Singles & Dating - 18 November 2006

No i am not a single mum yet (problems) just curious as there are genuine single mum and dads out there who are single due to circmustances they couldnt help, widowed,partner didnt want to know i,e

2006-11-18 22:29:32 · 10 answers · asked by jules 4

well..i am in love with this guy but I am far more intelligent than him...i am like..best girl in class (academically) i look better than average and only 1 and a half inch shorter than him..still..he or better to say noone has asked me out. I am slim too but not very sporty..usually i am given "leadership tasks"..so is my being "better" the reason of him not liking me?

2006-11-18 22:27:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've hinted and I don't think he hasn't recieved them. My friend cross-examined him and she said he chose me over another girl, but I still don't know if he likes me. How can I ask?
And please don't tell me "just try", I'm really shy.

2006-11-18 22:25:13 · 5 answers · asked by Spirit 2

2006-11-18 22:18:19 · 5 answers · asked by 21questions 4

Guys, I'm a handsome guy. I'm not a show-off like guys usually are. I am well-mannered, cultured, disciplined... I have everything except for one - A GIRL. Now, I do like a girl but I cant quite gather the guts to speak to her.
I live in India. Here, its quite different from other countries. If I goto a gal straight and tell her how I feel abt her, there's just one answer I would get - a SLAP. I wanna be her friend. My friends are her friends too & they know I like her. But they have bitched all kinda **** abt me to her. I've spoken to her a couple of times & yest., she looked at me twice and when I looked at her looking towards me, I didnt know what she was expressing through her silence. But I think she's interested.

The problem is...
1. My tongue that fails me all the time.
2. I'm bad at presenting myself.

One of my friend told me that I was a sleeping giant who has everythin to charm gals except for the art of presenting myself properly.

Any suggestions regarding all I wrote?

2006-11-18 22:14:23 · 11 answers · asked by DJ ShamZ 1

im in love to death with this guy...we're not of the same race but we've transcended since we were close friends. hes a bit..racist towards other people..saying this and that, to me, not to their faces.
should i be worried? i love him...i really doo........*music in ears*

2006-11-18 22:08:19 · 16 answers · asked by happybeanstalk 3

those mean girls lol, do you think the woman doing your pedicure has ever intentionally tickled you? Or was it obvious that she was?? if so, what were you tickled with?? did you like it or did it creep you out?

2006-11-18 22:04:06 · 2 answers · asked by docboom2386 1

This girl was my secondary school classmate. We used to know each other only barely. But God knows how many times I peeped at her during lesson instead of looking at the board. However, I was a shy boy (though still is) and the fact is that she had boyfriends one after another THROGHT OUT the teen years. and God know how many times I felt sour and my heart sank whenever I saw her with her guy(s).

During the poly years, I had a girlfriend and she was having a relatively more committed relationship. so my heart was with my girl at the time and hence you can only say that I have been a secret admirer "on-and-off" for 10 years.

OFF, is when I have a gf, my heart have no one else. and even when I'm single, I won't fall for a girl who is attached.

ON, is for the times when we were both unattached. it kind of give me hope bcoz she is available. For the past 10 years, I never take any action for these "on" periods.

For the past 2 months, we kind of reconnect our communication. Bcoz i'm studying in uni now and she is working, we have chance to chat for few hours daily on MSN. (mon-fri working hours only though, because she don't usually use msn at home)

From recent chats, she told me that she is now single, and she mentioned that she is not a late-queen for dates nowadays. And after she know that I used to have one painful and hurtful relationship, she said that people have to move on and "if there's a good girl whom you like then give it a try" She also claims that she only regard herself who had only 2 relationships because sec sch histores are just childish ones.

We talked a lot rubbish, shared a lot of views, joked a lot and "suan" each other a lot and I feel (or maybe only I feel)that we start to have some connection.

So, last week, I managed to find some courage and said..

"you wrote on my sec sch autograph book that I can call you anytime, so.. can I call you tonight?"

but she replied "lol.. I have a dinner appointment tonight."

I was rather disappointed. I thought, if she doesn't mind me calling she would have state a time or sth.

But soon after, she said "next time we catch up with a movie, after your exam?", "when your exam finish?", "talk is cheap, fix a date now"....

so, our tentative date (or sec sch class monitor-monitress re-union if putting it mildly) is 3 dec!!just 2 days aft my exam. But the point is that we only chat on MSN and have not advanced into phone-talk and constant sms-es.

I keep thinking of her recently. and thinking.. Should I postpone it? because I just had a bad haircut. what shd I say? how should I behave? will I just blush and panic? is that anything in my walldrode that can match her smile and style? shd I pay for everything? where shd we eat? It's not like I don't have experience. Although I had gf before. But this time is different. She is a special person to me. (else I won't admire her for a decade
So now i'm like completely anxious and excited at the same time.

She is a very pretty girl to me. I looked at her that way for the past 10 years. so it's not like i'm saying this because she is grown up now and having her own fashion taste.

But I have a low esteem of myself. because I don't think I have the look. and that i'm just a poor student who owes the bank loan of $18k.

The tough point here for me is: Are there another guys who express interest in her? DOES she already has someone in mind? when should I tell her my feelings? the feelings that have been kept inside me for 10 years? Should I buy her a present (and say it's christmas present) for that day? Should I just write a love letter and confess everything? (probably not because she might freak out) What should we do after movie? OR.. after all, she might actually just take it at friendship level and that I am thinking way too much?

I feel that, sooner or later, I have to confess my feelings for her and give it a try. else i'll only keep thinking of her and suffocate myself.

What shd I do?
1) Taking it easy and naturally? (I think she will be taken by another guy if taking it slowly. because she is just such a nice girl)
2) Show my feelings soon? (what if she got stunned and don't talk to me even on msn)

I'm so paranoid!! How I wish that behind every girl there is a equation and by solving it, you understand her thoughts and have her loving you! (haha.. i'm engineering student)

Can people out there advice me? Especially girls. I would be glad to hear your opinons. Thanks a lot if you manage to read finish this essay.

2006-11-18 22:00:33 · 9 answers · asked by sp_jimmy 1

2006-11-18 21:59:15 · 23 answers · asked by sonali 2

2006-11-18 21:57:49 · 11 answers · asked by wondering 4

2006-11-18 21:52:13 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-18 21:52:11 · 14 answers · asked by Toves 1

i met this guy in a ..self help chat channel before. i was an emo teen then. now we've both grown to our mid 20s. still havent met yet. hes nice and sweet and i'd rather not go into details :)

thing is how do i know if he jst does it for fears that i might cut myself or something?

its weird....guys usually want it to be "official"

if he really loves you right?

2006-11-18 21:50:45 · 2 answers · asked by happybeanstalk 3

Why is it every time you start dating a girl she brings up marriage or babies within the first two weeks?. I had a girl not to long ago ask me to move in after knowing me for 3 days. Why can't you all relax and just let things take their natural course.?

2006-11-18 21:48:58 · 13 answers · asked by gypsy_soldier79 1

I think i'm lucky to feel rock solid in my relationship, but occasionally from time to time if some one catches my eye i look. The question is does it really matter if you or your partner looks in another direction at some one else sometimes....is there any real harm in looking at some one else?..... or does it boil down to what our intentions are?.......if you think so, or not explain why?.....

2006-11-18 21:41:39 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hey, i've heard that one of the best ways to turn a woman on is to breathe on her neck and slowly kiss her, anyone else got any ideas??

2006-11-18 21:41:16 · 4 answers · asked by thugster17 2

details: jobs etc.

2006-11-18 21:30:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Do you go for looks or personality first?? What is your ideal girl?

2006-11-18 21:27:18 · 20 answers · asked by LC 2

how come men sleep around and get praised for doing so, but if a woman sleeps around she gets called names and her reputation is ruined? and usually women have less partners then men, but we are the nasty one?

2006-11-18 21:24:37 · 16 answers · asked by linderlou2006 2

2006-11-18 21:06:18 · 12 answers · asked by zai_kun83 1

2006-11-18 21:05:52 · 10 answers · asked by Only Me 7

I am taking a quick survey to see how far people will go on average. I am trying to make a type of essay on bondage which I call the pleasure paradox. Please be serious with the results, since answers might throw off the survey

2006-11-18 21:03:03 · 9 answers · asked by tehanswer-er 1

i met this girl and immediately liked her so i sent her a poem as a secret admirer through e-mail. i didn't know her well at all but i really liked her writing on myspace. she really liked the poem i sent and said she wanted to know who i was. so finally i told her. now, she knows i like her and wants to get to know me to see if she has the same feelings, but i can't stop thinking she is only being nice and secretly thinks i'm a stalker/creep? even though i want to get to know her, i avoid her so she doesn't think i'm stalking her. how do i get over the feeling of being a creep? we have talked a few times now and she says i make her feel incredible inside, but i still think she is just too nice.

2006-11-18 20:54:29 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i dont got any proof but i think that my friend can't tell me a lie as due to her we bind that relation 3 years ago but now she only say that pls break it i dont want to see my friend with that boy whom i had seen with someone else. Can i ever forget him as in every moment i miss him nd wish that its all would be a dream. I always believe him so much that at first when my friend told me to leave him i dont even ask her that y she is saying i said to her that i believe him very much rest it would be my bad luck.

2006-11-18 20:54:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

2006-11-18 20:48:24 · 17 answers · asked by abii 1

When I was younger and still at school I was the kind of person who didn’t take any S H I T from anybody. And if anybody picked on me at school I would beat the living hell out of them. I am now 24 years and I really want to control my temper around Jerks. Because I am still surprised there are still jerks at 24 any way I really want to control my temper towards them because if they start on me or anyone I care about I really loose it I am not as bad as I was at school because their was no stopping me then. But now I really want to change. Please help.

2006-11-18 20:48:22 · 19 answers · asked by ? 1

There is this guy whom I like since a few months ago. However this year he is having his major exams, which has just ended. He confessed to me that he likes me, but Ive heard from friends that he's not a good guy. Sometimes somethings he do or say hurts me, and he doesnt know it. I really donno what he wants now that his exams are over but we both have feelings for each other. I feel like I should forget him and move on, probably concentrate on my studies first since I dont see where our relationship is heading... What should I do?

2006-11-18 20:47:32 · 8 answers · asked by poison b 1

when the guy who likes you gets jealous of you cos you talk and play happily with other guys, what will probably be his next move?
flirt with other girls to test your reaction?

2006-11-18 20:46:30 · 11 answers · asked by rachel 3

2006-11-18 20:45:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

iam 33 there is this younger guy that has come in my life he is 20 he makes my heart feel new but there is a big age diffence between us shoudl it matter should i care what should i do iam flying so high i feel free this is the feeling he gives me please help what is you thhoughts shoud i or not

2006-11-18 20:44:49 · 10 answers · asked by sad_angel_eyes_4u 3