What if you had a friend that SAID when you said..."oh, I have a lot to do"....?

Question

and the nosy person...says.."well, what do you have to do?'''...and you say.."just a lot>"...then later you will say."a friend of mine had that"...she will say "what friend?'...and you again say.."oh just a friend"...then later,,,,you will say."some guy...blah, blah, blah..."..she will say "what guy"...YOU JUST SAY.."OH, SOME FRIEND"...SHE SAYS..."WHAT'S YOUR FRIEND'S NAME?"...I MEAN HOW NOSY CAN YOU GET?...what should i tell her ....i am just about done with her!!! doesn't she KNOW what she is asking?? should i tell her she is being intrusive...or not???OR WOULD IT BE BEST TO SAY.."MY, is someone beiNG NOSY?"...

Answer 1

Tell her...Why? Why do you want to know for?? Give me one good reason why I should tell you?? If she gives you a reason why, tell her....nope that's not a good enough reason for me to tell you anything!

Answer 2

god, that is so annoying. it sounds like she just really wants to be a part of your life and she's trying really hard to get all the details of what you're saying...

i know its really annoying but you can always just tell her the name of the person -- that way she leaves u alone about it, plus you make her feel good, plus she's not annoying and doesnt keep asking "who. what. where. when. who who who who who" (lol)

if its someone that you're not allowed to say the name (or u dont want to because it might ruin thier reputation) then just say "i'm not saying who." period. the end. you are not saying who it is.

if its someone she doesnt know, then just be like "you dont know them!" and if she says "maybe i do, tell me who!" maybe just tell her the name. it couldnt hurt and if it can then (like isaid before) just say "i'm not saying who."

she sounds annoying, but it could be that she wants to be a huge part of your life and can only do that by knowing everyone you're talking about

Answer 3

Guess she wants the truth. Just tell her who. So she won't keep asking again and again. Make thigs simple and straight ahead for her n you.

Answer 4

whenever she says, who? or What? or whatever, ask her "Why do you want to know?" or just walk away.. or don't say stuff like "I've gotta do something," or "I've gotta see somebody..." in front of her..
for future reference, please try and word your questions better, i had a tough time understanding this at the beginning..

Answer 5

Wow, dial down the caffeine, she's just making conversation.

Answer 6

I'm not really sure I understand what you're talking about... Clarification?

Answer 7

WTF!!!!!!!!!!!????????????!!!!!!!!!!!