He began to have feelings for one of his friends who kept tryin to get w/him even while we were together&he was scared he would end up hurting me.BUThe started going out with her the same weekend he brokeup w/me!It's been 3 weeks&we're startin to act like best friends again.But sometimes we find ourselves having "moments"&STARING into each other's eyes for a few seconds&we turn away& he tried avoiding me after.He came up to me once&he was4cm from my face with his chest against my arm.He put a pop can on my chest&asked if it was cold.At times he strokes my tush w/his foot&w/his books when I'm walking/talking with them and when I'm at my locker.One time I was at my locker kneeling&he was behind me with some of our friends&stroked his foot between my legs&tried touching THERE!He always glanced at me around his new girl but I'm sure he cares bout her..but I catch him smirking or glancing at me often,or giving me this sympathetic look..is he jokin around or interested?what's he thinking?!
2006-12-18 07:01:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We were going out for 10 months.He's usually genuine and honest but lately it's been weird...instead of that free spirited outgoing person that always brinsg life to things, he's all quiet and never talks when he ends up hanging out with us.His new girl practically drags him around everywhere and I think she has a jealousy issue cuz she glares at anyoen other than her&her friends that tlak to him...even guys?=S Like I can understand her being paranoid, but she should've thought of ME while SHE was trying to get with him while we were going out...it's so weird...
He tried to avoid me sometimes, but when no one is around he comes to talk to me and ti's like none of this happened (minus the OBVIOUS intimacy of hugging and kissing and cuddling).... I just don't know what he's thinking. At all.
2006-12-18 07:05:41 · update #1
I do like him. As a matter of fact, I loved him very much... a lot. I'd do anythign for him. The breakup came at a very random time, we were perfectly fine until the Saturday he broke up with me. I thought we were getting stronger then suddenly this happens and it makes NO SENSE. *sigh* I know he loved me... he always said he cared, and he acted like he did too... it wans't .like him to dump me with no explaination and then not tell me he was going out with her. It's just so unlike him to play aorund with people like that at all.
2006-12-18 07:14:26 · update #2
He sounds like a jerk. If he is trying it on with you, while he has a new girlfriend, what's to stop him trying it on with someone else once he has you?
2006-12-18 07:04:03 · answer #1 · answered by Tom :: Athier than Thou 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, you've got to get over him...it's quite obvious that even though your bf dumped you, you still harbor wishes of becoming close to him again! You have to put down the relationship, it has already ended, do you hear me? Once you're clear about your feelings, you can then try to talk to him a bit by a bit, and gradually settle down into an easy friendship with him. A relationship takes time to rebuild. Spend time with him every now and then as a friend and stop thinking of him as your bf anymore.
2016-05-23 04:51:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may have some feeling for you still, but keep in mind if you play into that you will be SHARING HIM with another woman. If you might feel the same thing, make sure he has a clean slate with no other girls and then yu guys can talk about where to take it from there. Good Luck!
2006-12-18 07:05:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds complicated, like he doesn't know what he wants. Or, he wants his cake and to eat it too- a player. Sorry sweetie, but I'd stay out of this one, she with him and not you and he should not be making those sexual advances on you- maybe some of it is jokes, but I'd watch out because it could get sticky. Good luck
2006-12-18 07:06:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself something... do you still like him? What he's doing to is telling me he really wants you back. So if you feel you can give it another chance do it!!! He sounds like a nice guy, but if you don't feel like giving another go then tell him to keep it "g"lol jk. Tell him how you feel.
Good Luck!
2006-12-18 07:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by Bex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... why would you want to get back together with a guy who already left you for someone else once?
2006-12-18 07:07:21 · answer #6 · answered by Not Allie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes trying to make you jealous
you shouldnt tell off him but next time he touches you in a weird way then slap him and tell him you feel uncomfortable
2006-12-18 07:05:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not serious ,be carefuly
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