Singles & Dating - 18 November 2006

2006-11-18 17:19:19 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

Here it goes. I met this guy a few months ago on MySpace and we IM'd each other a few times and he eventually got my number and he text me all the time asking me to come over to his place. Well I met him about twice and I went over to his place where we talked and made out. My problem is that I really liked this guy but he stopped talking to me for awhile after I went to his place. To this day, I still talk to him on AIM and text him once in awhile and he says that he wants to see me and everytime I talk to him he says he thinks I'm hot and sexy and wants me to come over. Something doesn't feel right though. What is up with this? I am so confused, should I just let this guy go and move on? I have this problem where I need to find out why people do what they do. Should I ask him what's up? I have no idea what to do and this situation is stressing me out.

2006-11-18 17:16:56 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2

I treat her well, show her affection, and still she snaps and raises her voice at me from time to time. I told her I want out of the relationship, but she says she'll change. Can people really change? I love her, but i refuse to be her whipping boy, and I've told her this many times. I believe her attitude comes from her past experiences...I am running out of compassion and understanding...am I wrong??

2006-11-18 17:15:45 · 19 answers · asked by alex m 3

It's seemed like this girl and i were moving toward a relationship. We acted like we were gonna be together. We went out and kissed an all that. Then she tells me she doesn't want a relationship right now and not sure when. She wants to stay friends for now. Why!

2006-11-18 17:14:44 · 20 answers · asked by Q 2

Is there a way to tell other than just flat out asking? Do they look or feel different when the guy has a hardon?

2006-11-18 17:13:04 · 13 answers · asked by shelley b 1

My best friend ever is a guy I work with. He and I have shared everything with each other. We have even fooled around a little. When I say a little, I mean we have not gone all the way, just to third base. When i started having feeling for him, I told him. He told me that he had feelings too, but we had to end our little bedroom ventures because the friendship is more important. Well, I agreed and our friendship stayed as strong as ever. Well, now he has been dropping hints that he wants to fool around again. We went on lunch the other day and he wound up kissing me in my car before we went back to work. I am confused as to what he really wants from me. I love the guy as my best friend, but and holding back other feelings to keep from getting hurt. What should I do???

2006-11-18 17:13:00 · 5 answers · asked by ncangel33 1

2006-11-18 17:09:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been seeing this man for about two and half months. We spend time together 3 or 4 days a week. We're having sex--great sex regularly and have agreed to be "sexually exclusive" since we had our STD screenings and are not using protection. The relationship has it's quirks...he'd rather chat on Yahoo than talk on the phone for instance. But over all things are pretty good....however I don't feel like I am officially his girlfriend. Thanksgiving is next week...he asked me what I was doing, but didn't extend an invitation to join him and when I said I was thinking about cooking and would love to have him over his answer was that he didn't know what he was doing.

I'm confused---am I his girlfriend? I feel like I'm in limbo...not really his girlfriend but more than a friend with benefits....and if I'm not his girlfriend, does that mean he's still looking?

2006-11-18 17:06:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been with this girl for about 9 mos. and i know she loves me and i love her, but she doesn't want a relationship. We're just very, very close friends. should i just forget about her, just pretend that we're in a reltiionship(since we pretty much are) or just be friends.

2006-11-18 17:04:02 · 19 answers · asked by Durdy 3

He will sit there and just stare at me with the slightest grin. I'll look over and I will smile back. Does he like me or is this really weird???

2006-11-18 17:03:29 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

Are girls more into the athletic frat boy type or more into the rich boy fun type?

2006-11-18 17:02:08 · 13 answers · asked by private0909 1

My friend called me today and gave me this shocking news , the guy she likes and going out with lately , called her tonight and told her about his ex , well this guy has slept with alot of girls year ago , he wanted to change and he changed since he dated my friend and wanted to change his life , she had a hard time to deal with the fact that he slept with alot of girls , today he told her about this girl he slept with who got pregnant while back and she gave birth , after this while she called himt onight to surprise him that he is the father of the kid (the girl lives in another state and gave him the results over the phone that her sons father is him) can that actually be ? doesnt he need to be tested as well?

Okay there is two questions here , could this be lie and shouldnt he be tested to be really sure that he is the father? not only her being tested to prove that?

second question , if that is true what she should do about him? i think she should let go of him and just be his friends , because i think it wont work knowing there is a kid out there and he is a father , and for sure he will do anything for the kid and there will be this connection here and there forever between him and his ex or just those problems she is going to deal with.

P.S the girl doesnt like my friends b/f or liked him that much before , they were togather for only few weeks when they slept togather , so as you can tell there wasnt any "love" or serious thing


Thanks.

2006-11-18 17:01:37 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you mind guys just coming up and chatting with you at the gym, club, store....?

2006-11-18 17:00:45 · 126 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ok so I met this guy which is 19 (I'm 15). He is leaving to go overseas for 2 years. We really like each other,but I'm not sure if I am ready to have something this serious. I want him to still be in my life,but there are other people that I may want to date while he's gone. Here's my question.... Should we just take the next 2 years to get to know each other and go from there?? Should I just tell him we can be friends?

2006-11-18 16:56:30 · 11 answers · asked by princess_kayla14 1

we've been through a lot tokgether but i'm still young. i love him so much but i have guy friends and he doesnt like that i hang out with them.HELP! what shokuld i do.

2006-11-18 16:55:40 · 10 answers · asked by Teesa F 1

why if a gurl sleeps with a guy, a guy can later on call her a hoar and then her reputation is ruined but if a guy sleeps around he *the man* whatz up with that in our society? will that ever change or will it stick around forever?

2006-11-18 16:55:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

Who out there has loved an alcoholic? How do you deal? How long did you love him/her, or do you still? What does it mean to love someone like this? That we have no self-esteem?

2006-11-18 16:54:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

Okay here is my question, and I am looking for all answers, Please no kid answers
. Okay so we all are on here because we have questons some seem serious others are just bored people with no life and nothing better to do with their time. But what I want to know is when you post a guestion that is really stupid or just ignorant and you get a sarcastic remark for an answer why do you get angry and e-mail with a nasty comment? You posted it, and sometimes it deserves a sarcastic remark or comment. Or why when you ask a stupid or ignorant question and you get offended by the response, why do you run and report it as abuse? Can anyone out here help me figure out why these people get so upset when they act stupid.. IE: "is it required to have sex after you get married" HELP looking for some sense here.... :) :)

2006-11-18 16:53:37 · 19 answers · asked by melissa052572 3

I liked this guy and no one really knew...
then yesterday he drunk dialed me...saying
"ur gorgeous, if anyone told u otherwise, i'd beat the hell out of them...u never call me so i'm calling u, we need to start hanging out...ur so pretty"

he was obviously drunk...so do ppl really say what they feel...or was it just the alcohol talking?!

also...i saw him today...he remembered the call he made...and he laughed about it...but other than that he was sort of distant...

what does this mean?!

2006-11-18 16:53:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anita L 1

i have been going out with this guy for 4 days do dou you think a kiss on the cheek on the 6th day is well... ok

2006-11-18 16:52:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

and they did more stuff, like having sex and all that. hes 15 im 14. i think thats way too young. and im not ready for that. he loves me too. u can just tell...you know? any way. were always together if we go out, what should i do? i mean im not ready for "all of that" and eveytime im with him, im afraid but i want to kiss him, because i dont wanna mess up in any way. cus i care what he thinks...plz helppp

2006-11-18 16:52:39 · 7 answers · asked by Dragonfly :) 4

ok well ive been trying to talk to this girl, when ever I try to say hi she doesn;t realy noice me. A lot of people told me to say a complement about her to get things started. But I dont wanna go saying "nice hair" lol , so what sould I say? if you think I shouldn;t complament her than what do u think I should do?

2006-11-18 16:51:57 · 5 answers · asked by [quarantine] 3

I'm a guy!

My question is, why do some women when being chased by somebody they like and she likes them, becomes depressed, obsessed & feel horrible when the guy stops CHASING?

I don't understand this! When the guy was chasing you, how DO you think he FELT when he put his feelings out there and you kept running.

NOW that he STOPPED you want to SHOW how you REALLY feel, and obsess over him?

WHY, yes I speak from a 2 real life experiences, but I don't feel sorry.

2006-11-18 16:49:38 · 16 answers · asked by crazyinsane0000 1

I love her. But she doesn't. Eventhough I love her. I am unable to forget her. She call me 'Anna'. So, Even I can't propose to her. What can I do in that situtation?

2006-11-18 16:48:14 · 11 answers · asked by Karthick N 2

Lost a little over 100 pounds, (don't ask me how I let myself get that fat! I have no idea!) But now I have extra skin on my arms and my tummy has some extra skin. You can't tell by looking at me with my clothes on....But I am scared to get in a relationship because I don't know what the guys gonna think!!! When is the right time to tell him!? And BE HONEST would you date someone like this??

2006-11-18 16:47:47 · 5 answers · asked by cuteness 4

I'm married and this very pretty girl who knows that I'm a married man likes to hangout with me at work and I really cant resist the thought of doing something, does she like me like that?

2006-11-18 16:45:34 · 14 answers · asked by monreve_2000 3

2006-11-18 16:44:07 · 19 answers · asked by clark k 1

2006-11-18 16:42:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

what makes you want more of her...(besides physical attraction...that's obvious)

2006-11-18 16:40:03 · 20 answers · asked by SwEeTs!!! 2

I'm in a bad situation. I let my girlfiend go out with another buddy of mine. For some reason, she kind of likes him even though he is extremely arrogant. She says she's considering dumping me for him. Next Friday will be her last week in town. She's planning to go out with him instead of me. What should I do?

2006-11-18 16:39:26 · 31 answers · asked by ? 3