Do you go for looks or personality first?? What is your ideal girl?
2006-11-18 21:27:18 · 20 answers · asked by LC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm, difficult to answer in one sentence, but generally different people have different choices.
Mostly would definitely go for good looking sexy girls, so that they can show them off to their friends etc.
Otherwise, I would personally put intelligence as a first priority and other things comes later.
2006-11-18 21:39:38 · answer #1 · answered by GS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks do come first with anyone. But what I've personally seen, is that guys look for the "good girls." A guy would rather have a girl that he wouldn't have to doubt. Someone that has a great personality and treats him good. Someone to care for him, as he cares for her.
The "good guys" don't want a girl that doesn't leave anything to his imagination. He's able to get to know what kind of girl she really is. You'll find a lasting relationship that way.
The "bad guys" are the ones who look for the, let's say, the provocitively dressed kind of girls. Girls that think the less clothes they put on the better my chances will be to "get the guy". That guy is only looking for sex, and know he'll get it.
Think about that. A guy wants a girl he could be proud of taking home to meet mom. Not someone he can depend on a booty call.
2006-11-19 05:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anna 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There isn't a certain booklet for us guys that tell us what to look for in a woman. Although attraction is important along with eye contact mixed with some playful flirting. When I approach a woman I look for confidence, a smile something welcoming so I can approach decently. When I introduce myself to her I look for certan signs that she is interested to hear about me. Does she turn her body in my direction, does she stop talking to her Friends and listen to what I have to say. Does she give me a welcoming smile. Once I have broken through this barrier I will ask her some questions about herself, and go into a conversation with her. If she can converse back with me on a certain subject this means she has some sort of brains which in my book is important, can she laugh at a joke and can she take a joke on her. Remember the most important thing you can do is just be yourself if you try and impress you will fall short and miss out on something that could have been good.
2006-11-19 05:49:47 · answer #3 · answered by george 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personality is a must. Physical aspects are a plus. Overly controling or demanding are a true turn off.Easy going and natural are real fine qualities.
2006-11-19 08:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by phockit47 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Naturally appearance matters at that very first time we notice a girl, but personality determines if we'll want a relationship with that girl.
2006-11-19 05:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I am looking for a friend, I would look for brains. If its for a girl friend, it would be looks plus personality.
However, if its just a girl and I am checking her out, it would be her looks especially her lips, hands and feet coupled with her voice.
2006-11-19 05:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by Achilles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decent looks + caring/loving/sweet personality = wife material
just had to keep that short and straight 2 da point! =D
2006-11-19 05:28:57 · answer #7 · answered by thugster17 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were a guy, my ideal girl would be fun-loving, feminine, funny, smart.
2006-11-19 05:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by JustJane 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They go for the girl's physical appearance. Usually those guys are addicted to sex.
2006-11-19 05:31:33 · answer #9 · answered by curious~me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me personality, is a first, a girl has to make me laugh, looks, just being herself
2006-11-19 05:40:23 · answer #10 · answered by lilgoofball05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋