What should I do now that my girlfriend is seeing somebody else?

Question

I'm in a bad situation. I let my girlfiend go out with another buddy of mine. For some reason, she kind of likes him even though he is extremely arrogant. She says she's considering dumping me for him. Next Friday will be her last week in town. She's planning to go out with him instead of me. What should I do?

Answer 1

Drop her like a bad habit and then find a different girl. She doesn't deserve you and make sure she knows it. If you stick around and tolerate that kind of crap she won't respect you. Dumping her and going out with someone else also doesn't mean you can't get back with her at a later date.

Plus you've got a very good reason to break up with her, and it will be easier on your self esteem if you're the one that made the decision to end the relationship.

Answer 2

Why do you even need to ask such a question it is pretty obvious she doesn't want to be with you anymore and it is time to get over it and let her go. What do you think you are going to do tie her down to keep her with you? Do you really want to be with someone that totally disrespected you and went for your so called friend. Move on and find someone else and a bit of advice don't let your GF go out with your friends not a bright idea...

Answer 3

First off she is not your girlfriend so stop saying that she is because if she was she wouldv'e loved you enough not to do that to you. Second let her go, it's gonna hurt but you don't need someone like that.It'll be her loss, not yours. You can find someone better. If this guy is as arrogant as you say he is, she'll find out and it'll turn around and bite her in the ***.

Answer 4

She sounds like a nasty person and she is purposely being mean to you. It sounds like these 2 deserve each other. Find someone else. There are plenty of girls looking for a nice guy. And don't let the next one go out with your friends.

Answer 5

Beat her to it and dump her now. Sounds like shes playing both sides and will only mess with your head.

Move on buddy.

Answer 6

"You let her go with your buddy?"What do you mean? Did she need your permission? Did she ask you, or did you suggest? Maybe she feels offended,slighted by you, or maybe she really likes him better--please ask her? Regardless the outcome remain as her friend and wait and see. Maybe she will forgive you, or you will find somebody else when you will learn to love and respect more.

Answer 7

She does not sound very nice. Let her go - even though it may hurt. As time goes on, you will heal. Eventually, you will find someone else. As far as the friend, I would not call him a friend any longer. Friends do not do such things.

Answer 8

for one , i dont want to sound like a bad person but i think it's your own fault for sharing your girlfriend, but in a good way that's great cuz you found out what kind of girl she really turned out to be, so dont feel bad , find yourself a real girl not an easy girl like that, you deserve better then that buddy, let her go you will find a real girl not a *****.

Answer 9

I am not sure i understand your relationship with this girl. If she is going out with you than why would she also be going out with your friend? If wat i think is going on is right they dump her. She doesnt deserve someone as nice as you. (i am guessing you are nice considering that you are letting her date others at the same time as dating you.) Good Luck

Answer 10

Dude! Dump her first! She should have had enough respect for you not to go out with another guy. And QUIT calling her your girlfriend, she obviously doesn't think of herself as that. Just go find another.