well..i am in love with this guy but I am far more intelligent than him...i am like..best girl in class (academically) i look better than average and only 1 and a half inch shorter than him..still..he or better to say noone has asked me out. I am slim too but not very sporty..usually i am given "leadership tasks"..so is my being "better" the reason of him not liking me?
2006-11-18 22:27:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what shall i do? i can't flirt because its not my way..i have tried my best ..had been myself around him and all..
2006-11-18 22:28:43 · update #1
okay to be more clear i use "i am better than..." not that i have an ego..he also knows that i am a down to earth girl.
2006-11-18 23:09:44 · update #2
In terms of better than me, yes I like someone who is out of my league. Some guys like to be the dominant ones. For example, some want to make more money, have the better job, be taller, be older, and a lot of other things compared to girls. Others may be intimidated or just scared of rejection. I fall in that category. I would say, personally, that so long as your personalities fit, that is all that matters. Good luck.
You also asked what shall I do. What you can do past being yourself and not flirting, is oging up and confessing. Direct way to find out if there is a possibility or not.
2006-11-18 23:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by joe19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the fact that you have an out-of-control ego is what's keeping the guys away...you think you're better than them.
2006-11-19 06:29:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my hope is that she'll get a really good job and keep me in the manner which I've become accustom to.
2006-11-19 06:37:43 · answer #3 · answered by stezus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me answer that with a Haiku.
Gentle stroking
friction is an asset
manglue covers hand
2006-11-19 06:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by Minmi 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah,I dont mind that and I dont mind liking someone who is worse than me either...if we like each other the thats what matters....all the differences are nothing to us.
2006-11-19 06:29:45 · answer #5 · answered by Shady E 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it's simply because you're so far up your own ars e. That's why he doesn't like you.
2006-11-19 06:29:37 · answer #6 · answered by Billy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
soory since your academically good he must be too slow for you
2006-11-19 06:32:13 · answer #7 · answered by titties 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it'll never work out.
2006-11-19 06:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋