I'm a guy!
My question is, why do some women when being chased by somebody they like and she likes them, becomes depressed, obsessed & feel horrible when the guy stops CHASING?
I don't understand this! When the guy was chasing you, how DO you think he FELT when he put his feelings out there and you kept running.
NOW that he STOPPED you want to SHOW how you REALLY feel, and obsess over him?
WHY, yes I speak from a 2 real life experiences, but I don't feel sorry.
2006-11-18 16:49:38 · 16 answers · asked by crazyinsane0000 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Crazy things women sometimes do.
Don't keep chasing anymore ladies & forget your 2 experiences.
They created that problem themselves.
2006-11-18 16:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you dont really love this person, it was just a challenge, move on, when the right person comes along, there is no need for stupid "mind games". Hey, really, life is too short to be bothered with silly women or men that play mind games, and I am sure that by the sounds of it, you are looking in the wrong areas, change your habits and join some clubs (not for woman hunting) but just to fill in time, and before you know it, that special someone will be there. Oh why do people waste time with stupid 'mind games', no one ever wins.
I am a woman, and if a man shows interest in me and I am interested, I show it, but if I am not, I politely reject his advances and it has saved me and them from alot of unnecessary rubbish and the good thing about it is, that you can still be great friends.
Good Luck to you.
2006-11-18 17:00:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
this is how most women work. They obsess over a guy usually before they know him. In those cases they arent obsessed with the guy, they are obsessed with what he represents to them. More like obsessed with that guy they have created in their head, the guy they hope he will be. For some odd reason when a guy likes you back, you stop being so infatuated with him. He is no longer what you expected. You see flaws in him that didnt exist in his fantasy counterpart. get it? basically women are complicated. Heres a tip, dont come on too stong, we hate that.
2006-11-18 16:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We just like the chase. It makes us feel powerful when guys want us that much.
2006-11-19 02:27:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never played that game well at all and if it looked liked I was being led along, I stopped the chase
2006-11-18 16:51:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hard to get. We love the attention, and if you're willing to give it, sure. It's called teasing... you shouldn't have been "chasing" after anybody anyway. That could feel like you're smothering them. BACK. OFF. Be friends first. Sheesh...
2006-11-18 16:53:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
she feels like you dont want her anmore you need a few more years in the game cause you would know there is no figureing out a woman and if you know she likes you y not keep chaseing -------- ya dig
2006-11-18 16:53:39 · answer #7 · answered by pretty gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm getting so emotional, each and each and every time i imagine of GCG. And by emotional, I mean i does not dare defile his holy call. I worry being reduce, and the MaryJo Buttafucco look purely doesn't artwork for me!
2016-11-29 06:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by gnegy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girls are playing hard to get. You have a choice to move on or continue to play the catching game.
2006-11-18 16:53:51 · answer #9 · answered by Bright 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they're afraid of showing their feelings they have for you because of a bad relationship that they had before.
2006-11-18 16:55:24 · answer #10 · answered by bReE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋