Here it goes. I met this guy a few months ago on MySpace and we IM'd each other a few times and he eventually got my number and he text me all the time asking me to come over to his place. Well I met him about twice and I went over to his place where we talked and made out. My problem is that I really liked this guy but he stopped talking to me for awhile after I went to his place. To this day, I still talk to him on AIM and text him once in awhile and he says that he wants to see me and everytime I talk to him he says he thinks I'm hot and sexy and wants me to come over. Something doesn't feel right though. What is up with this? I am so confused, should I just let this guy go and move on? I have this problem where I need to find out why people do what they do. Should I ask him what's up? I have no idea what to do and this situation is stressing me out.
2006-11-18 17:16:56 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Trust your gut feeling (instinct). He probably has many girls that are keeping him busy.
2006-11-18 17:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by Daiquiri Dream 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through the exact same thing right now. I thought we clicked like crazy, then he just quit IMing me. I think he thinks he is letting me down easy by not responding. HEY ALL YOU GUYS out there---we would like some kind of explanation when you do these things. That's the least you can do. It's called consideration. If you ask him what's up he will give you every excuse in the world. I know it hurts, but try to move on and look for another fish in the ocean.
2006-11-18 17:25:07 · answer #2 · answered by T_I_GG_E_R 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is my opinion and I hope it helps you make your decision.
I know myspace is for people to network, but I think that probably 60-70% of people on there use it for all the wrong reasons. To this day, I know its illegal to be a prostitute or a 'call girl' but trust me I have read and seen profiles of women who are promoting their "businesses".
So...what I think this guy is doing is basically trying to get laid. He thinks that he can meet all kinds of girls that dont really KNOW him and can just use them. In your case because it didnt go farther than making out, he didnt get what he wanted and so he moved on. Another scenario is that maybe he could have many other girls that he sees and doesnt have enough time to fit you in to.
Overall girl, I think you should drop him like a fly. It sounds to me like your a smart girl and will find someone worth talking to. Dont rely on myspace for dating. Good luck.
2006-11-18 17:22:21 · answer #3 · answered by blondbeauty1987 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We can never know why people do what they do. When it comes to online romances, some guys just go for the chase and then become bored. Leave him be and he will realize what he is missing. If he feels like you are always waiting, then, there is no fun in it. The best relationships always add more intimacy - never give it away all at once.
2006-11-18 17:23:58 · answer #4 · answered by David 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Straight up this guy wants one thing and your intuition is telling you that he is bad news. Don't put yourself in danger like that going to a strangers house. Then he makes out with you. Come on, that should be proof enough Sweetie. No don't ask him what is up because he will not tell you the truth. Just move on and don't go any further with this guy. He will feed you a line then reel you in. So be careful.
2006-11-18 17:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are engaging in risky and dangerous behavior!!! You have no idea what type of person you may be dealing with and you seem to lack respect for yourself! Instead of being concerned about why he is doing what he does, you need to find out why YOU are doing the things you are! It is sad that you feel you must be "hot and sexy" with someone who basically is a stranger. Please be careful! Pay attention to the feelings that you are having that "something doesn't feel right."
2006-11-18 17:25:44 · answer #6 · answered by jom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you say you have this problem where you need to find out why people do what they do, what do you mean?
Since your makeout session it seems like things from good to wonderful. You should worry if he avoids you which does not seem to be the case.
I get the feeling that your inner voice is telling you something. You should never ignore it...
Why are you letting this stress you out so much, go with the flow, life is too short.
2006-11-18 17:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by dazzle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't trust this guy, he's probably just trying to get into your pants. Sure go ahead if you like him ask him out and see where it takes you, but just be prepared to get hurt for putting your heart on the line like that.
2006-11-18 17:24:28 · answer #8 · answered by Pandoooo;. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry but you are a booty call.
2006-11-18 17:19:46 · answer #9 · answered by prettyme 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋