what makes you want more of her...(besides physical attraction...that's obvious)
2006-11-18 16:40:03 · 20 answers · asked by SwEeTs!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
someone who isnt controlling
someone who doesnt nag
someone who doesnt complain all the time
someone who is somewhat giving
someone who isnt taking constantly
someone who isnt going drop you like a bag of rocks once the kids come along.
someone who isnt jealous
someone who isnt moody
2006-11-18 17:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Natural-ness.
I want her to be natural. Kind, warm, funny, gentle but strong mentally and emotionally. Not insecure with lots of hangups and such.
Affectionate, loyal to the relationship and to me (obviously me to her as well), honest and trust worthy... etc. (Sounds a bit like a dog but I don't mean it to honestly.)
A good personality, bubbly but not too girly or over the top, the ability to make and hold intelligent, sparkling convosation. However being overly boyish and overtly independent to the point where holding a door (ie being a gentlemen etc) is out of the question is a massive turn off.
I want girls to be girls damn it! Wear skirts again! There are far too many trousers on the lady folk nowadays!
I guess be femminine again.
Thats my wish list. The perfect woman.
It'll never happen of course because no one is perfect and I am the first person to say I don't tick all of those boxes. (eg the one about being feminine *joke*) I am by no means perfect!
But if someone could make me feel loved, needed and happy that would suit me well thank you... *sigh*
The Iceman.
2006-11-19 01:05:30 · answer #2 · answered by The Iceman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of the answers boil down to one word: respect. Not just courtesy. Treating your man with courtesy is just treating him like a human being. He's your boyfriend for goodness sake. Or you want him to be anyway. You've got to treat him BETTER than the rest of the world. Actually honor him. Be proud of him. Act like you respect him. That you are proud of him. That you believe in him. That you trust him.
Think about things that you might do. Talk to friends on the phone while he's with you? That's DISRESPECT. Talking to other guys when he's there? Disrespect again. Putting your hand on the door handle when he opens the door for you? That shows that you don't trust his ability to hold the door open for you. Don't put your hand out. Just accept the gift and walk through. When he pulls your chair out for you to sit in it. Don't pull it back in yourself. That's HIS job. Let HIM be the gentleman. Don't be the gentleman for him. Respect and enjoy his ability to be a man. He will make your life easier and better. That's his job. And he really enjoys it.
He might not know exactly why he likes you, but he will.
Another thing that I personally like, make me feel comfortable. Carry the conversation, unless he's a natural at talking.
2006-11-19 01:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by SmartAlex 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want a girl that is smart and not ditsy(she doesn't have to be a genious but she has to be fairly smart). I would also want a girl to be understanding and able to be flexible(not physically) meaning that she can change plans and she doesn't get caught up in one situation. Also I would like a girl that is honest and not stuck up. I hate it when girls think that they are the best thing in the room...unless its my girlfriend. I love it when girls try to attatch emotionally...not physically.
2006-11-19 00:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by running08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love a girl that can make me laugh and laugh at me. Anyone who can have fun in any situation is usually a good person. Also a kind heart always shows a good girl!
2006-11-19 00:47:50 · answer #5 · answered by redbear 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all about personality. I'd take a much less than beautiful girl with a great personality any day.
2006-11-19 00:50:51 · answer #6 · answered by Bugged Out 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm thats good question (Hair = doesnt matter what style)
(physical = thin) (her personality, tomboy, passionate, shy, strong, simple) (and doesnt matter what she wears) (except a see thru thing you know what i mean)
thats all i got for now
2006-11-19 00:46:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...
Someone to snuggle with, and talk too. Someone sweet, and caring and who looks at you that way, you know the way I mean...that look is perfect and can warm the heart to the core. Oh and someone intelligent, I like intelligent conversation too...
2006-11-19 00:46:16 · answer #8 · answered by bheithcao 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me I just need her to be understanding as I understand her. That is one of them many reason for loving each other till grey, whether she is younger or older than mself.
2006-11-19 00:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by Phillip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
kindness! most people dont realize this, but if you like a person you are gonna be watching them, and if you do something mean and selfish thats a major turn-off. thats pretty much covers it.
2006-11-19 00:42:48 · answer #10 · answered by Lfeata 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋