My girlfriend & I have been going out for more than a year & a half now. Recently (4 months ago), I moved to a different city & rarely saw her (a couple of days every 1-2 months) and some stuff arouse my suspiciouns. Before this, I was also always suspicious of her friendship with these two other people, but she had concinved me that nothing was going on. But my new suspicious took me down on a bad path, & I borrowed her laptop & started reading all her msn messenger logs. My fears were right. Every since our first year anniversary she was seeing two other people... & the logs were GRAPHIC, really descriptive, dirty, & graphic. I felt like vomiting in the middle of the airport as I read em & as my heart got crushed. In such a case, what would you do WITH those guys if you saw them again (and I have seen them before a couple of times)? Hit em from the back? Ignore em? Talk to them? I want to beat em, but will likely end up with a criminal charge.
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2006-12-18 06:55:53 · 2 answers · asked by Sep S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-18 07:03:05 · update #1
Do nothing to those guys and ditch that chick. There are better ones out there that will be true to you. Leave and don't look back. Don't waste your time thinking about it anymore. You are more important than that.
2006-12-18 07:04:12 · answer #1 · answered by slap_shot69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is something you should take up with your girlfriend. She's the one cheating on you, not these other guys. Leave them out of it completely, talk to her and figure out why she's been doing it. There is no good explanation for it but it would be good to hear it. Fighting or taking anger out on them is unnecessary and would make you look stupid because it isn't their fault. I would say to talk about it then move on, alone would probably be best. If she was capable of doing it this once with two diff people then she can easily do it again. No matter what, keep it between you and her...that will be the most mature approach to it.
2006-12-18 15:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by Steve S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋