just a lot>"...then later you will say."a friend of mine had that"...she will say "what friend?'...and you again say.."oh just a friend"...then later,,,,you will say."some guy...blah, blah, blah..."..she will say "what guy"...YOU JUST SAY.."OH, SOME FRIEND"...SHE SAYS..."WHAT'S YOUR FRIEND'S NAME?"...I MEAN HOW NOSY CAN YOU GET?...what should i tell her ....i am just about done with her!!! doesn't she KNOW what she is asking?? should i tell her she is being intrusive...or not???OR WOULD IT BE BEST TO SAY.."MY, is someone beiNG NOSY?"...

2006-12-18 07:00:29 · 7 answers · asked by sweet 4

My best friend has a bf and she's always talking about him. I wish I had someone to talk about and to miss. Any guys out there?

2006-12-18 06:59:37 · 22 answers · asked by MT 2

too big?

2006-12-18 06:59:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

She said his "gift" is German sausage(she is a naturalized citizen) and he is just a "friend"(she has many such "friends"). They have had a relationship in the past.We have lived together since May,2006.She indicates she told me about this "gift" to be upfront and honest--yet I have a issue in terms of her trustworthiness and commitment.Ulimately, is she wanting wanting the cake and eating it too?

2006-12-18 06:57:54 · 5 answers · asked by dennisdasaint 1

2006-12-18 06:57:15 · 32 answers · asked by nkkk 1

There's this guy that I used to see at this one fast food drive thru...then I didn't see him for awhile. One day I took a short lunchbreak and went to another fast food drive thru by my work and saw that he was working there. We smiled and said hi "you're working here kinda thing". Then one day I went to another fast food drive thru (okay, yes I eat out alot) and noticed that he'd been moved to a location near my house. Again we said hi with smiles from ear to ear (both of us). He's really handsome and I'd like to know him a little better, would it be too forward to ask him for a number while he's at work? What approach should I take w/out sounding desperate? He'll soon be moving from that place to another and I'm afraid I won't find him again if that happens before I get the nerve to ask him anything personal.....HELP!

2006-12-18 06:57:03 · 4 answers · asked by Mellie 2

2006-12-18 06:56:36 · 11 answers · asked by LAC 2

She flirted heavily in front of her boyf, which I was not happy with. She always made herself available and replied straight away.
I stopped contact because she couldn't make her mind up who she wanted. Friends claimed she was just with her boyf until the right one came along.
After getting back in touch, with the hope of being just friends - she just stopped replying quickly and pretty much ignored me.
We were speaking fine until I asked about a date with her co-worker.

Do you think she was too hurt the 1st time?
Or just plain shy?

2006-12-18 06:56:25 · 6 answers · asked by Diamond 1

i can not somehow manage with it... my man had so many women before me.. with all had s e x and usually all of them were just for f u c k i n g. then he tells he had never loved till me. however.. on his com he has many music videos. but off course most of them are with sexy women showing asses boobs and so on... what make me the most angry is when he sending me a files with those clips. i just can think he stare them and get horny. sometimes he ask me if i hv seen some movie or clip and telling how sexy some of women there are... last time when he was horny told me that were thinking threesome sex with me and my sis. it is not only that i get angry just it touches my feelings. don;t know how to explain... and he acting like do not know why i m not talking him after those.. is something wrong with me? too much jealous or what? any advices??

2006-12-18 06:56:02 · 5 answers · asked by kolo molo 1

My girlfriend & I have been going out for more than a year & a half now. Recently (4 months ago), I moved to a different city & rarely saw her (a couple of days every 1-2 months) and some stuff arouse my suspiciouns. Before this, I was also always suspicious of her friendship with these two other people, but she had concinved me that nothing was going on. But my new suspicious took me down on a bad path, & I borrowed her laptop & started reading all her msn messenger logs. My fears were right. Every since our first year anniversary she was seeing two other people... & the logs were GRAPHIC, really descriptive, dirty, & graphic. I felt like vomiting in the middle of the airport as I read em & as my heart got crushed. In such a case, what would you do WITH those guys if you saw them again (and I have seen them before a couple of times)? Hit em from the back? Ignore em? Talk to them? I want to beat em, but will likely end up with a criminal charge.
There's also a 2nd question, see below:

2006-12-18 06:55:53 · 2 answers · asked by Sep S 2

I follow my MIND 100%
the heart can trick u..

2006-12-18 06:55:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

im going out with this girl i really like her and shes really pretty but i can't help bu have feelings for her ex bestfriend who if i went out with i would be made fun of because she is ugly and fat but i really like her to i can have good conversations with her.......but my gf now is great but we cant have a good conversation with eachother please help my heart is split in 2!

2006-12-18 06:55:10 · 8 answers · asked by Beau 1

Can some -one help me please , I am new in all this stuff , Thank you

2006-12-18 06:53:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just got out a realtionship about 2 months ago. My boyfriend passed away. I met this guy on a personals site but we both live in 2 different states. I was not looking for a relationship but just a companion. When we met it was like love at first site. We talk all the time and we both have the same goals. We both want marriage and a completed family. What should I do.? He is also pushing towards marriage.

2006-12-18 06:53:45 · 9 answers · asked by Shenika B 1

Call me old-fashioned but to me the first date the guy pays. To me it'd be just awkward to offer to split or whatever on a first date, especially if the guy asks you out.

On the second date I'd be happy to invite. But I've come to notice that some guys think that if you don't offer to pay you're expecting them to always pay and that you're going live off his salary or something. It's sort of a bad first impression. I wanted to see if I was wrong about that.

If I asked the guy out, that's a whole other story (that rearely happens, though, I mean girl asking guy out). I'd pay beacuse I suggested going out.

Ultimately the one that asks out, pays the bill.

Where do you stand?

2006-12-18 06:52:07 · 12 answers · asked by mackenzie 3

I KNOW I HAVE A PROBLEM! Please No rude answers! Im jealous, so jealous I dont want him talking to any other woman as well as looking.It drives me crazy! Ugly or pretty is just dosent matter.Like if were watching a movie and naked girl pops up I just get insanely jealous! And if he likes the movie,its worst becus I think that was his favorite part in the movie! Im afraid he might find another girl pretty or prettier then me.We have been together for 2 years & a half.Its come to the point where he wont even watch movies just to please me and he wont talk to other females or even look at them! He dosent even hang out! And I feel really really bad. I dont want to have him like this.Its not fair and its not how he should have to live his life.I want to change 4 the better.Can someone please tell me how do I stop being jealous like this?! Guys, what do you think when you see a naked girl in a movie.Do you think about it later or compare her to your girl?Girls HELP!!

2006-12-18 06:51:27 · 19 answers · asked by ♥ Loving My Babyboy ;) ♥ 3

2006-12-18 06:51:12 · 1 answers · asked by bubba b 1

I wanna tell him how I feel, but I'm too shy. Plus, he hates me, and I pretend to hate him back.:(Can you guys help me?

2006-12-18 06:50:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

he haven't respond back,so what should i do next?

2006-12-18 06:50:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have a curvy frame... not fat, but not skinny. I'm 5'3 and 135 pounds. My mom is always hinting to me that I'm not "skinny enough". But she's a size 2!! I think I'm just a little fuller than her. I have an hourglass shape and am very proportionate, I just have a larger bust, hips, and thighs... but i don't have a large waist!

Should I be concerned about my weight? Is it unattractive?

2006-12-18 06:49:36 · 13 answers · asked by live*laugh*love 4

I ask him if he want a baby and he said yes I DIDN'T exspect that answer what should I DO

2006-12-18 06:48:25 · 4 answers · asked by dollface 1

I love my boyfriend. I know that he wants to get married. We've only been dating like 4 months but he said that he only wants to fall in love with one person and he has with me. I'm 17. i'm pretty sure when he does ask me it will be in one year. My friend thinks that maybe 18 is a little too early cause she wants to be forsure 19. I think its not too young but some people think it is. My boyfriend hasn't really talked about an age. I'm pretty sure if we were dating longer now he would ask me. so since him and I are ok with it then it doens't really matter what some one else thinks right?

2006-12-18 06:47:32 · 26 answers · asked by Heather 3

ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .

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21 minutes ago
when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone

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49 minutes ago
this is her latest message

hey (name)!! hows it goin? boy, youve sure been hard to get a hold of lately! i was thinkin about stoppin by sometime, so unless i hear otherwise from you ill see you soooon!! k byeee!!

<3 (name)

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2 days ago
i dont want to know what u people think i should do . .. just want to know what u think she is thinking

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25 minutes ago
this is the latest message i just got tonight

heyyyyyyy (name)....are you done not talking to me yet?? just wonderin if you wanted to hang out sometime or atleast come visit and see my house!! well please get back to me and let me know!! :)

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19 minutes ago
she just sent me another email saying that she wants me to come to her birthday party . .. now why would she want me to come if he is going to be there . . . it would only cause trouble and be really awkward on top of that

2006-12-18 06:45:21 · 11 answers · asked by cbs2904 1

I have dated nice men But I always feel compelled to stay with the ones that are abusive. Why do I do this?

2006-12-18 06:43:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was singing last night and i had my eyes closed for a minute and my boyfriend came up to me and kissed me. do girls do things that make guys want to kiss them

2006-12-18 06:42:49 · 9 answers · asked by annamariecreed 1

i was skiing so i went up and half way down i ramed into this guy and fellover he said you want a hand i was like yer but the bad thing is i went up the hill and crashed into him again i was like sorry he laughed and said thats ok wat does this mean ???

2006-12-18 06:42:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous