Can some -one help me please , I am new in all this stuff , Thank you
2006-12-18 06:53:51 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes girlfriend I can help you! Look for a man who is good to his family especially his mother! Look for a man who is respectful, look for a man who is funny (because sense of humor is so damn important)! If you hook up with a man and he doesn't laugh, kick his @ss to the curb honey! Those serious @sses suck! Also look for a man that believes in hygeine, look for a man who got a lot of energy and who is not a tired @ss! Look for a man who likes playtime and not always about work, work, work! Look for a man that has the same things in common as you! Look for a man who likes to dance, look for a man that will appreciate your cooking, look for a man who believes in keeping himself healthy and fit. You don't need a man that all he wants to do is eat and sleep. One day he'll roll over on you and crush your rib cage! That would not be a pretty picture! Ok let's continue shall we? Look for a man that when you look at him, you're on fire! (And you know what I mean). Look for a man that you can trust and will trust you! Look for a man that hardworking or has a career. Look for a man that doesn't have a lot of baggage like ex-wives or small childrens! I know that one was a little harsh but honey those can be a pain in the @ss at times. Look for a man that loves children but possibly doesn't have any! Look for a man that's great in the sack in order to even give you children. Now that's up to you 2. I'm just giving you some options. And most of all, look for a man that you know for a fact will be faithful and honest. Those are the best ones! And honey they're out here! I know these things because I have one!
2006-12-18 07:08:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are no real giveaways about this. Sometimes a man can have many qaulities but still treat you badly. However, these are the things I would look for just up front:
How they treat others?
How do they take care of themselves and the things they care about?
How do they treat thier family?
Does he respect you and your time together?
Do you share similar desires?
Is he somewhat equal to you in career, physical chemistry, goals, education, spirituality, etc.?
Does he make you laugh?
Does he pay his bills on time and have a general respect for the things he is responsible for?
There are a few more, but you will know what to look for more for yourself.
These are always fatal flaws I avoid:
Drug abuse or any other type of addiction/abuse issue
Anger problems
Huge financial problems
A Liar
Too much emotional baggage to overcome
Good luck! It's not easy out there.
2006-12-18 07:02:54 · answer #2 · answered by Singthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 15:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A church going Christian who takes his responsibility seriously. He needs to have a job and have a work history. Look at his family, are they stable. Does his father and mother seem to have a good relationship? While everyone is different, these guidelines can help find a strong, stable individual.
2006-12-18 06:59:15 · answer #4 · answered by mad_mav70 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have said watch how he treats his mother.Even in your first conversation, you can pick up clues about how he thinks. See how he reacts to violence or cruelty, even in computer games. See if he has friends, and what they're like.Of course, see how the first few times you meet, if he is reliable and courteous. Good Luck!!
2006-12-18 07:00:23 · answer #5 · answered by Juliette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl what up? what to look for in a man just some advice besided the communication,personal interaction remeber it goes deeper to there heart and soul. make sure he treats you like the princess you are. truly communication is the best answer. dating men myself i have found that to be the best judge of charcter.
2006-12-18 06:58:21 · answer #6 · answered by theandanator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I always recommend the 3 S's
Smart
Sweet
Sexy
2006-12-18 06:57:11 · answer #7 · answered by Sean 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A GOOD CONVERSATION,AND A NICE MAN
2006-12-18 06:55:09 · answer #8 · answered by dce1dg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has a good relationship with his mom/sisters thats a good sign!!!!!
2006-12-18 06:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by jam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what exactly do you need help with...
2006-12-18 06:56:26 · answer #10 · answered by COlder THaN AlaSka 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋